"I try not to judge others as I have never lived their life, so I have no idea where they are coming from..."

Ayup. Don't judge a man unless you've walked a mile in his shoes.  That way if he doesn't like your judgment, you'll have a mile head-start and he won't have any shoes.

I have enough serious sh-t in my "real" life. I really look at the "hobby" as an escape. Have you noticed whenever there is drama on the board, it's usually the same cast of characters involved ? I just don't see how that can be good for anybody's business. But I guess, there is the theory that there is no such thing as bad publicity. I tend to see the more discreet ladies, though.

A friend's advice is priceless!

What's worse is if she starts to run her mouth about her ex-husband, bad dates that's she's had,  or issues with kids, bills, car troubles, etc.

But that's okay.  I like naughty girls!