due to the negligence of one dumb husband, i now have a psychotic wife stalking me ...

Please keep it together, will ya?

I do dog behavior consulting, training and walking. I do pet sitting.  My services can also be retained to find the right puppy for your family...

Remember the disclaimer in the front of this website, that you porbably havent read in ages... the 'stories' published here are works of fiction...

Do Not be tricked into compromising yourselves...  or ME.
we've all got lives, ya know...

(my site is down, whatever stories were written about me are gone now.  I'm doing my best to just keep being TheDogLady, any of my friends want to offer suport can ziplip me there...)

thanks,
Nicole

Fight Club!  We've all seen the movie.
What are the first two rules?

You Don't talk about Fight Club!

for those of you not paying attention


You Don't talk about Fight Club!


This is very serious... please take it as such!

I don't have your info but could you contact me asap?

If you don't want wives stalking you then the best thing to do is stay away from their husbands.

Too often we fail to realize there’s a real world outside the hobby/profession that can be turned upside down in a heartbeat with a careless slip-up, confession, or whatever.  We hobbyists want protection but often fail to provide the same protection for the ladies.  Don’t compromise the safety and well being of someone else to ease conscience or detail the particulars when confronted.   A significant other will not benefit by knowing the details of the encounter or the name of the person involved.  Nor will she benefit by being told she neglected to take care of sexual needs.  It will only hurt her worse. The best thing to do is to consult a marriage counselor if there’s a chance to work things out.

Nicole, my heart goes out to you.  No one deserves this, but especially someone who is as loving and caring as you are. Only your love and concern for others overshadow your love for animals.  I enjoyed spending an afternoon with you.  You are a very nice lady!  I hope things get better soon.

T

Wow !! This leads  to a question too providers . How much of your business comes from husbands ???? % wise

Wow, you've got to be fucking kidding me....

How can you possible think you will accomplish anything by stalking a provider?  What kind of sick and twisted revenge tactic is that?  You must realize that it will accomplish nothing.

As in the case of any provider, here's how it works:

- She didn't contact your husband, he contacted her.
- He compensated her for a service - it isn't an affair, it's not love, it's sex, period.
- She is not the reason he strayed in the first place.  The answer to that problem is between you and him.

Don't be a fool, stalking a provider will get you nothing but trouble (since that, too, is highly illegal).  And do not think a provider would be afraid to have you busted - and believe me, the punishment is far worse than you could imagine.  

So, in conclusion, there's no need to blame her, it's not her fault.  Walk away and fix things at home - or don't and move on with your life.

My $.02

Perhaps if the wife took care of things at home, he wouldn't have to get these things taken care of elsewhere.

Question: Why does a bride smile so big as she walks down the aisle?

Answer: She knows she has given her last BJ

I am not the stalking wife. All I did was make a statement. One that I believe and people just jump to conclusions. I am new to these boards and if this is the way people respond then I will not be back.

My attorney has all of your emails you sent to Nicole. You will be hearing from him very soon!  Good Luck, you are gonna need it!

It might be a new activity you and your husband can do as a couple, maybe a way to spend more time together.  You seem tightly wrapped, maybe it would help relieve your stress too.

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If you are not the stalking wife, that is fine.  However, if you really think a provider is at fault for a straying husband, I would say these boards are not for you...  Nothing warrants a stalking wife...

In the TER Survey results... lots of good stuff there.