I find it amusing sometimes, and other times just down right disappointing that we have so many threads over time where somebody feels it's their duty to try and tell others how to spend their time, their money, their preferences, etc....  Whether someone wants to partake of the type session you mention, or not, really isn't the business of anyone else.  If I like meatloaf, no doubt somebody will try and tell me I'm messed up cause I don't choose steak.  It's never a "black and white, true or false" issue.  There are great experiences to be had at any time regardless of where the ad was placed, what the details were, how she looked, etc....  And just as easily, there are some pretty bad experiences for any of those options as well.  Those who think there is "only" one right answer are doomed to miss out on some of life's little memories.