Nice to see a board for us and I would be glad to hear from any providers in my area.

They do not book dates with you, you make dates with them.  Asking them to message you will be looked at as primarily a time-waster for them, IMHO.  They have plenty to do, answering emails from guys that want a date with them.  

Sorry pal, but you should be emailing them.  I'm 64 (been hobbying 6 yrs), and can't remember a provider ever contacting me and asking me for a date.  It just doesn't work that way.

Good luck,
Swim

I, however, have been contacted by girls looking for dates. lol  Of course this is after I took the reigns initially.

I'm not criticizing, just saying.  Actually, I kind of enjoyed it because I knew they were motivated to see me so they'd be on time and in a good mood, etc..

But ladies you've never met are very unlikely to contact you in my experience.

I heard you're quite the companion

Whether I enjoyed the contact was relative to who it was lol

I have had providers that I have seen before, contact me by email when they are returning to my area.  If I can, or want, to see them again, I will, if not, I won't.  But I always respond to the emails, even though it's probably a bulk message.  Can't help to stay in touch, right?

Swim

if you haven't already. When I'm going on an out of town business trip I"ll use the search feature and put together a list of ladies I might want to see. I also look look at the "new" reviews.