Plan ahead
Do your research
Contact a Provider you like
Get Screened
Go with her recommendation for the 2nd lady OR
repeat & rinse above

OR

Post general post on TER sharing your wishes in one hand and what's in the other?

Check Groupon for a two for one special.
Get a sammich or two and STFU.

So who pulled the first two humorous replies,  but left the generic " I want to have sex tomorrow  - who is available? " post from the OP?

Thanks for the suggestion. You do what works for you and I will do what works for me. Until I can be shown that I violated a rule, hear from a monitor or staff, or am told that I hurt or offended someone I will continue to sort through the scads of private messages I get in response to this type of post, offering very reasonable sessions with reputable providers. I know many more providers than I review and this is where they hang out. I don't do this style of post very often. I' m not a message board serial solicitor.

But speaking for myself, I don't care for the feeling of being asked to jump through hoops saying "pick me pick me" on a discussion board.  When the gentleman doesn't do his research, plan ahead, and hand select the lady of his choice there's also the possibility of the dreaded "Well she wasn't my body type but she was all that was available" review plus your discontent and buyer's remorse coming later.  I want EVERYBODY to be happy and have fun.

I agree Fallon, I don't post much, but I had to respond to this...
I do my research whether I'm doing a dbl or just seeing one lovely lady. But Dbls are even more complex.
I've had the pleasure of doing several dbls and it has never been an easy event to plan. Well worth it I'll add, but time consuming. Guys  If you're like me... the ladies need to be into each other and you need to have seen at least one of them before so that there's chemistry you can bank on.
I had the pleasure of doing a couple of dbls with Steffi Stevens and I let her pick the 3rd.
The whole "Pickme" thing is a bit crazy I agree.
This isn't a shill for Steffi... but we've seen each other enough that she knows what I like and she knows what she likes. It made for amazing times. just my two cents.

The OP wasn't inviting you to register your discontent with his process.  He wants a threesome, and he's looking for replies from girls who are interested.  You sure are being a wet blanket for someone who wants "everybody to be happy and have fun."

ck and anyone else

Based on the responses I'm not the only one who feels this way.  Please, be hateful, mean, and take some positive advice and twist it into something negative.  Ladies like to be made to feel special not just another hole on a list.

Thanks,you are obviously a gentleman who get it!

The only problem is your advice wasn't requested.  You just wanted everyone to know how you felt.  
So you don't like to respond to ISO posts.  Great.  But lots of good providers are more practical and don't need to be virtually romanced into providing good service.  "I'm looking for" has worked before and it will work again. This board doesn't revolve around your preferences, insecurities, etc.  Did you even consider that your self-centered rant might discourage other ladies here who might have been inclined to oblige the OP?  Of course you didn't.

Thanks for being so helpful though.  

While I totally understand when a provider might not want to respond to a post like this out of a feeling of not wanting through hoops, there is at least some aspect of this request that I find perfectly acceptable...

As someone who is more spontaneous (or compulsive, depending on your view), most of my experiences in the hobby end up being more shorter in notice than longer.  It's just how I'm wired, and what works for me.

I love the idea of finding someone available right when I am available, it lends that feeling of "the stars are aligne and d, today's my lucky day!"

Of course, I never expect a provider to be available and am very pleasant regardless of availability, but eventually it works out and I find someone available and it's cool.

I must assume that if the provider doesn't want to jump through hoops then she'll say she's not available, and it's all good.

I realize that some providers want this treated with more romance, but I just prefer the feeling of mutual spontaneity.

Not saying anyone's right or wrong here, just exposing some inner thoughts...

What y'all been chatting about? I've been busy getting laid by a couple of lovely ladies. What did I miss?