I have a question for the providers and would love to get some input....

The last two ladies I've seen have both had profiles on P411, but have ignored my requests for posting "Okays" on that site.  The dates went well - both said were interested in repeats, so I don't think there could be any problem there.  (Admittedly last date was recent/perhaps she hasn't had time.)

Why would a lady not wish to register an "Okay" if she maintains a profile on that site?  Do you ladies rely on P411 at all, or is it a waste of time as far as verification?

Gives us (the provider) a certain amount of days to respond to a P411 okay request before she suspends our account.  I would shoot the young lady an email and state you were wondering if she received your okay request on P411.  
Even if she felt the appt was not good, we can contact p411 to let them know that too.  
So long winded today sorry.... you can contact P411 &/or the provider to find out whats up.

May your day be Awesome
Kimberly
 of DC

I value P411 very much, but sometimes I forget to give the OK unless the gentleman reminds me.  I tend to forget that we can give the ok ourselves and still get the points credit because on Date-Check the gentleman has to request the Ok or we don't get the credit for it if we just give the ok ourselves.  

That is true Gina has rules about responding to requests.

Thanks for that input ladies, very helpful.

I've reached out again and we'll see - but I'll let it go and move on if no response.  I wouldn't think to contact the site - not my purpose to cause anyone problems....

They can't "ignore" requests for ok and have to respond or will be removed from p411 automatically. But it does take time for the ok to be processed. I wouldn't want any of my friends to think I have an issue for giving approval. Whoever seen me before should contact my assistant and let us know if there are any problems. Again, the rule of p411 is that we must respond on requests or we'll get kicked out. Try to send request again until you get what you want, while communicating with the provider.