Gentlemen,

Do you want a women that allows you to control her ever move or do you want a woman that, left to
her own devices, will rock your world?

If anyone knows me, they know I'm a little shy (getting be
tter) lol. Not one that likes to control. That said, I love it when a woman can take control and rock my world. I'm all about pleasing and being pleased. So many great memories so far.

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it depends on what kind of mood I'm in...there are times i'm interested in being with both types, possibly not one more than the other...the only consistent answer is, "not to be consistent and predictable"

If she is sexually agressive thats great, if she is on the passive side I have no problem dictating our session.

Both are great, variety is the spice of life !

But don't you have a preference when you're shopping ?

I want a girl that will rock my world, and I will rock her right back.

Now you're speaking my language...

Certian things like no DFK or BBBJ are probably deal breakers along with physical appearance.

There are certian things I like to do in a session so if she does not initiate them I will.  For me agressive/passive is not as important and willingness to partake in different activities (positions and such) and overall attitude.

For example some guys like her to talk dirty, for me it doesn't matter.  Some guys want the girl to do everything they say.    I like different experiences and to figure out what will make it enjoyable for both of us and find some type of connection while still doing the things I like.

I've had and enjoyed dominant and submissive women. But the really memorable times have been when there is a sexual connection that evolves during the session, even if the lady is not an 8 /9/ 10 in looks.
Of course if she advertises a 9 and presents a 5 or below, nothing she can do is going to coax the Mighty Spelunker into action

...a little of both. It's good to experience a bit of each during the session. She can rock me but if I want something then I expect her to go along. It should be mutual passiveness and aggressiveness.

Submissive aggressive. That is makes it plain she likes to be dominated somewhat.
That is she likes spanked or maybe likes to be pounded in a sensual way. Hard to describe
But Kimberly of Norcross cums to mind!

Is your question directed normal men or men with women issues?

Answer: I prefer a women who is rational, normal and not afraid to express their mind and feelings.

over great and not-so-great sessions, the great ones tend to build step-by-step.  The not-so-great ones still are pretty good, but never seem to ramp up.  I've had the great build-up occur on different sessions with the same lady when she "led" one session and I "led" the other.  That is true with more than one lady.  I do love it when my partner says something like "it's been a long time since I've ................ - let's do that."

So the theme that keeps coming to me is "communication" not "control"  Talking about and being honest about what you want and like is what has always worked for me.  I love to please and to be pleased and although I may not be interested in doing certain things, I am always interested in discussing them

Recalling my first and second wonderful sessions with one well-known lady, in the first one I never got off of my back and in the second one she never got off of hers.  Both were great and control totally reversed.

I am totally enthralled by a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it.  I don't like a DOM session, more like an encouragment one.  Where she says things like "I've always wanted to try (see, feel etc) "This" and then ask me to do it for or with her.  

If there is mutual trust, there are damned few things I won't at least try.  And there are a couple of ladies out there who can confirm what I am saying.  

However, trust is the determining factor.  When I can honestly say "I don't think there is anything you genuinely want to do that I won't try for you" and know I'm safe that she will only ask things she is really into...it leads to one hell of a session(s)

Nature will take its course. But truely, When I meet a woman, either an old friend or a new one, they greet me at the door with a kiss out of this world, then and only then I will know if she will ROCK MY WORLD

For me, it totally depends on the mood, and probably more importantly, how natural it feels between the two of us.  A large component of the enjoyment I get out of meeting a woman is in finding out what she enjoys and just going with the flow, so I try to not have a plan and don't really look for a woman with a particular dominant or submissive style - both can be all sorts of fun as long as it feels natural.  I also think that some variety in style by the same woman is really exciting.  I spent time with a woman a few years ago who sometimes would be soft and sensual, and then other times she would meet me at the door and virtually attack me - it became extremely fun not knowing exactly which version I would get to see. I'm sure it's different for every guy, but I think the most important aspect for me is that a woman's style be natural for her and something that she enjoys - if she is enjoying herself, it usually works out pretty well for me!

Exactly. A woman who likes to act submissive but is aggressive in telling you so.

It's all about the kicking of the leg, right??? Lol

you know how to use it

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...the eliminate of surprise.  I do provide...lol