and often it isn't the what, but the how, that's important.

I've made love with aggressive gals and gals that are as sweet and docile as can be, and still they are very alluring in their own special way.

The first rule is to be yourself.  (No one else will do it, after all.)

Okay I know I am  an escort  but for some reason when  I read  certain posting and the provider is very aggressive  and  in your face  with sexual  content meant as funny to some.... I find myself  backing away..... is  it weird to try an be  a lady  when it is what is.....?Do these type of posts turn guys on ? Or is it again an age thing? am  I somewhat  old fashioned in my thinking here?

IMO, it's more of a personal preference than an age thing....this time.  I was never turned on by aggressive women.  Alot of guys are, regardless of age.  So, for the provider making those posts, it works for a good percentage of the population.  

I like it slow and gentle must be good for both of us.

absolutely just thought I might be losing my sense of humor......

slow and gentle works in person  but not with posting it seems more wild gets more reads and maybe that is the point just not for me .......

I do think it's an age thing... the youngsters, male and female, tend to be more in your face than us elder statesmen. Not that there are not exceptions to both sides, but my son and I had a knock down drag out years ago... He thought Andrew Dice Clay was hilarious.. I told him he was crude, vulgar, and uncouth... finally convince him to listen to an old LP that I had of Bill Crosby's routines.. suprising thing is, he actually agreen with me in the end...

You don't have to be crude to be humorous... maybe that's why I like older providers.. when I mention Bob Hope, they know who I'm talking about and don't give me this blank bull at a bastard calf stare

I do not mind explicit talk in the reviews. It is expected. I am ok with explicit talk if it is germane to the discussion.

But, if a lady, or gent, is using locker room talk, I do not find it appealing (even in the locker room).

Or, are you asking about a lady being very aggressive in the bedroom? There, I am all for it. Variety is the spice of life. Note: There is a difference between aggressive (taking control) and being kinky (domination).

I was more addressing  board posting banter/posting  done it a "in you face " type posting   just a little too much but your right some love it ...me not so much

It seems like we are becoming more of a rude society.  Manners for the under-40 crowd don't seem to be very widespread these days.  You notice it on the highways, in the malls, and on TER.  We baby-boomers learned good manners or paid the price with our parents.  I live in Michigan, but next time I'm in Arizona, I'll give you a call Victoria and we can bitch about the kids during the downtime.

where in michigan do you live? And i agree  just watch  reality TV and how kids talk to their parent  my parents would of sent me into next week if I ever acted like that  to this day  I would never swear in front of them out of respect....

Victoria-you have a pm.  Hope to talk to you soon.

otherwise you attract men your not interested in meeting. All we have is words to market ourselves on most boards so each piece of info in print is very important. This is a social network of sorts with financial gains which many ladies try to optimize.

Be yourself and you can't go wrong.

Kisses Haley

sorry it never came resend  or here is my e-mail address [email protected] thanks!

great advice harley  am so happy to see a couple more providers joining  in  over here its been great so far  so how are thing going in Florida ? I know you guys got hit  hard  like AZ when everything went south in 2007......we in Az are still feeling the pain

I don't mean if a woman is open and candid. Nor do I mean if she expresses herself sexually. Nor if she make "the first move" or is something other than passive during intimacy. Nor do I mean a woman who has a voracious sexual appetite.

All those are fine!!!!

But strong forward hedonsitic aggressive unrestrained and unnuances sexual expession in posts, I find tacky even when a man does it. When a woman does, I find it destroys her charm and femininity to me. She almost sounds like a predator in those cases. Or if she is taking testosterone or something and had become mannish.

Blech!

Even though you and I don't know one another so to speak, I believe I may have encountered some of the same examples that you have. And no, you are not being a prude.

A woman who wraps her sexuality in femininity, who understands the art of inuendo, the dynamic of the slow reveal, the anticipation, the mystery, and who has mastered the art of being subtle has achieved the pinnacle of female sexuality. Such a woman has more power than the nations and offers to her man something more valuable than all their riches.

or sumpin like dat


HH

Always a pleasure Victoria. You are the epitome of grace, and as charming as you are beautiful.


HH

Thank you HH  I thought it was just me frankly being senitive.... I too like a woman to be more softer and sensual yet still be able to  to keep her humor and fun side  I mean  this is  the Hobby after all.....nice to see you here where I have been hanging out !

I was recently interviewed for an article in Playboy, who knows when it will come out as it was supposed to be November, and the question was asked about menus on websites.

I expressed my belief that to list services on the website was not something I care to do.  I feel the same about ads.  However, this is only my opinion.  Ladies who want to list thatn. BBBJTC, cowgirl, missionary, etc.... Can do as they please.  I choose not to.