With a lifetime of experience comes many lessons learned. There's a kinder gentler side to aging that makes sex less of an illusion and more reality driven. What perception of sex has changed as you age ?

Kisses Haley

I need not have an animal in bed that can bang away for hours. I prefer a soft sensual more mental connection. The affection and sensuality from intertwined bodies is more a turn on and someone who bangs away seems empty and non fulfilling now. Give me the 2 hour long passionate make-out lip lock any time

Kisses Haley

more about the journey to the destination. I totally enjoy the foreplay more now.

I still want the falling off the bed sex. I have some guys older than I am who have the energy and drive and stamina that they had when they were young. Kinda like me. And I enjoy journeys that are slow, playful, flirty, seductive and explored.
It's about the journey and how you take it in and make it something worth remembering.

Oh yes the cuddling and the slow search for the spot that brings chills to your partner.

MMMMMMMMMMMMMM

I couldn't have said it better..thanks sexy!

Amen. What she said.

we just wanna fuck, just like we did when we were teens.
Don't get me wrong, i enjoy intimacy, but, i always have.
So for me, nothing has really changed, except, the little blue pill!!  
I can't be spontaneous like i was when i was younger. Gotta plan the whole thing out..no meds for 3 days, take the blue pill at the right time....I HATE IT!!

pleasing her was the last thing on my mind, I just wanted to pop.  I rarely, if ever, engaged in daty.  Now, it's one my fave things to do, I love pleasuring her and really love it when I get her off.  When I was young, my only thought was me getting off.  Now, getting her off is just as important, even though I'm  paying. I want to make sure she has fun too.

Swim

An incredible, slow and sensual  journey is beyond compare!

The play is more important than the pop.

As I age I find that looks have less importance, I still love a hot lady! but I also find the sex is better when there is a connection.  Some how her pleasure is very important now!  I just love women

I like the longer visits. Spend a lot of time doing the touchy-feely stuff. Although I still occasionally dip into the bucket list, I keep going back to the same couple of ladies I have been seeing for years. It is all about the connection I have with them.