Chanel,

I understand that you may be upset with recent allegations here that your new TER reviews may not be on the 'up and up'.

But the best advice I can give you is this:

You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.  Lashing out in public will negatively affect the perception the public has of you, and will only cause you to lose potential clients. Ranting may make you feel better, but it won't solve your problem.  History has shown that those who beat their chest most loudly are usually guilty.

If innocent, just smile and offer to 'prove' yourself to any hobbyists willing to TOFTT.  Maybe run a brief "getting to know you" special.  Valid reviews from respected posters will eventually be aired, and your business will be legitimized in the eyes of the TER community.  When that happens, you will be in a much better position to benefit from it - IF you have maintained a non-confrontational stance and not already alienated potential customers.

Either way, it's your choice.  Choose wisely.

Best of luck,
atl_mgr

It may be time to give this lady a break. As an independent person, she has the right to get upset same as the person who has the right to question her reviews.

Sometimes, it appers, the board is full of advise, whether somenone wants it or not. I am going to see Chanel as soon as I get a chance. Don't ask me to post reviews because I won't. Reasons (1) lack of time, (2) conforming to template for a review does not agree with my free spirited nature (3) I pay for VIP memebrship and like to keep it the it is, (4) don't want to post reviews because an individaul has good days and bad days so whatever I write is debatable and finally if you don't have nothing good to say about others, it is better to keep quite (that is what my mother told me) and I am going trust her advise on this one.

Not intended p.....ss..... of anyone just voicing my 2 cents.

Reon't want to get in the middle but..

I agree with both and told her to just let it lie. I TOFTT and was very pleasantly entertainted by this lady. Wow, big honkers and sweet wet dining. As stated, pics may be couple years old, but she is easy on the eyes. Just an ol man's veiw.  PW

I actually agree with you Alt_Mgr, this board is about reviews and us guys trying to get the most for our bucks.  New providers really need to understand this.  I'm glad to see JimmyPW TOFTT.  That's just great!

Chanel, as your rep improves, you'll find our ATL community very friendly.  There are just so many providers out there who rip us guys off.  Just check out the rip-off section of our board to get an idea.  As I've said, I hope you don't take it personal, try not to judge us too hard!

If JimmyPW says you're ok, then that works for me!  My apologies!  Welcome to TER ATL!

Joey





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Hey Chanel...take it from me....."you can catch more flies with honey"  is sooooooo true.....My wonderful "inspector gadget" initiated me to this board and I learned a valuable lesson.....I was really upset about certain things and the hormones went into overdrive trying to state my "case" but really it gets you no where!!  Give great service...they will be eating out of the palms of your beautiful hands!!!!  

So, I agree with you "inspector"...i am so glad I gave you that name....

lol

I am going to see her today, and give you guys a review. Wish me luck.

K

Reon't want to get in the middle but..

Ignore the idiots Chanel and provide a good time and things will be fine.

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I agree with you 100%. To me reviews are over rated. Some providers feel as if they have to bend over backwards and shit gold to please a hobbyist in order to not get a negative review. There are even times we as providers go far and beyond the call of duty and the hobbyist still says something negative in his review. I for one know that you just can't please them all! With me, I'm definately a YMMV provider because if I get a client who's personal hygiene is bad, he certainly won't experience my ultimate "GFE". I don't care if he's posted 50 reviews, he will still get the option of showering or leaving. I never compromise my expectations or beliefs to appease anyone. At the end of the day I answer to myself and my God only.... In closing, I think Chanel is beautiful! I'm not sure if the issue concerning her reviews is valid or not, but I just might have to call her up for a session because she's HOTT!!! XOXO, "Lundon"

I would like for it to be known that I never felt unwelcome just unloved.  Some hobbyists keep saying look at it from our aspect, which I did.  Now I'm asking that they look at it from mines.  I just don't understand how people can express their opinions of me but when I answer back with my comments, I am whining or ranting.  And as far as my comments, I wasn't try to be rude just honest.  That's just me.  Believe it or not my call volume from TER has went up.  According to some, my spunk, itrigues them.  The only thing that I can say is judge for yourself.  I'm sorry I am not going to offer any specials just for someone to give me a review.  That would be compromising myself and if I give one a special price then I should give one to everyone.  The only reason that I confronted anyone is because it would be different if someone was just expressing their opinion to me but their opinion is being broadcasted to thousands of people.  Have you heard the saying there is 2 sides to every story.  I just wanted to express my side.  There are 2 ways you can look at this.  Some may alienate themselves because they think that I may be too confrontational and then if perhaps I did not respond, they are some who may look at me and think that I have no backbone to try and defend myself.  If anyone feels alienated because of my remarks, then I am sorry, but if I had to do it again I would.  I'm sorry that I can't please everyone.  I am a strong minded women and I can't apologize for that.  I am not new to the adult entertainment business, just this aspect of it.  I never realized how much false advertising goes on.  I don't understand the logic in it because it is not as if this is phone sex where the person never sees you.  You have to meet with these people.  If the person comes through the door and you are not the lady in the photos what are you hoping that because they drove the distance that they are desprite enough to see you anyways.  I wouldn't.  If I were paying, what I saw in the advertisement is what I would want and expect.  As stated, I had one of my photos taken down because the lady in the picture was not me.  How was that supposed to benefit me?  I agree with Lundon, everyone has good and bad days.  If I was the like the hobbyists who get turned off and alienate themselves simply because of my responses then how do think my sessions would be if someone called me from TER, knowing that nothing but negative things were said about me.  I don't think that I could perform well at all.  Luckily, I am not that way.  I try to be to the best I can be and offer the best service I can.  My motto is, you get what you pay for.  You pay more for the finer things in life.  I didn't mean to go on and on, but I wanted you and everyone else to know where I'm coming from.  Put yourself in my position.  To those who came forward in my defense, THANK YOU SO MUCH AND I LOOK FORWARD TO ONE DAY MEETING YOU.