I’m 66, and I never disclose my age! In fact sometimes with new girls I’ll ask them how old they think I am. Last week I was with a cute 23 year old, and she guessed 55. My response ; “Wow, you’re very close, Thanks”. Another youngster recently guesses 50! Those responses make me feel good! Why would I disclose my age and risk a different response?
Now since I have hit 67 yo I have started to add my age when doing a brief introduction on first contact. I was wondering if others do this ? I have never been asked and my age is correct on my P-411 profile. I wonder if I am
" shooting myself in the foot " before I get out of the gate so to speak ?
If she is unwilling to see someone your age, it is best to get it out of the way before a bad session.
for doing that? Are you being asked your age?
I don't see any reason to tell your age unless you're asked.
Isn't this what screening is for? If you're using P411 to contact ladies within the system, your correct age is apparent and should she have an issue, she has the opportunity and info to make her own choices. If you're reaching out to ladies outside the P411 system, anyone who screens worth a damn would find this out anyway... and again, be able to make her own choices.
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I don't happen to think 67 is all that old and unless you've some considerable health issue that might need to be worked around, should be immaterial to the time you spend with a lady.
I am 47 yo!
I'm new to the hobby, and I provide my name, race, age (63), and height/weight on first contact. I just want to get it out there. No reason to keep it secret IMO. I've contacted 5 providers. 2 never replied, which is fine,. I've seen 2, and maybe the last one in the future if our schedules and location aligns.
I like that you provide all that up front to get the ''INITIAL'' verification information out of the way so that you start planning the perfect date and it also gives you the opportunity to let her see your personality and get a vibe from you so that the date goes smooth. I do ask for that info as well to start and if its sent to me initially I can already tell the vibe is on the right track.
In my intro I’ll lay out my age and race. Wanna avoid any awkwardness when our eyes meet. I would think most girls would want to know that. I do see it as some do ask for it on their contact forms.
But on the other hand, high volume revolving door ladies probably wouldn’t give a shit about age.Those who see those ladies probably wouldn’t bother to give that sorta info out.
I’m 66, and I never disclose my age! In fact sometimes with new girls I’ll ask them how old they think I am. Last week I was with a cute 23 year old, and she guessed 55. My response ; “Wow, you’re very close, Thanks”. Another youngster recently guesses 50! Those responses make me feel good! Why would I disclose my age and risk a different response?
When you’re that young, you just classify everyone 50+ as “old.”
When I was sugar dating, I was always making men sad by correctly guessing their age when they were sure they looked younger.
how you look and carry yourself, irl, when you give your real age, you just might get two thumbs up!
Of course, you also might get thrown out too^^!
Many of my friends are over 65, 70, 75. They are all super! So I get excited to see someone give their age
I concur! My oldest friend is 77 and hes a gem and we have an awesome time together. I basically grew with him[and the others I've seen for as long if not longer] since I have been seeing him for over 10yrs. It's fun to reminisce about how we looked back in the day and how many more gray hairs we've acquired over the years lol!
I contacted MiaMia recently for an appointment and disclosed my age (67) as per her requirement. After a considerable delay she responded rather rudely that I am way too old and she's not interested. That was a first for me.
Thank her and move on. Rather than take your money and time on a session neither will enjoy she was upfront . She did both of you a favor and did not worship the dollar.
Just move on.
She wasted your time by not informing potential clients of her requirements. If she determines that 67 is “way too old” for her to see, she should clearly state that in her ad and on her website (if she has one). The statement should be in a conspicuous place and read “I do not see men over the age of XX.” (XX being whatever age is her cut off.)
With K-girls it's part of the normal request for initial screening, and was so before the recent more intrusive demands. With some indys it was an ordinary ask also. "Name-age-race, date-time-duration..." seems a stock pattern. I just keep a handy text string with my handle, age, race, height, and beard color ready to insert whenever I'm going for a new contact; as far as I can tell, it has never caused friction. My age is in my P411 and other-site profiles too.
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If a provider did want to limit her contacts to younger guys, I would certainly want that rejection immediately rather than later (same for race), It may have happened to me silently; I wouldn't know. Rudeness has also happened, but not overtly about age.
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Your foot is intact, sir.
So at 67 I still wear the same sizes I wore in my 20s. Still 6ft tall and 165 lbs. No health issues at all. If asked I will be happy to provide my age. I do think Edrienne Cole gave the best answer. I love seeing providers like her hopefully we might meet some day. Thanks for everyone's input
In the 'other details' section of a provider's profile, a lady can choose to display that she is 'senior friendly'. This shows that the companion is 'open to meeting with older (65+) admirers'. I look for this tag when searching providers on P4.
Since you have never been asked your age----I see no reason to set up a possible objection .....Pretty sure you would be using real money...