my question to the ladies is how much do you enjoy oral on you? I look at it this way its my dime and I want to do what I enjoy doing which is I love to eat pussy and enjoy it very much and no rush. sure its about the lady pleasuring me but I also enjoy pleasuring her as well, as foreplay.  to me nothing like some sweet,juicy pussy on my face before fucking it.

I'm sure for most ladies here, the honest answer is that it DEPENDS on your technique.  Some gentlemen who say they wany to pleasure me genuinely take the time to understand what kind of technique I enjoy and take feedback well because they are actually interested in making me feel good ~ and every lady likes something a little different.  I always enjoy it when a gentleman GENUINELY wants to learn how to make me feel good and is willing to work at getting me to an explosive O!  

Why the emphasis on the word GENUINE?  Well, for some gentlemen it is only in their fantasies that they want to pleasure a woman.  In reality, they want to bury their face as deep as they can in a wet pussy and go buck wild without any regard to whether what they are doing is pleasurable or downright painful.  It's more about the psychological experience for them of going down on a woman all buck wild and how they can get tranced-out and lost in it, NOT about whether what they're doing actually feels good to a lady.  I know we are in the business of providing fantasies here, but I refuse to pretend that something that is downright painful feels good (for the sake of every other woman in your life, if nothing else), so I do not enjoy this dynamic, when a guy pretends that he is SOOO interested in pleasing me and then ignores my constructive feedback about how to actually make the experience pleasurable for me.  I feel this is the number one reason why some providers dislike or disallow DATY.

So yep, totally depends on your technique and the lady in question and whether it works for her or not.  And whether you're good at learning what she likes and adjusting your technique based on her feedback.  Every lady is different, so you can always ask her if you are doing it how she likes or if she prefers it a little differently.  

Receiving oral sex puts me in a very vulnerable position. And vulnerability is nice,  but it can also be a bit scary. I am practically always open to receiving it, assuming there are no clearly visible dental health issues on the part of the giver, but I always start off of a little hesitant. I suppose it's safe to say that I hope for the best and kind of expect the worst lol.

Luckily, I've never experienced anything horrible like biting or pulling, but I have experienced things that I don't particularly enjoy like excess saliva or hard clitoral sucking. Generally, I'll just switch to something else if I'm not enjoying things. It's hard to "teach" someone the most pleasurable way to give me oral sex in the limited time that we'll have together. And I'd much rather we do things that I enjoy that are easier to explain like being slowly fingered or having my nipples softly sucked.

There are so many wonderful way to provide pleasure to a woman, we come equipped with all these beautiful, arousable body parts. If you want to pleasure the companion that you're with ponyman49, just ask her what she'd enjoy. She may say daty, or if she's like me,  she may say that she'd love for you to get on top, slip inside of her and stroke her slightly while she rubs her clitoris.

Ultimately, it's your fantasy to fulfill. And if you desire to just dive face first into a yummy pussy, that's perfectly ok and completely understandable. But don't do it under the guise of wanting to provide pleasure to her, if your    goal is really just to enjoy the experience for yourself.

Yes, I do think I'm good at it and I do realize that every woman is different and I have no problem with her telling me how she likes it, I want her input because my goal is to enjoy her orgasm on my tongue and mouth. So yes please do give direction to what you like.

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Great replies from both you ladies. I thank you.

Maybe I'm atypical, maybe I'm not.  If I see that you're not enjoying yourself, I'm probably going to do something else.  I don't necessarily need to hear you say that you don't like something, there are plenty of non-verbal cues.  I pay attention to that, I have a lot more fun with someone who's enjoying herself.  If you wrap your legs around me and pull me in tight, I'd suspect that you like what's happening.  OTOH, if you squirm to pull away, I should stop what I'm doing.

id be happy to give some free trials and you can tell me what you think.  ladies form a single line then 2 if needed.

.....but they don't always say. In that case I just pay attention to her reactions as I try different things. It is important to not be too rough though. There are many nerve endings down there. I always make sure my face is freshly shaven. Razor stubble probably feels pretty rough even against her thigh. There is plenty of info out there as far as technique is concerned but finding what she likes is still key. What one woman enjoys may not be the same as another woman. Yanno, "different strokes" and all.

That's mainly the only type of porn I watch. I'm constantly thinking about it.  
 I love, love, love cunnilingus. I steer by the ears! Lmao  

It really takes my drive to another level. Any encounter that I have that includes that, (Especially if it's good) is bound to be a great one.

I can't say that my love for cunnilingus is dependent upon whether the guy is good at it or not. You can always do your best to tell him how you like it. And I sometimes send some of my favorite videos beforehand if they're interested in learning how I like it.

Daty & breast play really should be a prerequisite to anything else in my opinion. lol

I just simply f**king LOVE it! I could be Completely satisfied with oral play only. LOVE!

My 2c

-Anina

Who knows. I might just like his technique. He might show me something I didn't know I loved.  

Then when I see its going nowhere I'll let him know what I like.

The best daty I've had to date, I didn't have to say a word lol.

-Anina

This is sooooo true!! Most guys don't have to ask me, I usually just guide them along. If all else fails,  just ask her
Hugs and kisses
TL