Anyone in our age group doing the Sugar Daddy thing ?  I've looked at it but it seem very difficult  if you have a spouse ?
I asked the same question on a Sugar Daddy forum and almost all of the replies said they don't recommend it  for guys with spouses.  What do you say ?  

Despite the odd name it has evolved over the years into the Sugar Board.

I posted about this on the GB. I am not on any of the SD/SB websites, but I am ISO of a friendship with special privileges. I respect peoples privacy and would never jeopardize anyone's marriage. I just want to have fun and know my time is settled.  

I had a special arrangement with a married friend for years. I met him as a client but we became close and we enjoyed each other’s company so much we came to an agreement for extended visits. We even traveled together but he had to travel for work anyway so his wife was used to him being away often.  I absolutely loved the time we spent together and cherish the memories.  

I tested the water with Ashley Madison and Secret Benefits.  I didn't like the vibe and hustle.  It was uncomfortable having conversations about the transactional nature and I find myself enjoying the company of my regular provider.  The expectations with a provider are so much easier than dealing with the drama and insincerity of a SB.  

Thanks for your input. I don't need drama in my life .

I've been sugaring for about 15 years (I'm 73) and it's been fun. I am not married though. Yes, do go check out the board here as there are many SDs with experience weighing in on useful stuff. I will say this, in today's world it can be challenging to find that perfect SB. It takes a lot of time and effort but I guess many SDs like the chase/challenge as much as the eventual BCD.  But once you've found one it can be amazing. Yes it is transactional at the beginning but the other side of that is that you can end it at any time and most importantly the sex and intimacy is way superior to many escorts. I've been with my SB for 3 years and we know each other so well now it is a breeze. Benefit is I take her on vacations and we go to events together periodically. But you can design your arrangement any way you want, which is the beauty of it.

Living in San Diego, The border is close and on the otherside of that is Mexico, where there are many to choose from and they are absolutely wonderful. FInding one that can cross these days is the key to enjoying the life of a Sugar Daddy.