The secret to great French kissing is responsiveness. Sometimes you lead, sometimes you let your partner lead. Don't just use your tongue like a dart!

When French Kissing. Don't dive straight for the tonsils. Play with their tongue - caress, fondle, wrestle with it. Think of it as trying to massage the other's tongue. NEVER bite; you could easily hurt the other person.

The secret to great kissing is variety. Sometimes you're gentle, sometimes you're rough. Ouch! Tease your partner with a little bite on the lips—as if you can't control yourself and want to eat them up. Press your nose into your partner's cheek and hug 'em to you, like the Eskimos.

Let your partner take the lead sometimes and get used to his or her style. Give each other chances to lead and you may find a different way you like to kiss.

Use your hands! Don't let your arms awkwardly hang there. Guys, your hands should be around her back, waist, or on the sides of her face. Girls, your hands can be in a NUMBER of places, including: around his neck, on the sides of HIS face, on his stomach, on his hips, or a guy's favorite, on his biceps. Also don't be afraid to run your fingers through your partner's hair, just make sure your hair is clean just in case it happens to YOU!

Use your tongue in the way you want your partner to use his/hers - both of you will naturally do the same.

So everyone up for some kissing?

the eyes may be the mirror of the soul..but kissing is the mirror of passion..if you and her are 'into it'..it shows up in your kiss..your tongues are one ..you are one..nothing else matters..it is pure pleasure..

Posted By: Sexy Carolina

The secret to great French kissing is responsiveness. Sometimes you lead, sometimes you let your partner lead. Don't just use your tongue like a dart!

When French Kissing. Don't dive straight for the tonsils. Play with their tongue - caress, fondle, wrestle with it. Think of it as trying to massage the other's tongue. NEVER bite; you could easily hurt the other person.

The secret to great kissing is variety. Sometimes you're gentle, sometimes you're rough. Ouch! Tease your partner with a little bite on the lips—as if you can't control yourself and want to eat them up. Press your nose into your partner's cheek and hug 'em to you, like the Eskimos.

Let your partner take the lead sometimes and get used to his or her style. Give each other chances to lead and you may find a different way you like to kiss.

Use your hands! Don't let your arms awkwardly hang there. Guys, your hands should be around her back, waist, or on the sides of her face. Girls, your hands can be in a NUMBER of places, including: around his neck, on the sides of HIS face, on his stomach, on his hips, or a guy's favorite, on his biceps. Also don't be afraid to run your fingers through your partner's hair, just make sure your hair is clean just in case it happens to YOU!

Use your tongue in the way you want your partner to use his/hers - both of you will naturally do the same.

So everyone up for some kissing?

practice, practice, practice.

Dear Sexy Carolina:
With respect to the comment on your hand placement, I was wondering do you like the hand on the mid back or on the small of your back in proximity to your lovely and fair derriere ?  Also elaborate more on the pressure added by the hand. Should it be sensual,friend or suggestive depending on what type of mood that you would be in?

It works best when you are communicating passion and desire.  It you are communicating "let's fuck" you won't get very far unless you've paid, then you will only get what you paid for!

I really like kissing for the same reason I really like 69 - it's a nonverbal communication process in which you do a little something and your partner's response either reinforces and builds on it or not, in which case they try or you try something a little different.  It's a closed loop feedback process that starts slow and builds in intensity.  Rush it and ruin it.  Go with the flow with someone who is skilled and it's wonderful!