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Re: Procedure
holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 6502 reads
posted
1 / 22

Wondering if any guys out there suffering from BPH have had a procedure known as PAE.

mibfig 4 Reviews 84 reads
posted
2 / 22

I had a PAE done a few years ago. Unfortunatley, I was one of the unlucky ones where the procedure didn't work. If you are worried about retrograde ejaculation that comes with most other procedures, you way want ot consider a Urolift. I wish I had gone that route. I can't now becuase my prostate is too large.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 83 reads
posted
3 / 22

Thanks for the feedback.  

 
I know there is always a chance that it won't work. No 100% guarantee. I've read negative things about urolift and decided a while ago not to go that route.

 
How much was the PAE and does insurance generally cover it (if you know)?

mibfig 4 Reviews 71 reads
posted
4 / 22

Yes. My insurance covered it. Good luck on your procedure.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 81 reads
posted
5 / 22

I haven't decided yet. Once I get through the next few busy weeks I'll look to set up a consultation at Johns Hopkins.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 69 reads
posted
6 / 22

Although a man may have a BPH........He won't have a problem with his dick getting hard.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 73 reads
posted
7 / 22

Thanks for the useless comment.

IBeCurious 47 Reviews 70 reads
posted
8 / 22

I spoke to my urologist and asked about PAE. He suggested it was more for larger prostates over 100 mg or those with adverse reactions to anestheology. Asked about Urolift, said I wasn't a good candidate due to the shape of my prostate and that it had a high redo rate. A friend told me his urolift was only about 35% effective. Urologist discussed several other procedures and then said he now performs the HoLEP. I forgot what procedure he performed prior to HoLEP. But it seems to be the gold standard, very low incidence of repeat. But not every urologist is trained in the HoLEP and it's best to go with someone who has performed at least 100 of them. Recovery seems to be quicker but the downside is retrograde ejaculation, no more squirt - it goes backwards into the bladder to be pissed out afterwards. And a bit of incontinence after the procedure, needing Kegels to tighten up the muscles. I had the HoLEP and it works great with no more retention, avg 8-12 oz a squirt, still a little stress squirts in the evenings.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 61 reads
posted
9 / 22

First you say retrograde ejaculation then you turn around and brag about the size of your "squirts". Which is it??

Valida 17 Reviews 68 reads
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10 / 22
IBeCurious 47 Reviews 65 reads
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11 / 22

Pissing squirts, intentional vs those little pissing squirts while my dick is still in my pants. Hope that gives you a better visual.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 43 reads
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12 / 22

No, I have no idea what you're getting at. Are you talking about urinating or ejaculating?

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 57 reads
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13 / 22

I just read about HoLEP. It doesn't sound very appealing.

Zippythepinhead 32 Reviews 58 reads
posted
14 / 22

I’m curious.  What is it about HoLep you find unappealing? Thanks

Valida 17 Reviews 49 reads
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15 / 22
IBeCurious 47 Reviews 56 reads
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16 / 22
IBeCurious 47 Reviews 53 reads
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17 / 22
mibfig 4 Reviews 57 reads
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18 / 22

I responded earlier to your (Holystonethdeck's) post about PAE and have since seen my urologist about the next step for me. Call it ego, pride, vanity, desperately trying to hold on to youth, whatever, but I want to try to avoid retrograde ejaculation, even at my advanced, septegenarian age. The procedure my doctor is recommending for me is a relatively new approach called Aquablation (see link.)  Research on its impact on ejaculation is still somewhat preliminary, but early indications are that it is better at avoiding retograde ejaculation than most approaches. Quoting from a report out of Cleveland Clinic: "According to clinical studies, patients who undergo aquablation therapy have very low rates of incontinence, retrograde ejaculation, and erectile dysfunction, complications associated with other BPH surgical treatments."

Hope this helps.

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AllTheTimeBaby 53 reads
posted
19 / 22

I was wondering the same thing when a women "squirted" on me.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 45 reads
posted
20 / 22

Catheterization, overnight hospital stay, etc

IBeCurious 47 Reviews 42 reads
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21 / 22

It was pee! She must not do kegels.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 40 reads
posted
22 / 22

For avoiding the retrograde ejaculation PAE seems to be the sure option.

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