I usually don't get involved in flame wars, but your comments are absolutely silly. The problem with posting names, phone numbers, pics, disparaging comments, threats, whines, etc, etc, etc is that there is no assurance that the information gathered by the provider is absolutely correct. In fact, in this case, she has no confirmation such as a look at a driver's license to be sure that the information published is accurate.
I fully agree that the ladies should be treated with the utmost respect. That is simply part of the service equation. However, respect is a two-way proposition. I would suggest that a public forum is never, ever, a place to post a summary of personal information. Tell me, would you really seek to visit a provider who had an uneasy feeling about a potential client, then splashed the personal info all over the net? The next time you are talking to her, and sneeze, you should hope that she does not spread the news that you are 'diseased' and should not be considered worthy. Yeah, I know, equally ridiculous, but isn't that what we have here? A continuing stream of gross over-reaction?
Since your comments indicate that it's OK to publish personal info, why not be the leader in the trend. Would you kindly post your verifiable e-mail address, home phone, work phone, name, job position, next of kin, financial statement, credit card number, mother's maiden name, and make and model of your auto?
All in all, let's cool it! All that this series of message threads has proven is that there is very little true honor among many (not all) of the provider and of the hobbyist community. I, for one, will be dealing with those who are demonstrated to be trustworthy, provide value for services, and can conduct themselves in a civil manner.