It was 15 years ago and it was fantastic. I recall everything about the lady because we continued to see each other until she retired a few years ago.

How long ago was that and how much about the lady do you actually remember ?

Kisses Haley

at the time I thought it was pretty good.. all I had to compare to was legal brothels in Nevada.. in retrospect it was pretty bad compared to subsequent encounters..

three years ago and i pretty much remember everything... including the last engagement when she got drunk and passed out before I got my pants off... tells you something of either what she thought of me or what she thought of her profession.. or both ?

How long ago?  -  June of last year and I remember it all.

I'm 63. I had very limited experience before marriage and stayed faithful for 38 years. When my wife was medically unable to continue our sexual relationship I still managed to hold out for another 5 years. When I started blaming her for my frustration, I finally decided to to something.

I spent a good deal of time researching and deciding what I wanted to do. My first "date" was last year and like nothing you could imagine.

I had read all the reviews and hints so I had some idea what to expect. When I arrived at her incall we spent several (seemed like hours) minutes just talking and getting to know one another. She was aware that it was my first time and I made sure I reminded her. I think the expression I used was that I "felt like a 16 year old on his first date". Eventually we wound up in the bedroom where the famous question "do you want to get comfortable?" was asked and things proceeded from there. After a backrub and a front rub and a BBBJ, I was finally able to relax enough to get an erection. Tried for some penetration but "Mr. Happy" wasn't going to cooperate. The upside was that she didn't care or pressure me. She just said that there are other ways to please each other and we cuddled and talked for the rest of our time. Then I went home and rubbed one out to make sure things still worked.

Fast forward a month. Same provider. Opens door and I walk in. We kiss and I start carressing her. She is commando under her dress. ALL clothes come off quickly. Move to bedroom, BBBJ, DATY, several positions. HAPPY ENDING (not with a handjob), big smiles on both participants.

She's a special lady and yes, I still see her.  She'll never fully understand what she gave to me.

I had a few bad experiences BEFORE I found TER.   I was just reponding to ads.  Once I learned to properly research, I was successful.  That is why I encourage newbies to properly research...  
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It was about 3 years ago. I would say it was an excellent experience. All my expectations were met. We had communicated through another message board and read the things each had posted. This gave us some idea of the things we were interested in and how we felt about what was important in a sexual encounter. She looked exactly as she was portrayed in her pictures. Do I actually remember anything about her? Absolutely, as I've seen her a few times since.

Good question Haley...
It was ten (OMG) years ago and great. We remain friends to this day. She actually became a client of mine.
I still remember the image of Kellie of Las Vegas standing completely nude in front of me. She took my breath away.

Myfirst experience as a provider was an excellent one BFE

He was sexy, intelligent and handsome.

... But, I'm so grateful to the gal now. Tell you why in a second.

I knew nothing of the hobby, but I browsed CityVibe to treat myself to something new, I booked someone who placed an ad there.
The session wasn't that great, but I thought the dating an escort idea was nice. It was perhaps within the next day or two that I read something about Date-Check on the Internet. I signed up thinking that was a safer way to go.

Lo and behold, the first experience gal was a member. She became my very first reference since I had just seen her a day or two before. That opened the door for me to be able to book only providers via date-check member gals. TER membership came next within days, and then P411 last month.

So..... my first experience was bad as a session, but great in that I now have the opportunity to date the best of the best

Nooner

She was a blonde waif of a gal, but very pretty, about 20 years old I would guess.  I was 24 and a virgin.

She gave me a topless light massage with powder, and a HJ.  Lasted about ten minutes and cost $40.  By today's standards that's probably pretty poor, but I was very happy and returned next week for a BBBJTC done nude for $60.

 It's funny what I remember.  She spent several minutes picking pubes from my cock because they get stuck in her throat otherwise, she said.  I thought that was very cute of her, but I'm not even sure why.

She was a very shy and demur person, but always with a smile, and I thought that was wonderful because I had expected the person to be gruff and business like, which wasn't the case at all.

I wish I could remember her name, but hell's bells, that was some time ago.

and ended up being a $400 up-sell HJ.  For $300 you only got a 5-minute dance in her lingerie while her ex-con driver was waiting outside.

This was pre-TER/internet, and the rip-off agencies dominated my area.  After a couple years I found my first independent provider and things started to improve.

walk-in massage parlors. And as far as I can remember, they were all good, at the very least.

Same age. Same issue at home.
First time was on a business trip when I finally got up the courage and only managed a BJ - but it was the first time in my life and it was amazing .  Couldn't get it back up - the mind said go but the body said no. Did  better with the same provider a year later.
But - it opened the door and in the 2 1/2 years since I have had some wonderful expereinces and best of all, have learned about my own sexualiy and have expereinced sensations and feelings that I didn't even dream were possible.

My first experience was not a very good one.  I was in college and was out with a couple of buddies watching a ball game and drinkiing beers. We decided to head into NYC.  We had no clue what we were doing and knew nothing about the place or the ladies.  Thinking back now, it reminds me when this business was full of slime balls.

and it was going fine.  She was a tall, hot, almost 19 y/o blonde.  I remember lots more than I will post here, you can read the review.  Anyway, when it came time for the main event. Mr. Happy suddenly became Mr. Unhappy and wilted, so that didn't happen.  But for one so young, she was cool about it and finished me off orally and manually, to my great pleasure.

As a footnote, I saw her again shortly after she turned 21, and had no troubles with proper completion.  Again, a wonderful time.  Sadly, I never saw her again, and think she has left the biz.  I know she got her nursing degree, and whomever gets her for his nurse, will he be in heaven when she comes in to give his meds, or especially, his bath.....lol

Swim

I was in Europe.  Place called die Erde.  She didnt speak a lot of english and I think she was Portuguese.   It was what it was.  Then I was happy, but after my more recent experiences, it wasnt all that and a bag of chips.  

Just after divorce.... arranged to meet a lady at a nice bar in a nice hotel...It was bait and switch.... the lady that showed up was not the lady in the photo..... I bought her a drink and politely passed.  She complained but I held out.  Next night I met with "wild west kelly" (location undisclosed) and the whole experience was rippen hot.  She was quite aggressive and took the lead... it was awesome.  We ended the night by going to a late night swap club where she gently indroduced me to that lifestyle.  It was pretty crazy. Next morning I was wondering if it really happened.... talk about a shit eatin grin...all day!!!  I never saw her again for some strange reason nor did i go back to that club.  I met a asian massuse and partook of her services for the next 15 years on a monthly basis....but she had a fatal accident in 2010....

area within a few days of a significant birthday (with a zero at the end!).  As a single guy, I thought it'd be OK to get myself a b-day present in the form of a provider.  I knew nothing about the hobby, didn't know about TER, but went on EROS & got lucky.  I picked a sweet MILF-type in her late 30s or so who was a really attractive and capable lady.  Did a 3-hour meet, she came to my hotel, we went to the lounge for a drink & to talk, and she was professional enough to recognize that I was new to all of this so she took great care of me while avoiding any embarrassment or unease on my part.  So a happy start; I really thank her but she has been out of the hobby for a few years now.  It was several years later before I got into fairly regular hobbying and got to know TER, but this was a good start.

she was in college studying to be a vet.  She tried to up-sell me, before I knew the term, but I didn't have any more cash on me.  We made out and petted extensively, gave each other massages, and I had a happy HJ ending.  Even though it was not FS or a BBBJ, it sure felt good after going without for so many years.  Saw her once after the first date but soon after that, discovered TER reviews and the rest is history.

Back in 1989. She was very skinny, almost anorexic. I was so nervous that I just couldn't perform. My cock laid there just limp. I finally told her to forget it. She gave me a very pitiful look and left. I don't know   how I got past it.

It was maybe 15 years ago and was wonderful, that's why I've continue. I do think of her often but lost contact. Wonder how she is doing now.

It was 5 yrs ago, and it was wonderful. I remember her name, how she smelled, how she kissed and how nice she was.

First impressions are so important, It made me a hobbyist for life!

It was about four months ago.  Went through an agency and was lucky; had not yet found TER.  She was mid 20s college grad who sensed I was new.  She was very relaxed, no pressure and led me through a very enjoyable hour.  I remember fondly everything about the encounter and her.  Unfortunately, she soon thereafter left the agency and I have not been able to find her.  But I'll always have the memory.

I was working at a mens' clothing store after school and on weekends.  A couple of the salesmen told me about a young divorcee in the neighborhood that they would see once in awhile at lunch time at a cost of $25, which in the 1950s was a hell of a lot of money.  I finally saved enough to take the plunge.  I still remember it like yesterday.  She was in her 30s, with a fantastic body.  Since all my prior experience was with my hand, I had no idea as to how to proceed.  She was very understanding and decided to really teach me how to be an effective lover, particularly how to daty, which at first seemed terrifying!  I saw her about once a month for a year (which was all I could afford) until I left for college.  I still think of her fondly and continue to practice what she taught.  I think she would be proud that I can never get enough of daty.

I find this part of the thread very resonant, because these gentlemen describe my experience almost completely.

The way in which I differed: I set up a very elaborate and expensive first meeting - and my expectations just went wild beforehand. I thought my companion was going to be a miracle worker. But, even though she is a very pleasant person, there were no miracles to be had that night.

And the fact that I was carrying such an emotional burden meant that I didn't take full advantage of the experience: moving around in kind of an uncertain fog.

I think the true advantages that a "hobbyist" might have lie in this: he knows what he wants - and he knows what to expect.

So glad that no matter how good or how bad your first time was, you've decided to continue the hobby.

with all the great times I've had since then, it was pretty lame. In hind site, I'm lucky it wasn't worse!
It was 12 years ago before I knew about TER or any of the Internet sites. I called an agency from a yellow page ad for an outcall at my hotel. The girl who showed up was actually pretty hot and seemed fairly nice. The first negative was that one of her implants had ruptured, so she didn't look quite so hot with her clothes off! The second negative was when I asked her if she ever met anyone she really liked or had a really good time herself in the hobby and she was quite emphatic in a negative response! (Well, at least she was honest!)

My sex life up to that point had been very basic - a few young experiences and a long marriage with little sexual excitement, so what made this date seem good was that at 51 years old I got my first blow job! When I told her she was flabbergasted! She was probably thrilled that was all she had to do to make me happy!

Because my first P4P was super.  I was in my mid 20's and I saw this pretty young co-ed from UC Berkley who advertised in the local sex newspaper. I saw her a lot.

i remember everything about her, she was gorgeous!