...love with a provider is all make believe. One can always admire the good qualities in a provider : the good attitude, beauty, grace etc. You can certainly savor the romanticism, affection and all that if you are inclined towards that.
In fact, this romance is the reason that I like to be as brief as possible about the business side when dealing with a provider.
However, as a hobbyist I will be fooling myself if I actually believed that this romance is for real.
Only a very few providers can mix romance and business in a near-seamless way.
These are really smart ladies who drop as well as understand subtle hints.
That is why I think that some escorts are real sex-artists.
Love a provider? as a person, may be. Certainly in fantasy. Not so much for real.
I came across this article today:
http://lasvegas.cbslocal.com/2012/08/15/study-men-paying-for-sex-from-prostitute-looking-for-true-love/
The gist of it is that in many cases men go to providers in search a substitute for love. Of course that is probably a gross over-generalization of the actual contents of that story, but everyone can read the article for themselves.
I did note that it mentioned that 32% of those surveyed said that they don't have time for a conventional relationship, 28% said they didn't want the responsibilities of a conventional relationship and 18% said that they preferred sex with a provider. I suppose none of that comes as any news to those who frequent this site.
In any case, it would be interesting to hear what hobbyists and providers here think of what is in the article.
...love with a provider is all make believe. One can always admire the good qualities in a provider : the good attitude, beauty, grace etc. You can certainly savor the romanticism, affection and all that if you are inclined towards that.
In fact, this romance is the reason that I like to be as brief as possible about the business side when dealing with a provider.
However, as a hobbyist I will be fooling myself if I actually believed that this romance is for real.
Only a very few providers can mix romance and business in a near-seamless way.
These are really smart ladies who drop as well as understand subtle hints.
That is why I think that some escorts are real sex-artists.
Love a provider? as a person, may be. Certainly in fantasy. Not so much for real.
Men don't fall for a woman for her good qualities. Never heard a man saying, "She is a wonderful person, kind, nurturer, smart, educated, great communicator, shares my interests, I totally see myself falling for her, etc." Feelings are not conscious therefore cannot be controlled by rational thoughts. All people live by the principle avoid the pain and seek pleasure. If a man thinks that his marriage is "real" because it's notarized on the paper and database, while he sees other women secretively from his wife, that's his delusional perspective of reality. Agree or disagree? There is nothing wrong in admitting that even for an hour, the man actually falls for someone. Have you heard about Placebo Effect (from Latin for "I will please")? The patient receives fake medical treatment (traditional medication, alternative, and even surgery) and actually gets well because he or she BELIEVES that it's real.
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between Love (like valentine love) and admiration/friendly affection.
You are right is saying that marriage is not real if the man is seeking other women.
No delusions there.
However, it doesn't mean that one would start seeking "true love" with the providers.
Seeking love from women that you pay to have sex with you is even more delusional, no offense intended to anyone.
I mean, if a provider seeks true love then her client will be the last one she will try to court.
I'll be surprised if you disagree.
I am only talking about the art of making it "almost" real that some women are really good at and I love them for their art.
Compassionate love is characterized by mutual respect, attachment, affection, and trust. Passionate love is driven by intense emotions, sexual attraction, anxiety and affection.
There is another author stated that there are three primary styles of love and three secondary styles:
Three primary styles:
1. Eros – Loving an ideal person
2. Ludos – Love as a game
3. Storge – Love as friendship
Three secondary styles:
1. Mania (Eros + Ludos) – Obsessive love
2. Pragma (Ludos + Storge) – Practical love
3. Agape (Eros + Storge) – Selfless love
In my observational and personal experience, client and provider can experience love as a game all the time, often friendship, sometimes even passionate love; while in marriage, people have rather practical love mixed with friendship. So yes, I feel like disagree with you that love between client and provider is impossible, but I see your point. Man can never fall in love because of sex; women can sometimes; that's what makes men want to pay. They don't pay for sex but for the right to leave (someone said that before). Just wanted to add that there are more colors than good or bad, right or wrong, when it comes to emotions, and people who they express. When you try to label something as impossible, making snapped judgement about one's characteristic or experience, karma will always find the way to prove you're wrong. It happened to me before. Try not to judge and you won't be judged : ) Kisses....xoxoxo
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I agree. But not just laid - laid by someone who isn't going to nag you to take out the garbage and mow the lawn afterwards. In my experience providers also don't get headaches.
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