This may be more of a vent than anything but I just wanted to let you all know how much appreciation I have for older men.

I haven't been a provider for very long and have mostly met with gents in my age range or older.  I am in my mid 40s.  I have noticed several providers stating that they only meet gentlemen over a certain age, like 30, 40 or 50.  I never really thought that much about it.  I do/did not have those restrictions.  I may change that now.

A short while back I met with a 20-something guy that said he loves older women.  He did mention to me prior to the apt that he was interested in my squirting abilities.  I told him that it does not happen every time but we will certainly try.  We had the session.  We both had a good time.  He popped a couple times and I came a few times myself.  However, I only managed to squirt a small amount.  Not for lack of trying or lack of interest.  Like I said, he did make me cum.

Now I read the review he left me.  In the review he says I'm attractive, gave awesome service and popped twice.  And then says he would not repeat.  I feel that he gave me a poor score based on my lack of squirting.  His review is contradictory to the ratings he left me.  

I do not advertise my squirting ability since it is unpredictable and not guaranteed to happen every time.  And if someone is specifically looking to experience it, I remind them that YMMV.  Now I am disheartened by his review.

Am I reading the review wrong?  Or was he just being immature leaving me a poor rating?  Is this the reason why so many providers decline meeting with younger hobbyists?

It happens sometimes.  In spite of the things he said to you, it was pretty obvious that he was there for one thing, squirting.  He apparently did not listen to your qualification that it doesn't happen all the time, so was disappointed in his expectations.  That is on him not you, if you were clear!  I wouldn't worry too much about the one review, as it doesn't really line up with your other performance scores.  When I look at that, I figure that one guy out of 18 or so reviews has low score, and the score doesn't necessarily match the description, it is probably the guy.  JMO

It could be immaturity on his part, or he could just be one of those guys who is trying to catalog things on a list.  Anyway, it is his loss for failing to appreciate the full experience.

and no one will call him charitable either in his ratings, but it is not a "poor" review.

I, for one, would not let that review deter me from seeing you.

It may not be fair to dismiss his review on account of age either.  Plenty of middle-age and older men can be just as stingy with their scores.

i read his review, IMHO a total jerk.  Cums twice & he complains about you not squirting.  Frankly, i read that as he didn't do his job in turning you on !

I appreciate all you have to say.  You have been around these boards a while longer than I have and can see the big picture better than I can.

Hopefully what you say is true and that anybody who does their research/homework will see through that review.

Thanks guys!

Big hugs and wet kisses to you!
Angel

older gents. We appreciate the wonders of your sexuality without being fixated on any one particular act. Each experience is unique because each lovely lady is unique. He should have posted an "in search of " looking for a squirter. Don't fret pretty lady overall you are well reviewed

for many of the same reasons.
I have decided I will mainly see older women, more in the MILF, even GILF category. You are more mature, comfortable in your body and this hobby, and understand what we want and need. Too much drama, unpredictableness, and disruption to see the younger generation. Besides, we have much less in common to talk about while we both recover.

just a " matter of fact " review..as i stated in my top 10 list..most are inconsiderate and disrespectful..most younger hobbyists are just like the 6 year old brat who got spanked by Mommy because he didnt get what he wanted and cried about it..

I love the way you think!!

Smooch!

Lea

I wouldn't lose any sleep over his review. You have many other great ones that can't be ignored. I had a post on the GD board that hobbyists should put their own age into the review as this would give fellow hobbyists a better perspective on the review itself. Continue being honest when you are contacted, provide the best service you can at a reasonable rate and you'll do great.

I personally prefer older guys myself. Sometimes the younger guys aren't even sure WHAT they want. It takes two to make a great session. I enjoy myself in my session and it makes my "giving" even more intense when that happens. I've had clients call me back a day or two later to tell me how great it was and I feel them cause I KNOW when and I have gone the extra mile. I have had those reviews also. The scores suck and the narrative is explosive.....doesn't make sense. I feel you on that totally. This kind of thing can really kill your spirit. Don't let it. Make the next session pop and move on.

So true. Older men understand how the body works and what makes sex great or not so great. They know the difference between awesome love making and teen sex. Younger guys seem to want you to replicate what they saw on a movie. And if you don't replicate don't to the T they are not happy. PLUS the conversations are better with older men(which is a big turn on for me).

The older ladies are GREAT!
Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.

I'm with you on this one. I had seen some younger women and while it was an ok experience, the providers closer to my age just connected with me on many levels. The younger ones just seemed to be 'doing their job', while the mature women acted as if they were 'devouring me' and took their time to savor each moment with me. I just wish my budget would allow me a wider sampling of the 40yo.+ providers.