i was just curious as to why some providers don't want to be reviewed. there is one in particular that i know of that had a great review that disappeared soon after. seems that this provider doesn't allow reviews. considering that none of us really know what to expect from 'advertisements' it seems that reviews would be a way to get the word out. i was just wondering...

Well I for one do not always like having reviews.
However I don't mind reviews from people that have seen Me more then once.  I find it way to inpersonal for someone to write every little detail of what we do when we're together, I mean for real how would you feel if people wrote about every encounter you have?  On the other hand if someone has a bad experience or feels a girl has mis-represtened herself then I can understand writing them then.  Typically when someone first comes to see Me and we both have a good experieince I ask them to hold out on the reviews until we get to know eachother a little better, I also feel that person will have more respect towards the lady and will also get a better feel for them.

Reviews can be both good and bad, some guys on here can write about a Lady even if he has not seen her, some gentelman have been known to do it for other providers or have been known to do it to recieve a free membership.  I have seen reviews that were just way off fetch and not true, about Myself and other lady's.  Reviews in a nut shell are just to inpersonal in My oppinion.

Granit, it offers something good for you guys, but don't always believe what you read.
***** Remember, YMMV!

Kisses,
Monica

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Some try to live a life of discretion; maintain a philosopy, service and lifestyle completely contrary to what is expressed on the boards.

Perhaps trying to stay below the Radar and View of not only LE, but some viewed as undesirable.  These ladies are no longer dependent on the public marketplace; their normal clientele does not frequent the boards.

I do not go where I am not wanted; it is not a bad rule to follow.

i think it naybe is that there not very

Perhaps some are a bit sensitive and cannot handle criticism (which most likely is much more common in females rather than males).

Perhaps they fear publicity.

Perhaps they are not really into what they do. Therefore could lead to negative reviews and in turn could affect their business.

Cannot think of anymore reasons on the moment. If I do, will post them.

Jolie

Glad you are doing well and hope you get well soon.

Perhaps, they prefer to be discrete and only want to see whom they know. Eliminates almost all of the risk and makes their life simmpler also.

No ringing phones all through the day, no screening and may even have a regular profession.

One word about criticism, generally, men are no better in accepting criticism than women. At times, one might find men to be lacking more in that depaertment than women.

By the crticism is always one man's or women's opinion based on their experience and views. If one is self confident, that person would say, it is one person's view and don't have anything to do with me.

Other side of the coin, it is easy to speculate about others motives and intentions which may not true.

Personally, I prefer to see a provider who is discrete and overly carerful and publicity shy.

You are very correct in what you write. Thank you for the get well wishes. Kind of you.

About a discrete provider not wanting reviews. If she has say twenty or so regular guys that she sees and that is all that takes the publicity away, that is fine. If and when these guys find TER and read about other girls, they will most likely venture off. We are all curious creatures in that way. Her phone that only rings from her regulars, will slow down, she has no reviews, and if she asked to her reviews removed it is not something she can be wishy washy on. Whether she did her research or not prior to requesting it. I know of one lady that does not have reviews, she depends a great deal on referrals from others due to it. Her business may not be doing all that well either. A lady can be public and be discrete all in the same if she is cautious. Do you think I am too public? You got me to wondering over it.

About guys and criticism. I do not understand men all that well. They come across as a strong willed creature that is not bothered with others opinion. But, something has always told me that they are just as sensitive as women when it comes to such matters. Perhaps they are not emotional like women in that regard and are unresponsive. That is my idea based from the knowledge you have given to me. Or, perhaps it is more common for women to be less confident than men are with themselves. Locker rooms in high school (I was told) had guys that would without worry walk around naked. Girls though, we always covered ourselves up and were overly bashful. Guys have urinals where another may see his cock. Girls have doors with stalls always. Perhaps this could be a confidence thing.

Jolie