As a mature lady in the prime of her life. I prefer and enjoy mature men. As they know how to adore. appreciate. and desire a woman and do so w/o the use of words.  Mature men are special in that way.

my thoughts but not written in stone

I think that at every age, the most important aspect to happiness is to be and do what they like to do. It really is okay to come to a level of enjoyment where vanilla is ok, a little bit spicy is ok, a little unusual is ok....it is all just where your comfort level is. It is not where the 'world' tells you that you should be or what you should enjoy.
Nothing wrong with a long cuddle or a long conversation over dinner. Nothing wrong with an hour long bj or a ride to the shore....etc etc etc
Oh yes, and maybe a person has already done all the wild uninhibited/open minded stuff and now they want vanilla ~~~~ just my 2cents :

I became closed minded and inhibited around the age of 63. I'm 64 now.

At my age (81), my mind is still open and I have no inhibitions but my body does LOL

Re: my thoughts but not written in stone

I agree on all points you mentioned.

Posted By: AdelleAnderson

I think that at every age, the most important aspect to happiness is to be and do what they like to do. It really is okay to come to a level of enjoyment where vanilla is ok, a little bit spicy is ok, a little unusual is ok....it is all just where your comfort level is. It is not where the 'world' tells you that you should be or what you should enjoy.  
 Nothing wrong with a long cuddle or a long conversation over dinner. Nothing wrong with an hour long bj or a ride to the shore....etc etc etc  
 Oh yes, and maybe a person has already done all the wild uninhibited/open minded stuff and now they want vanilla ~~~~ just my 2cents  
   
 

And that's where.....(in my minds eye)....when your body can't reciprocate what your thoughts want to enjoy.....you bring in others and enjoy the voyeurism through them.

And I appreciate your thoughts, but even though some parts of my body can't join the fun, other parts can. LOL. Where there's the will, there's a way

Posted By: MatureCompanion

And that's where.....(in my minds eye)....when your body can't reciprocate what your thoughts want to enjoy.....you bring in others and enjoy the voyeurism through them.  
   
 But that's just my thoughts........  
   

Posted By: cooper80

At my age (81), my mind is still open and I have no inhibitions but my body does LOL

i think most of us become less inhibited as we age..we are willing to try things now we would never try when we were younger..these fabulous women we meet are our guides to pleasure and enjoyment..i personally have enjoyed things i would never dreamed of when i was younger..your partner's willingness to try new and sensual twists always make you a better lover..

Like a fine wine I only get better with time!

Always willing to try new things.  Not into pain, but exploring is fun.

I think that, as I have aged, I have become older, I have become MORE open-minded.  Since I turned 55, I have:

and I am OLD!!!  LOL

I became less inhibited and much more open minded when I started logging on to TER and participating in the hobby six years ago in my late fifties.  My remaining inhibitions were swept away when I started participating in group sex as a single male attending swinger clubs.

I hope that I never stop being open minded/uninhibited, but at some point my body may not be able to do what my mind would like to do.