Ladies,

In reading reviews over time (not just recent reviews), there sometimes seems to be a discrepancy about CBJ and BBBJ.

So, the question is - Do you change your level of service in this area, sometimes covering and sometimes not? Is it a decision you make once you've seen the guy?

Or, is it that some reviewers just don't want to reveal all the facts, leaving you some "wiggle room" for the next guy?

And, what about spitting and swallowing? I've seen the same discrepancies, where I am expecting the lady to walk away, but she doesn't. Is swallowing also a sometimes thing?

Just trying to figure this out so my feeble mind can concentrate on more important matters ... like, as Jolie (she's such a sweetie) might put it, "Who do I taste next?"

The only time I have ever done a CBJ is if the client wanted it!!! As for the other oh no, I never spit!!!!! I love my protein shakes!!!!...LOL

Terri

I as well only do a CBJ when asked. And to spit what a waste of protien. However, I am sure, in some cases the CBJ might be prefereable to the provider depending on the cleanliness of the gentleman caller. And in the case of the reviews it is most likely the gentelmen could prefer not to reveal receiving a BBBJ. When my gentlemen calles call me the normally ask.

Have a Wonderful Day.
Hugs and Kisses Monette

All the sexy talk about fun....... and I have to work football today instead of being with Teri or Jolie,  bummer.

Ladies I am coming your way soon...

It's based on how clean the guy is and what he has going on down there.  I for one can't stand smelly ass people that don't seem to know to shower before coming over or before having me come over.  Then I definitely cover it up.  Also uncircumcised men seem to always have this one smell down there and it's horrible so if you're uncirmcised, you might want to wash right before the session.  Hope this helps!

PS - I can't stand bad, foul mouth breath either!

With regards to personal hygene, what do we have running around. I would think, if someone is sweating, they would ask for a shower before.

I suspect most providers would welcome this.

A note to Vivica, I think you are generalizing about uncircumcised men. Agree they nedd to be careful and more hygenic, for their own safety.

OK not trying to start a war here. Just some factual questions and facts on hygene.

Remembering "cleanliness is next to godliness" would help!

Thank you so much, Vivica!!  It does depend on many factors; cleanliness is a very huge factor.  Guys, just as you don't enjoy eating somewhere there is a bad odor, neither do we...

Think about it...We have a duty to ensure we are clean.  At least I would believe so.  I truly believe that many men take this industry for granted at times.  Must we put up with this...gents who forego checking themselves to ensure they are clean as well?

I don't cover up for BJ unless it looks odd...Gents, just because we are in this industry, does not mean we are streetwalkers.  If you know you have a condition, cover up!  To be blunt; if you know your member looks like it just went through a meat grinder, then cover up!!!

There is a reason I get tested every 3 months...There is a reason I take a shower before and after an appointment.  There is a reason I wash my mouth with Peroxyl before and after an appointment.  There is a reason we ask if you would like some water when you visit us...

Gentlemen, this is a big deal.  But all I can say is my opinion, and express my beliefs on this topic.

While we are on the topic, though; please understand...I forego the protein shakes because all men do NOT taste the same.  That is my personal preference, understand...

But cleanliness is a very big deal...I know you guys can't smell yourselves like we can, lol...but unless you stepped out of the shower before coming to see one of us fine ladies, PLEASE use our facilities/toiletries to wash up, with soap and water...a once over with a wet washcloth is really not enough sometimes to get rid of the everyday scents of what type of day you've had...

All in all, I would have to say that if one provider covers up on you, that is her personal preference; but I would take it to heart...it may not always be a personal preference...

Ok, this is my $5 on the subject...;-p

Sofia

Oh, and I forgot to mention...I have been lucky that the gents I have seen who are uncircumsised have been very clean.  But I know it happens...so please take our words to heart...

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I love oral both ways.  Nothing, and I mean nothing turns me off more than an odor.  Sets the mood for the entire time and kills the moment.  Being a very oral guy, I won't do what I love most to do.  The lady will never see me again either.  

I will say this, it doesn't happen often with the ladies.  I have no idea how often it happens with the men.

Thank you, Vivica and Sofia. I was wondering if hygeine was the issue, or if you made this decision based on something else. (Like I think I said, a few times I've received more than I thought I would, based on the reviews. I guess that's because I  DO  shower right before driving over to meet a lady.)

Sofia, I think this one went over my head. You said, "There is a reason we ask if you would like some water when you visit us..." Could you explain?

I'm waiting for more ladies to chime in on this subject.........

I am with you atlantamike that part about asking a client if he wants water when he comes to see me.......I ask just out of common courtesy...I think we all expect each other to have good hygiene.......Every provider is different when it comes to how they conduct there business......Always be safe no matter what!!

Terri

The inconsistencies could be because of an embellished review.(oh no, say it isn't so! lol) It could be for the reasons stated above. It could very well be that the reviews are correct and the provider sometimes does and doesn't perform these things. That is what YMMV is all about.

If you have any questions, in  my opinion, communicate! There isn't anything worse than having an appointment and expectations are different than what happened. (besides safety issues of course)

It isn't all about cleanliness or inconsistenices.

If a gent comes to me and he walks in the door with sweat on his forehead, I'll ask him if he would like to join me in the shower. This alleviates him feeling awkward for any reason and you having to ask him. Getting wet together is a great way to start off your fun time! If the lady is perceptive enough, she will be able to anticipate most of his needs and be able to graciously curtail any issues that may come to be. In my opinion, most gents don't need to be taught about cleanliness, but what do I know.

Communication, Communication, Communication!!!

Can't say it enough.
xoxo
B

I have seen a handful of uncircumcised men and not one of them smelled FRESH.

Thanks a million times over for taking the words right out of my mouth (excuse the pun)!

If you guys want to see a provider "really getting into it", then yes, yes, yes.......PLEASE don't overlook TOTAL body hygiene.

Hugs & Kisses and I'm still LMAO!!

Alexis

BTW, I can't seem to retrieve my mail on here yet, so PLEASE contact me at: [email protected]

Wow!!!

I never knew there was so much going on with this.  I just assumed that showering was just a protocal.  I know I always shower before and after.  It is always nice to be offered a shower when I arrive to see a lady.  I know I feel better.  Heck, it's summer time and we all sweat alttle bit.  The car can be kinda hot....  I know that I expect a lady to be clean and fresh and she should expect the same.  I guess it all comes down to home training!!!

Just my thoughts.......
Mj

Alright,

This is the reason for the water...I truly enjoy kissing, and there is nothing that is more of a turnoff than a slimy kisser...

Gents, this has to be my #1 pet peeve of all time...water helps wash your mouth out, and that includes whatever may be left sitting in the back of your throat...I don't want your saliva all over my face, or running down my legs, into my featherbed...ugh!

And it also allows me to drink some water before we get even more comfortable...

So; that is my reason for the water...;-p

Sofia

Interesting!!!!!!
Can I have a glass of water??????  I am very thristy.........

MonsterJazz

Then I feel sorry for those sad guys that didn't take the time to clean up beforehand (or ask for a shower at the start). Besides showering, and using a little cologne, I also try to use some mouth wash and make certain I am "very presentable", just like you would do on a date!! (hint, hint ...)

I guess it just boils down to the respect issue, in a way.

Thanks, ladies. I appreciate your input into this puzzling topic. For me - I'm going to continue my shower routines, and just enjoy my rewards!!

But dont forget ladies, that smelling good and having good hygene goes both ways, and I figure if I smell good and im all showered and stuff Ill get better service.

May be poor choice of clent screening