Get rid of the back hair, end of problem.

I became aware of a lady that incorporates manscaping as part of her services.  She says her regular client base really took off after she started offering this.

I say turn what you perceive to be a negative into a positive - explain your situation to a lady and ask if she offers a manscaping service as part of her session.  Personally, I don't know of any ladies in ATL that offer this, but sure seems like it could turn into some fun.

The provider of whom I referenced that offers manscaping is not based in ATL, but Arizona.

So, I've seen a few ladies in the past, mostly massage only, but one thing I'm always concerned about is that I am slightly overweight and have back hair and I think the ladies are going to be grossed out, because that always seems to be the stereotypical thing women hate.  I know the best ladies in the business won't show if they're really unattracted to you, but I still hate to make them fake it that much, if it really does bother them.

Is this a valid concern, or should I just get over it and have fun?

I would imagine that most ladies to see their fair share of slightly chubby, hairy backed dudes.  They're probably more surprised when they don't see one.  I don't think they care as much as you think they do.

Some say you have the right to be treated (well)because your paying.People are gonna be who they are inside.The trick is to find providers that enjoy sex who are here because they love men and like to please.The trick for them is to find guys that enjoy sex,that are down to earth,pleasant,clean and adore them and the gift they bestow.
I've been blessed to have found quite a few of these anomalies and even a couple three true NYMPHO"S
and wow you feel like you just won the sexual lottery when that occurs..lol
tc 2hot

Can only speak for self, but I think its most important for the woman that you enjoy yourself. Is a little hair gonna stop you from doing that? No....heheheheheh

Stevie,
  We are all so much more than the sum of our parts.  I understand your concern,
But I encourage you to keep looking and just have Fun!  This is a hobby not a beauty competition.  I couldn't care less about the skin color, weight, and overall appearance of my gentlemen friends.  What really matters is how they treat others (myself) with kindness and consideration.  You are paying for a service, and while pre-showering and personal hygiene are a must, but Please don't think that all providers are that judgmental and think that someone who is overweight = someone who is "gross".
Personally, to me, that ugly attitude in itself is pretty "gross".  No one is perfect.  There are plenty of ladies out there who appreciate quality company, with people of all shapes and sizes, without judging them on their exterior.  We are service providers and although we all can choose who we spend time with, let's not get it twisted on who is the paying customer here.  Best of luck in finding a woman that turns you on and
Makes you feel  important, because you are!

Happy hobbying!

Posted By: stevieisme

So, I've seen a few ladies in the past, mostly massage only, but one thing I'm always concerned about is that I am slightly overweight and have back hair and I think the ladies are going to be grossed out, because that always seems to be the stereotypical thing women hate.  I know the best ladies in the business won't show if they're really unattracted to you, but I still hate to make them fake it that much, if it really does bother them.

Is this a valid concern, or should I just get over it and have fun?

Seriously, That is a huge affirmation for those of us that don't perceive ourselves as God's gift to women. I fortunately have been around and met enough wonderful women who have just been themselves with me, despite what some refer to as flaws, ugly whatever, that I am mostly comfortable when seeing women. Sometimes I still keep my shirt on but hey I'm not perfect. I think that men, such as myself, tend to be more judgemental regarding appearance than the ladies in the hobby.
Thanks again Morgan for being you and stating your truth.

Pheonix

Posted By: MorganMarie

Stevie,
  We are all so much more than the sum of our parts.  I understand your concern,
But I encourage you to keep looking and just have Fun!  This is a hobby not a beauty competition.  I couldn't care less about the skin color, weight, and overall appearance of my gentlemen friends.  What really matters is how they treat others (myself) with kindness and consideration.  You are paying for a service, and while pre-showering and personal hygiene are a must, but Please don't think that all providers are that judgmental and think that someone who is overweight = someone who is "gross".
Personally, to me, that ugly attitude in itself is pretty "gross".  No one is perfect.  There are plenty of ladies out there who appreciate quality company, with people of all shapes and sizes, without judging them on their exterior.  We are service providers and although we all can choose who we spend time with, let's not get it twisted on who is the paying customer here.  Best of luck in finding a woman that turns you on and
Makes you feel  important, because you are!

Happy hobbying!

Posted By: stevieisme

So, I've seen a few ladies in the past, mostly massage only, but one thing I'm always concerned about is that I am slightly overweight and have back hair and I think the ladies are going to be grossed out, because that always seems to be the stereotypical thing women hate.  I know the best ladies in the business won't show if they're really unattracted to you, but I still hate to make them fake it that much, if it really does bother them.

Is this a valid concern, or should I just get over it and have fun?

PR,
I had no idea this was such a common concern.  What do you have to be worried about, babe?  Just think, we can all be self conscious.  As I have to often remind myself, in moments of insecurity and fear of what others are perceiving, they are often too busy worrying about what they are self conscious about themselves to even notice the "imperfections" of others!

Anytime I am about to meet someone new, I am NEVER worried about finding them unattractive.  
That is crazy to me!  Of all the ladies out there, if you chose to spend your time and hard earned money spending time with me, my #1 concern is making sure you leave with a huge smile and no buyers remorse.  I try to show my appreciation by going the extra mile.  Before you arrive, all the prep going in - the beautiful suites, champagne, chocolate covered strawberries, candles, lingerie,  etc is not for my pleasure, but all for you.  No where in this thought process do I stop and think, "oh no, what if he's not cute?".  Instead, it's more like, "Oh gosh, I hope he loves this!".  Just some food for thought, I guess we can all be a bit of a worry wart at times.  Inhale, exhale and just have FUN!

Posted By: PheonixRising

Seriously, That is a huge affirmation for those of us that don't perceive ourselves as God's gift to women. I fortunately have been around and met enough wonderful women who have just been themselves with me, despite what some refer to as flaws, ugly whatever, that I am mostly comfortable when seeing women. Sometimes I still keep my shirt on but hey I'm not perfect. I think that men, such as myself, tend to be more judgemental regarding appearance than the ladies in the hobby.
Thanks again Morgan for being you and stating your truth.

Pheonix

Posted By: MorganMarie

Stevie,
  We are all so much more than the sum of our parts.  I understand your concern,
But I encourage you to keep looking and just have Fun!  This is a hobby not a beauty competition.  I couldn't care less about the skin color, weight, and overall appearance of my gentlemen friends.  What really matters is how they treat others (myself) with kindness and consideration.  You are paying for a service, and while pre-showering and personal hygiene are a must, but Please don't think that all providers are that judgmental and think that someone who is overweight = someone who is "gross".
Personally, to me, that ugly attitude in itself is pretty "gross".  No one is perfect.  There are plenty of ladies out there who appreciate quality company, with people of all shapes and sizes, without judging them on their exterior.  We are service providers and although we all can choose who we spend time with, let's not get it twisted on who is the paying customer here.  Best of luck in finding a woman that turns you on and
Makes you feel  important, because you are!

Happy hobbying!

Posted By: stevieisme

So, I've seen a few ladies in the past, mostly massage only, but one thing I'm always concerned about is that I am slightly overweight and have back hair and I think the ladies are going to be grossed out, because that always seems to be the stereotypical thing women hate.  I know the best ladies in the business won't show if they're really unattracted to you, but I still hate to make them fake it that much, if it really does bother them.

Is this a valid concern, or should I just get over it and have fun?

in this industry was several years ago when I was with an agency. He had the body of a Greek god, for real. He didn't just go to the gym a few times a week, he was like Mr. Workout 2x A Day. Dude was body builder huge. But, I tried to have a conversation and he just would not talk. He'd just kinda smile and nod. I've had more intellectual conversation with my 2 year old nephew.

So, looks really are not all that to me. I've discovered that in this business and in my personal life.

Believe me, we providers have seen ALOT in our line of work. Back hair and a little pudge... I wouldn't even blink an eye at that.

I have met drop dead gorgeous men that couldnt fuck their way out of a paper bag!! LOL I have met men that were sexy as hell to the eye that were complete jerks!  If you're clean and respectful most providers that I know would be more than happy to rock your world!  
Hugs and kisses
TL

really a great post, hopefully the OP will take it to heart, I think it's exactly what he needed to hear

Thanks

Thanks for the replies, especially the ladies. What's funny is that Terri Lynn and Mallory were the two ladies I was considering making appointments with soon, so it's nice that they both responded (MorganMarie, I'd love love love to see you sometime, too, but you're unfortunately out of my price range, though worth saving up for someday, I'm certain ).

Anyway, thanks for the reassuring words!