I was wondering the same thing. Good question!

2 decades of experience  ladies favoritism is never based off of "OMG" looks more personality or chill vibes

I would like to know what makes that particular client special too….??

Yes they have  and it's nothing more than a piece of paper with a picture of Benjamin Franklin on it, so guys don't fool yourself because I did once and paid an enormous price for it !

A few months ago after an incredible session a provider whom  I had been seeing on a semi-regular basis told me that “I was her favorite client”.  I was stunned and shocked but I took her comments with a grain of salt.  She also said “You don’t need to see a lot of providers”  “I would like to see you more often.”Prior to this I had been very active and seen quite a few people. This was our 4th session together over the course of a few years.

I really like this provider and we seem to have great chemistry together. I really want to believe what she said but I am proceeding with caution. I have started seeing her a little more often.  Session 6 is coming up soon.

Has anyone else experienced this from the client perspective or have any providers out there shared with a client that they are her favorite.?

Any advice on how  to handle this situation going forward?

Yes not going to lie it’s a great way to make a living. But for some of us it’s not all about the Benjamin! And almost 25 years that I’ve been in the business I have had a few connections and we’re friends to this day. Sometimes there’s just something between the two of you hard to explain I’ve had a few of those over the years where are you enjoy each other’s company the sex is off the charts and you can’t wait to see each other again.

May not believe it but you do form a certain connection with certain people in this business!

Kisses
T

That’s good to know!

The same has happened to me. I really don’t want to see anyone else. I thought I was crazy at first but it seems like our relationship has blossomed into something more. I think it has a lot to do with what you are looking for. I was looking for chemistry and a connection. I saw a pretty good number of ladies and just didn’t find what I was looking for. I really enjoy the whole experience. If I was rich she would be exclusive but unfortunately I’m not rich. She is a great person and it is lights out in the bedroom. I know why she’s in the industry and it makes sense to me. It’s a difficult situation but as the old saying goes the heart wants what the heart wants.

The gentlemen in my top 5 favorites definitely know it because I do tell them. 😊  Two things they all have in common: Wonderful personalities and DATY skills LOL

Hahaha so true Terri and Stina. I have a family member who is a teacher. She loves ALL her kids but can't help but have a few favorites. I would liken it to that. I may or may not tell them depending on a few things. This is supposed to be "No strings attached." So I wouldn't want to insinuate they can only see me.  

My ATFs usually come down to we have a good chemistry personality wise. One of my ATFs is 75 years old so it doesn't come down to  anything besides we have a good sexual chemistry and I really like his personality. He shares his wisdom or life lessons with me. He always brings me small little things like candy or a scented candle. Nothing big but it just shows he thought of me.

MUAH, GT

My faves are guys that make me laugh, get my sense of humor - have good hygiene and let me do what I like best - and do best!  I might even be the worlds greatest at it.  Lol and bringing unusual vodka always delights me!   Sometimes you just have an instant connection - and for us it has nothing at all to do with age or looks - it's about the guys vibe.  Show up ready to have a good time, relax.  Guys that let me focus on THEM and their pleasure are my favorite types. I'm a giver so I vibe better with guys that are takers and enjoy the attention on them.  That's when I'm in my happy place.

Some of these providers are VERY GOOD at making you feel special and as if you are the only one. In reality, the three who I thought I had that with... turned out to be an illusion.  

One--who had claimed to want to hang out as FWB's on our own personal time--never managed to actually follow through on it, going so far as to cancel plans on me three times. One of these times, I had taken the day off from work to help her with a project she had, but... at the last minute... something came up. Something ALWAYS came up, and that was all I needed to know.

Another one who I had genuine feelings of friendship and affection for tried scamming me out of money. I think she was pressured by her BF at the time to do so,  but she could have refused to do so. That one was truly sad.  

Finally, one that I had deep feelings for and who talked about possibly being together if I could ever leave my long-term live-in GF, semi-ghosted me after she quit the business. I think we are still somewhat friends, but thought we had a closer friendship than what we apparently had. We still follow each other on social media, but I'm pretty sure she would be fine if we never spoke  or saw each other ever again.

So what did I learn from all of this? A providers job is to provide a fantasy experience, much like an actor provides an fantasy experience that engrosses you and makes you forget your real life for a short period of time. To think it's anything more than that in 95% of the cases is just evidence that she did an extremely good job of it.

You are an an absolutely amazing man that I love and  adore 💝😍🔥
Love,  
TL

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Awww... that's very sweet to say 😊 However, I  haven't met you... yet 😘😊
Thanks you!
Much love,
TL