I think some women just ooze sexiness. i mean a lady can be sexy I realize that but I am talking about how some women you just look at them and think Damn shes sexy as hell. It doesn't matter if she is dressed sexy or in bathrobe or pjs with feet. most of the ladies I have met in the hobby are very sexy but I have met a few ladies in my life . (And yes some are providers.) that knew just how to get me going and didn't do anything extra. A look, a smile, a touch, . Maybe once again thats where chemistry takes over . don't know But I do love sexy !!!

To paraphrase the late Justice Potter Stewart (although he was talking about pornography rather than sex),I can't define it, but I know it when I see it.

If a woman or  man  feels sexy she is sexy attitude and confidence in both men and women  go a long way

sun dress and barefoot.

Yes, hard to define but my body knows it when it sees it. And it's way beyond a look - its a personality and a demeanor that messages sensuality and desire. My 2cents

Looking into my eyes as we talk, like I am the most important person to her, and wearing a constant smile, are two of the sexiest things for me.

Some women are not what you would normally call beautiful, but there is something about them that makes them so sexy that it is almost unbelievable. You look at them and all you can think about is how to get them in bed.

Agreed! eom

need to be nurtured.

I think the combination of those gives birth to the spiritual.

A lady can be sexy in so many ways,,,,,time does not permit. Having said that, I've seen Librarians stop hearts! There's no school for it, it many have learned to turn their image/karma around.

and average looking girls that are very sexy.  It comes from confidence- both in yourself and as a woman.  The confidence takes the form of being comfortable with who you are as a person, and also comfortable with your feminine powers.  

When a woman has it, it projects to men on a subliminal level and they just sense it.  Sexy women use both their minds and their bodies to convey their sexuality.  I've known 7's and 8's that I lusted after because they had this sort of attitude of being a complete women and weren't afraid of using the power that gave them.

When I went to Paris I was really taken by the undercurrent of sexuality so many of the women had, even though in general, I don't think they are as pretty as American women.  But most American women think sexy comes from how you look in the mirror, whereas French women understand it's much broader concept than that.  It's difficult to describe in words, but you know it when you see it, and it was everywhere in France.

I think American women used to have this sort of sexuality, but lost it in the 1970's- 90s dressing and acting like men so they could prove they could do anything a man could do, particularly in business world.   Fortunately, I think American women now realize you don't have to dress like a man to be successful, and doing so is just a waste of their natural gifts.  

Being a woman is both complex and wonderful, and sexy women know how to coordinate and put together all the many parts like the conductor of an orchestra.  When they're finished, the result is greater than the sum of the parts.  We call it being sexy!

Oh so true!!