Update your profile, make sure offerings, stats, considerations are current
Consider a better website. Honestly one link hard to understand and the other is very light
Get better photos, even selfies that give impression of your beauty are better than the one old cluster photo
Decide what market you want to be in. Tailor your image, message, ads, and offering to best succeed. For instance, your profile says cbj, which is fine, especially at price point, but you will get noise and lower ratings from many of the guys
Consider a screener, helps you manage a lot of the bs
Send pm if you want to hear more of a guys pic
Good luck and welcome to the hobby board