I'm a total GFE and welcome the PSE experience. I also love arrangements . Arrangements make this so much easier.  I like to hang out before the session. Makes it so much easier. I'm a different provider but...
I'd like the opinion of men and the vets! Do u find it too time consuming? I find it safer because my freedom is never on the line?
Dialogue? What are your thoughts 💭

I've had the gamut of providers and SB type arrangements and I strongly prefer the SB type arrangements best. With that said, I also prefer a longer date with a provider so it's more relaxed and natural rather than seeing what we can do in a hours timeframe. On a first date though, I'm not that interested in having drinks or dinner until I see whether or not it is someone I WANT to spend time with. If theres not much chemistry, I don;t want to get tied into a long drawn out thing.  
For women I enjoy seeing, nothing better than a long evening.

I have been almost exclusively been in arrangements over the last year or so, and yes I like the aspect of basically "clock free" dates.

I think it comes down to what you want from a relationship.  I like having a regular (or two) that know me well and are ready to play on (reasonably) short notice.  I can have continuity (like in role play) and intimacy (of the physical and emotional kind) which is important to me.  And I can do it on my own schedule - which is a factor (as mine is crazy).

Is toward the arrangement method for many of the reasons gambler said.

Never tried the SB route, but I do prefer being a regular to 1 provider and longer engagements.

I have done escorting as well as having SB/SD arrangements and I'll be honest I enjoyed the arrangements more because you actually get to learn about them and what they are into, not only that but you build that comfort wall that is so hard for a lot of men to break down sometimes.... believe it or not. Lol I've always preferred long term clientele anyways but that's just my opinion

The term hook is really Derogatory. Granted I understand everything u speak of. That term justbmake rhe time of your message negative.  
But I get what your saying

A rose by any other name...

I enjoy spending time with and getting to know a provider.  It makes the whole experience better when you know the other person and click.  That said my schedule tends to be tough and unpredictable.  I really like the idea of an arrangement but it just does not tend to work well for me.

I got nothing to add, but Gambler- keep using hooker, please!. I despise "provider". We are all adults. Let's call things by their name

I think most people who feel uncomfortable with the word "hooker", or "john" for that matter are either ashamed of what they do or have been conditioned by society that what we do is somehow "dirty" and I simply don't feel that way and that is why although you might occasionally see me use the term "hobbyist" or "the hobby" it's rare and I NEVER will call myself a hobbyist, like you I despise the term.

Are that i really like the personal connection . After seeing  the same Lady only for a while we worked out a arrangement.For me that works out great .having a set time and days  every month makes it easy. I Love it .

I am always looking for a cool friend to go on dates at the lake or beach,  maybe someone that could join me for a day or two.  It often takes too much research and then to sync schedules to find someone cool enough that is not just doing it for the money but also to have some fun which many here would not find synonymous (ie fun and money).  That is usually why it is more fun to be with someone that wants both.  Anyway, the 1 hour chicken choke can be rushed if you like to have 2-3 hr more natural sessions.  It seems many arrangement type of women are more normal type of people anyway for it must be very hard to be an escort with all the risk and never knowing who/what you will see.

I've done both escorting & arrangements and I can honestly say I prefer an arrangement much more. Through the years of doing this, I have learned that I'm not always going to be every clients cup of tea, just something they're in the mood for if that makes sense. Growing an arrangement with one particular person was a better situation. The one year I had that with someone special, was probably the happiest I had ever been. We connected on a deep and intimate level. I looked forward to seeing him every week and it wasn't because of the financial help, it was because I really grew to like him. I was even considering something more ( even with the age gap ) I just didn't care, I liked being around someone that made me feel like that. Something where you don't even realize that it's an arrangement

I have not been here for a while. I've actually been off in Sugar land. I shadowed SA for a month before joining. Stayed a premium member for a month and had some interesting hits. After communicating with ladies I narrowed it down and have an awesome SB. We just hit it off wonderfully.

Thanks for this comment. Curious about your thoughts on why you despise the term "provider?"  I think it's cold and clinical and have not liked it much. But I also don't like the "hooker" terminology either. It's doesn't do justice to the services you provide? Not trying to be politically correct, just inquiring!

So I've never seen arrangement and SD/SB distinguished from each other. I honestly thought they were one in the same.  So what am I missing?  What's the difference, and is there a fine line between the two?  

Lol "hooker rates" would you get a load of this guy. Lol some men are so funny.

All we can do is take it in stride. I'm a provider ... the hooker ish irks me but in this business... oh well!

I am very "anti PC" and I don't like terms that try to sugarcoat an activity. "Hobbyist" is one of the worst IMHO, I much prefer "whore monger" or even better "whore mongering pig" lol I am what I am, I do what I do and I do so without even the least bit of shame. If I have to be ashamed of something I do, it means I should really be taking a long hard look at that activity.  

I don't think your missing anything. I think it's just verbage .

There is no real difference between the terms, as you said "it's just verbage" (sic) lol

I JUST saw this, but yep, it's cold, clinical, PC, and so vague as to be meaningless. Hooker is just funny to me, so I like using it, especially because it always makes my lady friends here crack up and startles the guys, lol. I think the word "whore" needs to be reclaimed- I absolutely love this job, it's extremely multifaceted, and I don't need a dull and sterile term to refer to me OR my job

I always saw women about once a month until I found someone who I had feeling for and vise vera. She has left the business  working at a normal job but we still see each other frequently and  I'll help her out every once in a while when she needs 💰 . Works for me and whatever floats your boat

I'm asked this question every once in a while by a young lady (civilian) if I would be open to a SD/Sb relationship. This is after a few fun times out doing the gun range or go carting or dinner as examples. I always say no but wonder if I could do it financially. I'm just curious about an allowance and how often is it given such as weekly, monthly etc. feel free to pm me. Thanks in advance.