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This topic has jumped to the general board. Don't know how to add the link but it's there this evening with lots more answers. The general concensus seems to be, as it was here,  that providers do not mind if we wear our wedding rings.

I am up early today! (Victoria - are you still awake? hope not!)
Here's a question for the married gents and for the ladies on this board: Men: do you wear your wedding ring to a date with a provider and ladies: how do you feel about us wearing a wedding ring when we are with you?

......my married friends leave them on.

Hugs and Kisses

I just woke up.....so am sleeping better thanks ....rings  hummm honestly I could care less most admit to being married anyway and I have never been married so  the ring thing no isssue here....

I ask my guys to please put their ring in their pocket if they insist on taking it off.  Either that or I suggest they put the ring on top of their phone.  One more thing is they can put it on their other hand.  I prefer they keep it on so it doesn't get lost.  Can you imagine if you misplaced your wedding ring?  How can you explain that one?  Personally I think it's a whole lot safer to keep it on.  It does not bother me at all if a man is wearing a wedding ring.

I would think if it bothers a provider, then she is crossing the line
getting too personal . Men who are superstitious though are welcome
to out it with their phone like Betty said.

I let the man engage in conversation he is comfortable with . Most men come to see me to enjoy a fantasy so why muddle a good time with stressful conversation. If a man wants to chat about his life and issues I will listen and give honest input.  The ring makes that statement for them but means little to me. As Betty Said "what do you tell your wife if you lose your ring"

Kisses Haley

And as Betty said, I MUCH prefer they keep it on or put it in their pocket. I would hate the thought of them losing it!!

Honestly MOST of my friends are married, and Ive never had one take their ring off.

I love hearing your views on so many subjects. I have always taken my ring off, thinking that it was more considerate not to flaunt my being married. I'm always honest if asked and don't mind talking about it, but just thought it was more polite not to wave the ring like a flag. I laugh at myself for having an old fashioned attitude about this, guessing that most of you probably can peg us married guys within minutes anyway, and probably didn't mind, but it's good to hear it from you. It's sweet that you worry about us losing the ring. After 10 years hobbying, I've got that part figured out! I almost always hobby while traveling for work. I wear a tie at work, so I thread my ring onto the tie I'm going to wear the next time I leave my hotel room to go to work.

I do wear my wedding ring and am in a loving marriage which has room for each of us to have sex friends outside our marriage. Being a woman there is no expensive for her but it'd be fine if she wanted a Chippendale. It did take a little time to figure out. I have no problem with providers wearing wedding rings or even talking about her marriage.

...so I don't have a ring to wear. When I was married and went to strip clubs I just kept it on.
It doesn't bother me if the provider wears her wedding rings. No big deal. I don't mind talking about her family either if she is of a mind to do so.

This topic has jumped to the general board. Don't know how to add the link but it's there this evening with lots more answers. The general concensus seems to be, as it was here,  that providers do not mind if we wear our wedding rings.

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On local dates, I wear my ring, since I'm afraid I would forget to put it back on, which would put me in an embarrassing position if my wife noticed.  I travel frequently with my favorite lady, and in these situations, I usually leave my ring in my car at the airport.  I'm not sure why this dichotomy.  I just feel more relaxed not wearing it when I travel.  Maybe you psychoanalysts have an explanation.

when I took it off for a date and had to always be sure I put it in a safe place. There was one time when I couldn't find it but it did reappear almost a year later. Since I have lost some weight, it is too big now.

I never take mine off.  Never been an issue.

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