I have a couple of girls I would like to invite for an all nighter. They don't offer it as one of their services but I think they would be game. What do you think I should offer. Also, what is your thought on bringing them back to my home. Is that risky or is it okay in most cases? I have an SO but she is frequently out of town. I have seen both of these girls several times and have had a great time with them.

Frankly speaking, I think you're nuts if you plan on bringin another woman into your home where your SO lives.  Unless she's not really that "S", because you're sure risking killing the relationship if any one of hundreds of possible things goes wrong.  Murphey's Law, dude - don't do it.

Frankly I am with Atl_Mgr.

There are plenty of First Class hotels in the city. Get a nicecomfortable hotel room and have great time. Unless you are trying to kill the relationship.

Important life lesson:
Don't s*** where you eat!!
Atl manager is totally correct!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I do not like that...I have men ask all the time...I think it is some kink to be in the wifes bed or something...

I find that disrespectful to your SO...

The ladies you gentleman are spending your lives with are most likely wonderful people whom have just lost that 'special' drive over the years...

IF the SO is a girlfriend then why would you stay with her...

Back to my original thought...

Your home is your home and what woman with any class would want to come to your home if you have a SO that lives with you...
She would only be opening up for unwanted drama and WHY in the name of god would you want that...Imagine the pictures and personal things in your life that would be exposed...

Here is alittle senario for you...TRUE FACTS...

Just last year there is a hobbiest gets involved with some ladies...Takes them to his home where he tells them he is getting a divorce...All play and take vids and pics...Amazingly enough he IS NOT getting divorced...The wife finds out...She researches the ladies sites...Imagine her pain when she sees her bedroom on the internet and in the background of one of the providers pics were pics of the children...

I know this may not be the same but it is just not safe...Not for you or for the provider...
Do an overnite with her at her place...If you wanna be romantic and offer her something special then get a nice room downtown overlooking the city...

Sorry to ramble just felt a need to share my thoughts...

xoxox
HEIDI

Now, I have been to gents houses, but usu. the SO does not stay there on a constant basis...With single gents, I don't mind, and also do not mind when the SO doesn't in all actuality reside there.

It is a very high level of trust they place on me to do that, and I truly appreciate that and respect that, and will do whatever it takes to make them comfortable...

On the other hand, I do agree with the gents, that if you are not sure your SO will be gone from xday-xday, believe me; Murphy has been rampant at my house in the past 3 months...don't invite him over to your house...

It is wonderful the gents have come out on this...

Sexy Sofia