c'mon guys, be honest about it...

I read some of these reviews, and mostly laugh.

I think a lot of you guys really embellish your performance.  Now I know the girls don't mind - it gives them a good review.

But c'mon guys, be honest about it...

They say guys peak at 18.  I really don't think I slowed down for a long time after that.  But I'm getting older now, and I can definitely feel a difference.

Other than some pretty hard living, I have one big factor - I smoke.  Not real heavy - maybe half a pack a day - but I don't just light 'em, I burn 'em.  That's not helping.  

I am 41. I'm not trying to toot my own horn - I'm no Chippendale, that's for sure LOL, and I am certainly not trying to diss anyone else in terms of physique, etc.

But I kind of suspect I am still somewhere on the younger/lighter side of the "reviewer curve", knocked back quite a few percentiles by smoking.

And a lot of guys seem to be pretty honest.  But read a LOT of these reviews, and I just don't think most of us, including me definitely, are really that studly.

I mean, not wearing it out but just flat out tearing it up non-stop for a solid hour with 3 pops?  

I bet the girls would tell a much different story ...  

Re:c'mon guys, be honest about it...

To quote you... "not wearing it out but just flat out tearing it up non-stop for a solid hour with 3 pops?"

I NEED to see a man like this...  

NOW  I had a Frenchman for a while that kept me in check.  Damn,  I could sure use some of that.

OK  OK  I will stop with the post  was just all excited at the though of a man with alittle age on him that was into keeping up with a woman in her peak.  (I am just not into younger men)

I do have a question...

How long is a womans peak supposed to last.  I think I started at 31 and it has not slowed up at all?

xoxox
Heidi

Uh, but that doesn't have to be in one session though, right?  I mean like I can come back to see the lady a few days later and as long as I'm wearing the same shirt it still counts doesn't it?  I have to agree that a lot of the reviews do tend to make one wonder if they were either written by oil rig workers who get in to town every couple of months, by guys who eat a hell of a lot more oysters than I do, or by guys who count a pop as each time they move their hips toward the girl.  Speaking of sexual peaks, I reached mine at 17 - in an elevator - stuck between floors - alone.  Sometimes it sucks to be me.

Guys have good days and bad... I can give a general statement in saying over 35 can be happy with the fact that they could pop once fairly quickly and take their time for the second. If a gentleman plays it right the first one is breaking the ice and the play is in the rest of the hour... whether or not a second cup makes it to the table usually isn't an issue. Of course we do have some 45 year old guys that play golf, swim, run, eat healthy and sleep well.... and the second cup is routine, the third gets to be the challenge then. But what the hell: if a client knows he can make two he will want three, if he knows he could make three he would want four... thank heavens each guy knows his limit otherwise I have to think they would just continue to outdo themselves and nothing would ever get accomplished *LOL*... and stop picking on those "romance" writers (as we like to call them) they are amusing themselves and entertaining us on a boring day *LOL* *LOL*   ...kisses ~Tori

Henry:

Something about reading your post, and it hit me!

OK everyone knows what "The standard 2 call system" is, of course.

And now I understand where the 3 pops with one provider come from.  This is "The Standard 3 Pop System", and I KNOW all you guys will recognize this one from personal experience, LOL.

1st pop with same provider:  

Happens within your preferred range of scheduling.  You know this one - you want to be "full", but you don't want to cum in less than 10 (5?) minutes.   You know you are going to see "Hottie" on Yday, so you jack off on Xday, which falls on however many days before Yday you think is "right" for you.

Then no more activity until:

2nd pop with same provider:  

You actually meet "Hottie", and despite having practiced the "rhythym method", you still pop within 10 (5?) minutes.    Then you spend the rest of your hour - maybe - trying to get it up again.  If you are really studly, you are starting to get hard again about when she kicks you to the curb.

3rd pop with same provider:

Of course, this occurs sometime shortly after having left "Hottie"'s place, because now you have to jack off again thinking about what you could have done if you could just have managed that boner while you were still there.

Eureka!  3 pops "with" 1 provider, LOL.

Admit it guys.  You know we've all done it, there's no shame in it

"The Standard 3 Pop System".

I think I'll post it on the national board.  I'm  sure every hobbyist in the friggin' country has done this one, LOL!!!

R

Re:c'mon guys, be honest about it...

It's a good point.  I'm 32 and have been in the hobby for quite awhile.
I'm very fit.  

I think it really depends on the provider.  I can easily
go for 3 if it's been awhile... Some providers have made me feel like
I am the only man in the world and I leave with that feeling of "damn I'm a stud".  

These providers I mention typically make me go the distance ( I'm dizzy from the 1st ).  

Some providers can be a fantasy realized and I want to let others know that they can
share the same kind of expierience with a her.

To me this is why I see a provider and I want to let others know how I felt about
my expierience with her.

Likewise, we are all different and have different ideas on what fulfills us.  Some of
us jump out of planes and find it boring...  some of us jump out of planes and imagine
ourselves to be 007 on a dangerous mission.  

When a provider makes me feel like 007, I can go forever and give her whatever.  It's the
fantasy...  Not a competetion.  Have fun, be kind and safe.

goodspeed

As you get older, it takes longer to recharge the batteries between rounds. It's physiological.

I believe that when they say men peak sexually at age 17, it has to do with frequency, not staying power (any guy at any age can visualize Nancy Grace during sex and keep from finishing for quite a while).

So, a 17-year-old is ready to go again sooner than a 67-year-old, even if they're with the same woman.

I hear it takes about 24 hours to recharge between rounds as you get into your 60s. Others here can comment on that better than I can.

It also depends on the mental stimulation. Arousal (sending blood to Mr. Happy) is both physical (touching it) and mental (thinking about what's coming).

So, a lot depends on the situation and/or woman.

The first time Billy Joel was with Christie Brinkley, I'm sure he thought, "Oh my God, I've got Christie Brinkley naked" and he lost it before he got his pants down.

A few months later, it was, "Christie Brinkley again?"

The first time you're with a provider is probably going to arouse you more than your 10th time.

Clothing, age, race, danger of getting caught...whatever turns you on...adds to arousal and, therefore, ability.

Also need to take into account if you're covered or not, if there are any distrations (smells, sounds, time pressure).

I could do three pops in an hour with Christie Brinkley, no problem (the first time). With a local provider...she'd have to be a 10 in face and figure. And keep her mouth shut!

I'm 33, and I know I could get 3, if you someone will let me!

Oh how funny,... I'd have to say that I agree with you in that a lot of reviews are just a tiny bit embellished as far as performance goes. But I mean really, now who is going to go and write something along the lines of,... 'I started to pound her tight ass doggie style with my throbbing 2 1/2" cock, but after 3 good strokes I was out of breath...' or  'she was kissing me long and deep while straddling me on the sofa when I accidentally let it go and soiled myself'.  Hummm,...not very likely that you will ever read something like that in a review. But I'm sure things like that happen every day in this 'hobby'. So even if the experience might have in reality been less than what it was portrayed, what does it matter. Are you looking for reality or fantasy??? Because think about it, isn't creating an illusion or fantasy a major part of a providers role. Really isn't that what a 'girl friend experience' is,... an illusion. And if part of that illusion is someone leaving thinking that they are a better lover than they might actually be,...well great. Just because something is not 'real', doesn't mean that it wasn't 'real' for the person who experienced it. Remember, your largest sexual organ is in your head. The big head, not the little one.  
*** every experience is exactly what we allow it to be.***

But I will add this. I'd say most of the embellishment in reviews is more along the lines of the duration of an act or someones overall stamina, not the number of pops. I've ceased to be amazed by the amount of times some clients can cum in a single session. Honestly, I think three is closer to the average rather than an exaggeration. I've seen clients that double that!!! (But I could also count the number of sessions that I have done that have only lasted 60 minutes.) Suppose there is something to be said for pharmaceutical advancements!!! LOL

Re:c'mon guys, be honest about it...

The reviews are to review the ladies and how the men perceive us girls. I dont think any man states " When I walked in the door and she saw my astounding, amazing muscles she went mad. She also loved my Tommy Bahama shirt and how my chest was  bulging out of it being I just came from the gym freshly clean and showered. . After that I went back to my Jag and had a great day.

There are girls that can make a man pop 3 times in an hour. There are men that only want one pop in one hour..THere are men and providers that chemistry mixes so heavily their time goes over and they are jackrabbits for 90 minutes. I have a 76 yr old client that pops twice.

Stop smoking, keep yourself healthy and you can find out on your own. Then maybe we will write our story on YOU.

Moral of the story :

People who live in glass houses should fuck in the basement

If the lady holds my balls, just holds them, while we talk after the first load (which is usually pretty quick), I can get it up and down again.

Three pops . . . get real!

Re:c'mon guys, be honest about it...

Guys, I'm 47, I had no problem going 3 pops with Amanda in 60 mins, I guess it does matter who you are with and how you are being treated, and how well rested you are!

I fondly remember the first time I saw Heidi Mueller(now retired unfortunately).  She instructed me to eat lite the day before and drink lots of water and get a good night's rest.  Those basic instructions really help.  I always get 2, sometimes 3.  I feel like I am cheating myself if I only get 1.  That is why my friends these ladies are professionals, and I love them

the lady does her share (and she always does), which includes bj, cg, etc.  where I do not have to do all the work.  I went an hour with the famous Nikki Avalon in Vegas last week...ok now I am bragging, but it is true.  But at my age, about one pop is all I manage, unless I have a lot of recovery time.

Ok may be I have a different perspective.  Who cares how many times you pop.  As long as both parties have a good time that's the point.  I read all these reviews and most are made with way too much detail and certainly a lot of literay license.  I personally believe in taking my que from the lady.  Now I'm certainly a dominant personality having been a Marine for 30 years.  However, I learned with age that you can let the ladies take the lead and have a great time.  May be we as men should take the time to understand that kindness, tenderness, and passion go much further with the ladies than trying to prove we're porn stars.  To me being locked in a passionate embrace with a ladie that really means it because she's enjoying herself is more erotic than how many times we go at it or how many possitions we make it through.  Remeber these ladies are people not objects.  Many do it for the money but just as many do it because they truely enjoy the passion.   Ok I'll get off the soap box now.

It's not the quantity... it's the quality OR it's not the trip, it's how you get there!!

I was not commenting on the real quality of the experience, or making personla attacks on anyone's performance or provider's abilities.  I can go for an hour with the right changes of positions and if I'm really into it, but not with 3 pops.  If you can that's great.  You don't have to prove anything to me.

For me, it really depends on the lady. All of the following happened

4 in an hour: achieved one time only, with Tye
3 in an hour: happened four or five times...with Tye (either 2 or 3 times), Kimberly once (the flaky blonde one that took forever to answer the door), and Kacey Cummings once
2 in an hour: pretty standard for me

All of the above happened between the ages of 30 and 40 for me. I think we're all wired differently. On my week-long honeymoon, at age 28, the fewest number of pops I achieved in any one day was four.

Re:c'mon guys, be honest about it...

It was not a personal attack on anyone.  I'm happy with my performance as it is.  I would just as soon take my time and have one really good one.

I have never read it to evaluate the performance of the reviewer.  There is nothing worse than a hobbyist who fakes their orgasms!  LOL

Woops, I just did, oops there I go again, darn it, one more time.  I had three during the typing of this.  

-- Modified on 9/28/2005 1:02:16 PM

Yeah, I never really believe those guys that pretend to be porn star studs.  I don't really care how many times they popped as long as the lady gave them a great time.  I was hellacious, or at least I remember myself as being that way when I was 18 to 21 or so... now just greatful.

10 years ago i went 14 times in one night with a SO.  of corse this was bareback.  10 years later after PC exercises and the use of a condom i am lucky to get one pop in an session.  but to me it is more about sharing pleasure with another instead of just taking my pleasure.  if it were all about the pop i can do that alone alot cheaper.

two pops is all i got but i try like hell for three lol

Henry88,

Your reply was hilarious!  For a moment, I thought we might have already met because I love a man with unbridled humor!

I really don't think that age factors into the "pop" equation entirely.  I've had "dates" with men older and younger than me who knocked my socks off with 3 pops in 1 hour!  The pace and tone of the events were all unique, different and most certainly delightful.  I've also had incredible times with gents who had 1 super-terrific pop and then we snuggled and basked in the moment of bliss together.

The point being...all people are different and that's what makes the sessions so fun and erotic!

Here's looking at you, Henry! Kisses!

Warmest, wettest regards and three cheers for variety in the "pop-zone"...

Alexis

My response was not directed at you but rather the over all general tone of reviews and mens attitutudes towards women in general.  One of the local radio stations used to have a comedy bit they called "Lie like a guy".  Unfortunatly there is some truth in that.  Guys in general and especially here like to embellish the truth a bit when it comes to women.