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I have not had this experience. I have not heard of any others having this experience.
I have to wonder like a previous poster how her decision makes her greedy etc as others have said she is.
I would note that it is a business, Her business, you are a client and anyone can move on without an explanation.
I like you would have been very interested in knowing why she suddenly stopped accepting appointments if it happened to me. But it does happen all the time and you have to move on.
On the other hand if you saw her again what would be different? Things definitely would be different. It could be better but could be worse.

William_J_Clinton1170 reads

I hate using an alias, but in this case it really is necessary.  I would like to know if any guys have had this happen, but am especially interested in Providers perspective.

A provider I've visited for over a year suddenly stopped taking appointments with me and of course I was curious why since we've always had (I thought) a good time; I've never NCNS'd in my life (with her or any provider), always showered beforehand, was on time, respectful, etc.  When I finally convinced her to talk to me and explain why she basically said, "I like you, we have fun together, you've been respectful, you tip better than any of my clients, etc., etc.,; BUT, I decided to stop seeing you because of your "stamina"!  I was stunned.  I asked her to explain and she just said that because it took me usually 45 minutes or longer to orgasm, she had to work too hard and our sessions pretty much depleted her for some time afterwards and she wasn't able to see other clients for "too long" afterwards.

It is true that as I've aged (mid 40s) it takes me longer to get off and does usually take 45 minutes to an hour to get my rocks off, but her response surprised me to say the least.

I know many, if not most, providers would prefer to take a guy to the climax as easily and quickly as possible but had not heard of this response.

Guys? Ladies?  Does this resonate?  Any ladies have an opinion or any guys have a similar experience?

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pwilley688 reads

I've never had that happen but then I've found the perfect companion and she's been so wonderful that I have no desire to look elsewhere.  But what you describe is just par for the course in many instances where the provider has managed to give a pretty good fantasy all the while keeping her greedy attitude concealed.

My suggestion for you is "don't be a whimp", "don't be pussy whipped", "don't think for one single moment that you don't have other wonderful options".  Write a review, tell the truth, and the let the ungrateful, greedy, whining, selfish, .......  walk the plank.  Don't look back and choose another more deserving companion.

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9676forfun723 reads

Move on to greener pastures. I know some girls that call me a wimp if I am not working them over non-stop for an hour or more. Some ladies are more highly sexed than others. Keep looking, believe me, they are out there.

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Ouatte_DePhoque739 reads

You could always ask her, if she only wants to "work" for 20 or 30 minutes, does she only want to get PAID for 20 or 30 minutes?

Find other guys with the same issue and have them all make appointments on the same day. Then pound zat stuff for 59 minutes. Hair pullin' azz smackin' bangin' for the whole time.
Then she'll either get with zee program, or find herself asking "how many in your party" at Friday's.

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GaGambler714 reads

I can attest that very few women in general, and providers in particular like it  when a guy takes an excessively long time to get off.

The OP situation doesnt surprise me at all, I can't count the number of women, both civvie and pro, who have stopped mid coitus, claiming they have come ____times, and just can't fuck anymore.

The old saying "be careful what you wish for, because you might just get your wish" is an appropriate one here. Back in my youth, I used to be a bit "fast on the trigger" and wished I could last longer, well I got my fucking wish and now long for the days when i could get off in ten minutes. lol

I don't really have any advice for the OP except to respect her wishes and move on. I am sure you have already heard all the suggestions about "skin on skin" finishing via HJ or BBBJ, but speaking for myself, sometimes those are the only ways I can finish at all, very few women are willing to have an hour or more of actual intercourse, and I don't really like to fuck that long non stop either.

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ThisIsCaylee868 reads

Why is a provider "ungrateful, greedy, whining, selfish" if she decides that she no longer wishes to see someone? (I especially don't get the "greedy" part of that equation, lol!) At least she was honest...she could've been "greedy" and continued to see you.

I feel that any time the jewels have lost their luster, it's time to move on - provider and hobbyist alike.

xoxo
Caylee

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REGULARGUY723 reads

Your post indicates you have hobbied for at least a year (most likely more) so you are not a noob anymore. First off I am surprised you kept trying to get in touch with her at all. She was not taking your calls and you had to "convince her" to talk to you? WTF? That right there indicates it is time for you to move on. But even if not then, after she tells you why, you are still asking what to do? Really? Come on dude!

Let me break it down into simple to follow steps for you:

1: delete her phone number in your hobby phone
2: remove her email address from your address book.
3: put her email address into a filter to be moved to trash upon arrival.
4: remove any links to her homepage from your browser.
5: go to TER > Reviews > Search Reviews and input the appropriate data
6: find a new lady that fits what you are looking for (step #5)
7: contact new lady and see if you think it'll be a good match
8: make an appoint, be safe and have FUN
9: forget about the lady that made the previous 8 steps necessary.

She has every right to not see you as a client. To her, you were more work than was worth the effort. You have every right to look elsewhere without a second thought. Move on to greener pastures and forget about the "this is a business" related slap you just got.

There are way too many hot chicks out there willing to accept your money for their time. This should not even be a question.

As always, be safe and have fun

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1192967566 reads

He did ask questions but I don't see anywhere that he asked what to do. He did ask for opinions ( asking opinions isn't the same as What to do.) and wondered if others had this experience. He wanted discussion from providers. But that's it as far as I can tell.

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Ouatte_DePhoque628 reads

Now, do you have anything to offer other than busting the stones of a thoughtful poster who took the time to contribute?

If not..

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William_J_Clinton640 reads

Thanks RegularGuy, but...

1. I asked if there were any guys who have had a similar experience - I'm not asking any guys what to do, because I KNEW what to do - and it was basically as you suggested. This particular provider wasn't an ATF but just an every-once-and-a-while convenience.  She could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch and was on the way home from work. LOL!
2. In my OP I stated that I was most interested in hearing the Providers' perspective - whether or not they try to avoid one & two hour appointments where they know they are going to be fucking and sucking for one to two hours straight without any breaks.
3. The only reason it was important to me to know the Why was to ensure that I hadn't done something wrong, been blacklisted, or she had been told something negative about me.   I could care less if I ever see her again.
4. I won't even respond to the "This shouldn't even be a question" remark so as to avoid a pissing match with someone unevenly matched for such a contest.

I hope my OP is a little clearer now.

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REGULARGUY528 reads

did not ask for advice. My bad. After re-reading it you clearly did not. Although your subject line did say you were asking for opinions. My opinion was that you move on.

1) Uhmm, OK. Seems we're in agreement.
2) But you did also ask for opinions from the guys ... not the ladies only.
3) If that was the only reason for the "why" then once you had it I don't see the reason for the OP.
4) No pissing match. I bow at the alter of your all-knowing self. All hail WJC.

So my response, which you agreed with was basically the same as yours, was misplaced. You obviously didn't need advice. My bad.

At least my was given from my handle and not an alias. Still don't understand why the alias but I'm also not interested. I'm done. Have fun with whatever new lady you pick.

As always, be safe and have fun

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1192967586 reads

I have not had this experience. I have not heard of any others having this experience.
I have to wonder like a previous poster how her decision makes her greedy etc as others have said she is.
I would note that it is a business, Her business, you are a client and anyone can move on without an explanation.
I like you would have been very interested in knowing why she suddenly stopped accepting appointments if it happened to me. But it does happen all the time and you have to move on.
On the other hand if you saw her again what would be different? Things definitely would be different. It could be better but could be worse.

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little phil639 reads

I do know ladies that talk about easy & difficult dudes.  It's just like anything else.  There's one chick in LV that bitches about guys with tiny dicks and another that complains some guy is huge and it tears her up.  Sounds like this lady figures that she can make more money with 2 or 3 easy guys than one that puts her through the paces.  I applaud her for her business acumen.  She's found something that works for her and if work was so slow that she had a couple days of recovery time, she'd see him again for the cash.  Sounds like her dance card is full enough that she's trading out the guys that decrease her earnings.

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William_J_Clinton683 reads

Hey LP, that is pretty much the conclusion I reached too.  If seeing me kept her from being able to see 2 or 3 other guys the same day, it was a wise business decision, but that also told me something too.  If she is seeing that many guys a day, running a revolving door on that pussy, I wouldn't want to see her further anyway - except for an occasional blow-and-go.  But man, she had oral talents!  

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freebore616 reads

Great question William_J.
And my first thought is that I would feel extremely lucky to have a provider be right up front and honest and tell me exactly where I stand. Man, life would be a whole lot simpler if everyone would behave that way.
While I've never had a lady I am acquainted with refuse to see me, I have had a few that I gave all my screening info to only to never hear from them again. And in those cases I would have been very grateful for some reason why. Good luck and stay safe.

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XLTrojan490 reads

Man, what I wouldn't give for 4 or 5 good minutes......LOL

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RealRecognizeReal553 reads

well played

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jimconsul2003582 reads

I have little to add to the previous posts, but I'll say something, anyway. You have a right to know why, but she has a right to see whomever she pleases and to not give you an answer. Unfortunately, we do not live in a perfect world. I just wish I had a provider (only one or two, though) to refuse to see me because of my stamina. Hell, I'm usually done by the time she undresses!!!  LOL

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Adam_Sandler707 reads

Us small dick quick popping guys would hold an advantage on you HUGE studs Lmao and rolling on the floor!!!!!!!    

Posted By: William_J_Clinton
I hate using an alias, but in this case it really is necessary.  I would like to know if any guys have had this happen, but am especially interested in Providers perspective.

A provider I've visited for over a year suddenly stopped taking appointments with me and of course I was curious why since we've always had (I thought) a good time; I've never NCNS'd in my life (with her or any provider), always showered beforehand, was on time, respectful, etc.  When I finally convinced her to talk to me and explain why she basically said, "I like you, we have fun together, you've been respectful, you tip better than any of my clients, etc., etc.,; BUT, I decided to stop seeing you because of your "stamina"!  I was stunned.  I asked her to explain and she just said that because it took me usually 45 minutes or longer to orgasm, she had to work too hard and our sessions pretty much depleted her for some time afterwards and she wasn't able to see other clients for "too long" afterwards.

It is true that as I've aged (mid 40s) it takes me longer to get off and does usually take 45 minutes to an hour to get my rocks off, but her response surprised me to say the least.

I know many, if not most, providers would prefer to take a guy to the climax as easily and quickly as possible but had not heard of this response.

Guys? Ladies?  Does this resonate?  Any ladies have an opinion or any guys have a similar experience?

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mookie58621 reads

Most escorts make more money per hour than a good attorney and some don't wanna work for their money? Screw em!! Let her work at a drive-through for a week and we'll see how much they appreciate their rates and required effort! "You want fries with that?"

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