There is a certain provider (retired) that I miss the hell out of. She was the best at sending erotic (sometimes even slutty) pm’s and emails. We had a few chat sessions that were just incredible. I guess a lot of providers consider that a waste of time. I figure it was good for her business. I have tried to start a few dialogues with ladies I like. I don’t want to be pushy and expect something for nothing. Just really turns me on and makes me want to see them that much more.

You could send them some cash. Several women offer a “dirty texting experience “

I miss that too.  It's definitely a lost art.

Many ladies would view you as a time waster.

But as noted it can be a time waster unless a regular.  Further constraints are that it is necessary to know with whom I am being so intimate for obvious reasons there again a regular or someone with solid gold creds that I am about to meet......but I sure do love it, gets the juices flowing ( yes makes me wetter) and for me one of the joys of being a slut is talking about it in lurid, graphic detail.
Suzee

And all the pre game activities sure added to it. I love the anticipation part of it.

Touchingly Lovely lady while traveling lately.  She still has her wit, humor, and very dirty mind.   We will likely to connect when next in Atlanta for a beer and laugh if Temporarily Lonely can find the time.

Ok, that definitely helps in situation like this.

I've incorporated video chatting, texting and pictures into my availability. I think it relaxes everyone in this business climate and establishes a connection. So? It's not so... business like .

The OP was just saying he misses those earlier safe times he had with a woman who has stayed on his mind.

I believe that Ginger hit the nail on the head. I would hope that the ladies and guys make a habit of deleting text often. I delete every conversation I have regarding this thing. The ladies that I see can testify to the fact that I have to ask for the address every time I set up a meeting.  Better safe than sorry.

Posted By: GingerTaylor1234

Re: I think with everything
that has happened over the last year, A LOT of ladies are avoiding any kind of dirty talking in any way, shape or form. Personally, I don't want it in a PM, e-mail, phone call or text. When all that stuff went down, EVERYONE was literally shitting their pants "Who has the phones?!?!?" and etc. Every time something happened, a Provider passed away, got in trouble, etc...I would hear "OMG what about her phone? Oh shit, I sent her a text saying ______________." I heard it so many times, I developed a ZERO tolerance policy.  
   
 For me, even if I know you, if you send me something like that you are going to get ignored and possibly on the DNS list. I feel that by doing that, I am doing my duty to keep myself and my friends safe.  
   
 I know this seems so not fun. Well, let's just say I'd rather be about it than talk about it.

For what it is worth, we definitely agree that the banter before and after can be fun...helps build the connection and make appointments that much more intimate and erotic...if you want a pen pal, let me know and then we can connect when we come to town next month...