Hi to all,
It's been awhile since I have been  around, but nice to pop in and see you are all having fun. So my question is what do you ladies do if you get a guy like myself with a hair trigger and it no fun at all, I can go from ??? if I'm lucky to with the erection to ejaculation almost upon penetration.

Well reviewed ladies will mostly allow multiple shots on goal.  If you have PE, and booked say 2 hours, you could try for another round.  Or go with a BJ to start...  warn her & perhaps it could be extended some...  and go a second round after suitable recovery.  Do not be embarrassed.  Consider it a challenge to plan around.    
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First....harborview gives good advice.  

They are expert in building you up to just before the point of no return, then backing you off so that you don't come too soon.  They can repeat this for up to 30 minutes and when you do release, it will be fireworks.

There's also a home study method whereby you masturbate just to the point of no return (8 on the 1 to 10 scale where 8 is the acceleration to the point of no return [9].  10 is actual ejaculation.)  Repeat as necessary until you master lasting for around 30 minutes or so.

As a big advantage to this, you also get multiple orgasms (Orgasm does not equate to ejaculation.)

You could really turn this lemon into lemonade with the right assistance.

e:Now there was a gentleman on here sometime ago that was using injections and said the even if ejaculating he.still maintained an erection. My urologist said their is no drug that is legal for P.E.

Many of my Gents..love them..also they have one that Viabrates..really helpful..you can get the vibrating on in packs of Select Trojans..yep at the Cvs or walgreens sell them..the coolest!
just my 4 cents...
Hugs...and kisses..to all!
keri Diamonds

Thanks for the links and info, it's a real bummer and not having a steady sex life does not help. I will  do my homework and find a well reviewd provider but it's a shame that due to our laws you can't really ask about it ahead of time.

Thanks for a nice reply to a sensitive issue and being an understanding provider. The worst part the man is there is little enjoyment in it for either party and I can understand why a lady would not want a relationship in real life with him.  

Now that was something I had not thought of as I did not know exactly what they did or how far they would go. Thanks for bring it my attention.

I was hoping you (assuming it was you and I do think so) would chime in. Thanks for listing the  mixture.  I guess the trick is to tell the urologist that the pill are not working because when I told last time he said he can't legally prescribe any meds for P.E. as none are approved that.

What the MD said may be true but the trimix has nothing to do with PE. It just makes you hard and it will remain hard so if you try for seconds it might prolong the event. The directions to trimix  say to take sudafed if the erection lasts 4 hours. I usually take a sudafed after my lady leaves. Who knows what a penis knows about nasal congestion? When I think about it, if my nose is congested I Blow it and since I can't reach my penis to blow it, I just find one of my favorites ladies to do that for me LOL

Obviously it takes one thing off the table, and that would be an issue in a relationship, but with an escort?  You can still get oral after, both ways, a massage, and so on.  

I understand where the OP is coming from because I lost the ability to have an erection due to a bad medical procedure, I was able to cum  and I loved doing it with several ladies. It is just more fun to have different options rather than just oral (which I love). All that said, you make a good point.

This does not need to be seen as a problem

There are many ways this can go depending on your mindset. The journey is the most important part of the equation. A skilled lady can prolong the end in many ways.

Merry Christmas and that answer made my LMAO

Well, that is something of a reply I had not expected but it is welcomed.  I guess it is a man thing, now I do enjoy giving oral and had ended up in a relationship with a married lady that could care less about penetration and would not normally cum that way but she could.  

Re: This does not need to be seen as a problem

Merry Christmas and thanks for another nice post and point of view.  Maybe I forget and don't like to think aout I'm paying for a ??? session.   I like to get that part out of the way and behind us and then think of it as a date.  Perhaps that is why us gents seek out those that think like you do.

Even men who do not have trouble with erections tend to lose their hard-on during prostate stimulation, and most do not miss it.  You do not need one to enjoy it.  You can experience pleasure of unparalleled intensity during a prostate massage, and, if you can fully relax into it and not fight the intensity of the sensation, the most intense orgasms of your life are possible.  The better I get at giving them, the less often anyone (with an erection or without one) wants me to stop what I'm doing so that we can explore more traditional forms of pleasure.  It just feels so damn good and incredibly intense compared to what most men are used to.  Do you know how, right before you ejaculate, the pleasure gets way more intense and incredible?  That's because the prostate is contracting, and stimulating it directly with fingers or a curved toy allows you to ride out that incredibly intense level of pleasure for an extended period of time.  You can stimulate your penis at the same time, but it's not necessary especially if that would make you come immediately and you want to ride it out.  You can orgasm from prostate stimulation alone without touching your cock, and the orgasms are longer, more intense, and course through your entire body... pretty amazing!

Well that is also a different thought, the trouble is unless you know a provider well you can only try to figure out from their ad what is available as you cannot come right out and ask. I'm temped to move to Nevada only because I walk into any of the houses and say exactly what I want.   But I don't want to pay 50% to the house.   I am a lady supporter and she should get all the money she is working for.

Good advice. Providers are often much better at understanding and wanting to make it a good experience for the hobbyist than wives and gf's, who tend to be more in it for themselves. As a young man I popped quickly the first time with a couple women who got real mad, and ended the relationships. I'm not so quick anymore but now if I pop before I want to, providers have asked if I can go for a second round.

I use Trimix and have been able to ejaculate and continue on without losing the erection. Trimix is a fabulous drug but must be used carefully.

agree with Zoey .Prostate stimulation is great with someone who enjoys doing it and is experienced. I have ED  associated with my  diabetes  .I've always enjoyed prostate stimulation and have just discovered a friend of Zoey's who is really into  it. Our sessions have been great .