Guys, let's bring this forum back to a discussion of sweet encounters with lovely women that we older mongers have had and quit talking about medical issues for a while, k?  Can we do that please? Especially now that Dr. Joe has explained that we really should be getting professional medical advice.

I'll start. (apologies if you realize I posted a short version of this story on another board.  But it deserves to be here as well)  

Last Friday I rode my motorcycle 50 miles to the University area and picked up my 19 year old sweetheart.  We met online, on another website and have been dating for months. I'm 69, so there's a 50 year age difference, something which turns me on enormously and seems to do the same for her as well.  We rode back to my home and had a nice chat with my wife.  Yes, we are that kind of open and polyamorous people.  Then I took my sweety shopping for a few trinkets of jewelry (less than $100 spent) and we went to dinner at a favorite local eatery where we met my wife and her BF as planned.  A delicious and delightful time was had by all.  

When it was time to go, the dinner was on my credit card.  My wife and her BF went to his house, while me and my young sweety went to mine.  The sex was just lovely, seemingly gets better every time as we become more intimate and get to know each other better. Lots of daty, bbbj, 69, mish, scissors, spoons, lazy dog, etc.  Gotta love those acronyms!  She had lots of small earthquakes during this activity.  Finally I sat up next to her and began to work her clit with a vibrator.  My fingers were inside her tender teenage pussy.  After a few more O's which I could feel as her contractions squeezed my fingers, she took control of the vibrator and asked me to play with myself.  She loves watching me do that.  Finally she had a massive O as did I and we fell asleep naked together.  

In the morning she slept late.  I got up and had coffee watching this sweet angel sleeping.  When she got up I made breakfast and we talked about many things, such as sex work, capitalism, Coleridge, guns, and other topics of mutual interest.  This girl has interests, has a brain, and knows how to use it.  Finally it was time to drive her home so I gave her the $200 gift I always give her.  When my wife returned home that afternoon we compared notes and talked about our experiences, our lovers, and how lucky we are.  I've said it before, but I never imagined I'd be having this much fun at my age.

Good for you. If I could have a marriage like yours, I "might" reconsider getting married again someday, but I instead I think I will keep being me and you can keep being you and BOTH of us can be happy for the other.  

Once again, GREAT post.

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Great post sweetman.  Who knew old guys could have such fun?  You identified the critical component of a great lover - her lovely brain.

I am grateful that I live in Tampa home of the most amazing women.  The fact is its probably been 10 years since I've had a marginal encounter & that was in Miami.  I'll leave the names out so as not to appear to be shilling.  

I recently spent an awesome afternoon with a lady I had put off seeing because I could not believe she was for real.  She was very real.  Welcomed me with baked Brie and a radiant smile.  She is articulate, well traveled, educated and a wonderful lover.

Although I am a complete slut, I have made the acquaintance of another adult woman whom I have spent more hours with this summer than any other lady in a decade.  She is clear on her website she is not looking for a boyfriend which is good to know because she is a dream companion.  She is very real, open, has a fully functioning brain and the atmosphere is non-transactional.  Her pet likes me which is a good sign.

Two months ago I visited a lady I have known for years.  She is an all around sweet lady, attractive, a fascinating conversationalist and a sensual lover.  I realized later what drew me to call her.  I was about to engage in an important activity & I was on edge. We made love then curled up together and talked. She got my head in the right place and I was on my game the next day.

Fortunately one of my all time favorite lovers is returning to the Tampa area. She is one of those people who really gets our lifestyle and appreciates her clients.

With all these ladies there is a common thread. They are completely non-transactional, real people who are comfortable in their own skin. It is not so much what we might do in bed together as the being with them that makes each visit remarkable.  There is just something about spending time with a woman in a pleasant atmosphere that makes you wonder how people can think something so beautiful can be wrong.

about your last sentence." There is just something about spending time with a woman in a pleasant atmosphere that makes you wonder how people can think something so beautiful can be wrong." What a profound statement and I couldn't agree more.  

What a great thread this is.

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That's the one in the Superman Comics where everything is topsy turvy.

How do we get there?

Congrats on doing so.

Here's a look at what it could be like to another picked on group

You SOB, you really are. Great post and so on point.

Thanks GaG. I really appreciate it.

My wife is 67, will turn 68 in a couple weeks.  We've been together since 1969.  She's a vibrant, sexy woman who still turns me on after all these years.  We did have a few affairs at the beginning of our relationship, but then were monogamous for 25 years or so.  I didn't like that very much, being a naturally slutty guy.  So then at age 55 I discovered TER and thought I'd died and gone to heaven.  My initial outings were with my wife's consent, but she was a bit scared I'd run off.  When it became obvious to her that I always came home, happy and healthy and horny for her, she relaxed and decided it might be a lifestyle she'd enjoy as well.

Wow Jim, I agree with you so completely. It's often been said that the most important sex organ in the human body is the brain.  How true.  And I really like that you stressed the non-transactional nature of your encounters.  That's how it's been for me with my favorites as well.  We anticipate eagerly each encounter, we talk, have sex, and generally simply enjoy one another.  The gift really feels like an afterthought, just a gift between friends who care for each other.

In my case at least, this is EXACTLY what I dreamt of when I was young.  

I always dreamt just how great it would be if I could fuck all sorts of different women all the time, and now that it's true, it's every bit as great as I dreamt it would be. lol

I guess that's not much of a disagreement, now is it? lol

and suggested I add a few more details. When my lover and I arrived at home on my motorcycle we met my wife who had just pulled into the driveway on her own motorcycle! So we had fun looking over the bikes together while we parked them, removed helmets, made introductions, etc. She also wanted me to mention that her BF is 65yo. He's totally different from me, but a great guy. I'm really happy for them. The fact that my wife has found a lover of her own has helped restore a needed balance in our relationship.

And was this going on say 30 years ago?

Interesting question.  No, never lived in a commune.  I had long hair but would describe myself as a hippie wanna be, never really lived the full lifestyle.  My wife wanted to maintain her independence, even after we got married.  So we both had a few affairs, but not with the same intention or openness as now.  Then for a variety of reason we were monogamous for 25 years. It was only after I started dating escorts at age 55 and my wife and I began to talk seriously about what those adventures meant to me and even more importantly what they did not mean to me that we became comfortable with a non monogamous lifestyle.  And even more recently we have discovered that polyamory is a thing, and we've talked and read about it and decided it's a good reflection of who we are and our values and relationship philosophies.

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can because there are many amazing women there. I compared our review lists and we have many ladies in common.

Hobby safely everyone.

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