I hardly ever post here, but thought that this warranted me speaking up because I'd like to think that I'm not the only one who has the following opinion.

Whenever I see a bunch of the she-said / she-said stuff start popping up on here, it instantly raises a red-flag with me.  If a provider is willing to get catty with other providers and/or members in a public forum like this, what guarantees do I have that she will keep our dealings private?  Anytime I see someone engaging in the snippy exchanges, no matter how bad I want to see her in the future, she automatically ends up on my "do not see" list.  I know that is going to prevent me from seeing some ladies that I had very high on my "to-do" list, but that's a price I'm willing to pay for my peace of mind.

Not only that, but frankly I'm seriously beginning to believe that using TER is becoming a hazard to one's peace of mind.  I mean you can't post anything on any board anymore without somebody jumping on you and typically take what you say way out of context, or worse, outting you elsewhere on the web.

Then we have the reviews that my nearly anyone's opinion have become so exaggerated and otherwise unreliable that they don't have the value they once may have.

I don't know the answer, but I certainly know the problem, and it does require me to personally to think about possible solutions whatever they might be.

Whether those colors are positive or negative, they always find a way to shine through any mask.

I enjoying seeing both positive and negative colors as they both have the same informative effect.  
When true colors are revealed to me, it is then that I learn how to proceed with the individual....They always seem to tell me 1 of 3 things. To sum it up...1. Red Light.....Stop, do not proceed. 2. Yellow Light....proceed with caution.....and 3. Green.....Ok to proceed.

GK





 

hmmmmmmmmm

I will say one thing only
Dont Get Caught Up In A Cat Fight!!!!!!
Mind your buisness and sometimes in this biz it gets a bit nippy..Dont let a sometimes innocent party to the gossip is just that.... innocent..''I understand your feelings sometimes 2 thoroughbreds liike those 2 ya know Its all in a good days work nothing for you to worry about.


tyvm,P.T.





tyvm,P.T.

it's just that the negative stuff tends to stand out more.  And there are plenty of great ladies here IMHO.