Do any area providers offer a video chat (Skype or yahoo) to get to know one each other before meeting or for fantasy fulfillment? I've heard this to be mildly popular with some providers elsewhere but it seems like a sensible idea to me. A lot of compatatability or safety concerns could be addressed early.

This would be why we have private messages here, and reviews and websites. Sometimes asking some of the gentlemen that have reviewed the lady you want to see might be the best :-

I think that video chat would serve to make a lady's potential suitors feel comfortable before a meeting but not so much the "seasoned" provider.  The only way that I would feel comfortable doing a video chat with a potential suitor is if all screening had been completed beforehand to reassure me of safety--period. Furthermore, I take great pride in making sure my photos are a very accurate depiction of me (my body is my business).  I don't photoshop out tattoos but I do blur for personal privacy.  I work out, eat right and get plenty of rest so I am definitely what one expects when I walk through the door for the 1st meeting. Video chat (IMO) before the 1st meeting circumvents the provider's privacy, plus I can also see ladies being wary of time wasters who just want to peek but never set up a date.

I'd have to hear more about it from the ladies who offer this, but those are my opinions thus far.


Alexandria Fox

Very well stated!

why not use it instead Skype.

Another concern for providers would be, recording the chat session.

Please don’t tell you can’t, I will show 15 ways to do.
Not a good idea for privacy especially considering, we are society obsessed with getting back and vengeance.

I completely agree. From the pictures being honest and true depictions, down to screening before the chat. Better to be extra safe, rather than sorry.

You took the words right out of me.  If a fella does his research well enough he should be comfortable seeing the provider in person when their 1st date is scheduled and confirmed. Otherwise he simply shouldn't.

AF

That is a great way to start up a conversation IDK if they still do it but I think they used to have certain providers block out some time just to get on there and answer questions, that was long ago like I said IDK if they still do that

I hate to sound like a jerk but please grow a pair and do it like everyone else.  Do your research, take your time, and make an appointment.  If you have questions, use the newbie board or PM people (even me) for advice - most people here are very helpful.  That being said, I'm sure any provider would be glad to help ease you out of the baby pool - at their full rate.

Nope, that is a very uncomfortable situation. It reminds me of guys who want to "talk" to long on the phone & ask too many unconfortable questions. I wont meet anyone for dinner first, it has to be our "personal date" then dinner.

If I have a newbie, along with me checking a few of his references (work, Google etc. ) I always meet them out for a drink or coffee first Nuetral ground I believe is more comfortable with a first timer. I want them to be comfortable with me and vice versa  to have a great session. Gives the client and myself a chance to bow out if they are not "feeling it" Not that that has happened yet but lets face it "Everybody isnt for Everybody"