Sex is not as good, as it was for me in my 30's. ( or my teen yrs )  55 now.
Men, do any of you REALLY feel any different, about this issue??
Of course if needed meds had not entered my life, i may be singing a different tune.
Guess i can't have my cake and eat it too??

It's better for me now. I know more. I am fortunate that I don't have health issues that interfere with it. I get it more frequently now than when I was married to the first wife. The second wife and I had sex all the time. The sex was great. It was the rest of the relationship with her that sucked. That's why I'm single now.

sex gets better with age..you learn to appreciate it more..you savor it instead of devouring it..i have long slow intimate sessions now instead of popping load after load off..my younger days are gone now..my body wont let me do what i used to do..you adjust..you have to..

In my 2 1/2 years,  have learned things with providers and experienced wonderful sensations that I never even dreamed were possible. Is that a function of age or of the quality and expereince of the comapnionship? my guess is a combination of the two but with a strong emphasis on the latter!

be dead now, so there's a trade-off. I have hobby  limitations now and have learned how to deal with and work around med-related issues.

When I was younger all sex seemed to be good, now it seems to be my pardner that makes or breaks the experience.

and so I can't get off three times in an hour like I could when I was twenty.

If I can get off 3 times in a 12 hour overnight, I'm doing well.

However, with age comes wisdom and the knowledge of how to savor and enjoy things that are taken for granted when younger.

That along with treating my body better now in terms of nutricion and exercise produce a more satisfying result.

It is all what you make of it.

Way better for me! I took me 50 years to realize that really great sex is more than just the act. I think women are beautiful and when there is a connection, you feel the butterflies before the meet. you feel the tingles as you kiss, and feel the stirring down below in anticipation of what is about to come. I have always been shy around women and I am still that way in Civie social settings, but the hobby and being a seasoned business owner have made it easier for me to get to know the ladies I meet. The hobby has allowed me to experience many fantasies that I once thought would never happen.

There are a few ladies I have met where the connection was so strong we made love the whole session and I performed way better that when I was young. It is truly all about how you feel about the lady that gets the hormones pumping!

I'd much rather be with a lover than the energizer bunny. I truly appreciate and enjoy the gent who has a lifetime of experience more than one who can have 3 orgasms in an hour and never care what happens to me. Yep........especially as a provider.   THAT connection makes my "job" the best in the world.......... at any age.  

Your Very Naughty Girlfriend,
Anneke

anneke sums it perfectly..well said..

I agree

Much better! I am approaching 64 and I am enjoying each and every encounter. Luckily everything still works so I have no complaints. I do not recover as fast as I used to but that is OK. Round 2 can sometimes be just about pleasuring my playmate - if that is what we decide to do.

Pat J

When you were younger it was more about reaching the destination rather than enjoying the journey.

Now its all about the journey, and you can relax and take your time knowing you will reach your destination, so whats the rush?  

I like to take my time and have a gentleman last as long as he can with me,  ( I am all bout teasing, pleasing and delayed gratification whenever possible) so rather than three pops in one hour,  its much more fun to take that full hour to get him to the pop.

but the desire for it has not much waned.

I have been married twice 15 years each time. I broke up with a fiance 2 years ago and started doing this. I have had a lot better sex and way more often. (1 to 2 times a week) I might add with hotter women who know how to treat a man. i didn't have a lot of sewing oats when I was younger . Got married when I was 19 and I don't stray when in a committed relationship. So I am sewing my wild oats now .

As I mentioned in a different thread, in my younger days, sex was all about me getting off.  Yes, now, I still expect to get at least one pop, but I enjoy getting her off now and expect to do it.  30-40 years ago, I never even thought about getting her off.  Hell, I probably didn't know about girls O's, not probably, I did not know period.  If I can't get her off now, or at least think I did, I'm disappointed.

Swim