an uncontrollable sexual desire and the multiplied pleasure of satisfying the desire with someone other than myself!

I wasn't getting anywhere in the civie side of things (That would change later.).

No regrets to speak of except that learning what I've learned in just the last few years on TER would have come in handy earlier on.

They picked me up at a restaurant I worked at. In the beginning conversation was not to personal but once we got to know each other their interest in me started to change. My mom lived with me and was in a wheelchair so if she fell or was sick I took off work. When their favorite server was missing for a few weeks they talked to one of the other girls who told them way more than I would of someone who just worked with me. Turns out both men asked me out after, which I did and then offered to help, which they did. Long story short it went from seeing just a few to many with word of mouth. Quit the job and never turned back.

Now so many years have passed. Mom has been gone over 12 years but the family I met along the way lives on and changes often. I still am a care giver of sorts to over 150 elderly who call me their friend, daughter,nurse,company or just a hand to hold.

I will say that being a real escort on the web has tarnished my image of what it is I offer. TER has given me an eyeful to what and how many people revolve around this lifestyle. Up to 2007 I saw much the same people with a new one slipping through my door once or twice a month. It was a more personal side of doing business and still see or keep in contact with my old friends and can't quite come to grips to say exactly how long. Let's just say when you put a one liner in the paper and never knew who would call. No pager or cell just a land line. I know their kids names and wives to. I have had conversations so personal and sometimes thought love was so close yet so far away. I have gone to funerals and sat in the back to say my final good-bye. I could never find it in my heart to live a lie and found it easier to walk alone than involve someone else in my lifestyle.

Kisses Haley

but the rewards out numbered the them by far.....I got a late start 47 my modivation was simple i was alone  and it seemed an exciting adventure  and back then the money just flew in...now its slower but still better than a 9 to 5  job and the dates just seem to be getting better and much more enjoyable...I do miss the passion of being in love with just one person that is the biggest  drawback for me

I was 55 when I began the hobby. Two divorces, several frustrating years of strip clubs and strippers (between and after the wives), and a same age girl friend that if she never has sex again in her life she wouldn't care motivated me to see my first provider. The girlfriend and I have since parted ways. I regret not starting sooner and skipping the strip club scene. Though I started seeing escorts within a few months of being told of a specific agency and TER. All I knew of escorts before then was street walkers and very high price providers and I knew I wasn't going to either of those. I haven't given up on finding a girlfriend that wants to have sex to spend the rest of my life with. But 'til then I will play this way.

41 when I started. I got into the biz after separating from my husband of 23 yrs. I had never had a job, raised kids all those years. I started out dancing, but the economy crashed and a friend told me about escorting. I have no real regrets except that I do kinda wish I had started yrs ago!

I started in my 30's....while I've been an escort, I've been able to meet a more quality man than ones that I worked with in the professional world.  I retired from government work and needed more to entertain me and I've enjoyed every man that I have met throughout my entire escorting career...

No Regrets here and still loving what I do...

Corey Edwards,  Atlanta, GA

Unfortunately I have always been a lousy lover so I was elated when I discovered TER at 53.  I did not have to worry about girls gossiping about my inadequencies.  I also don't have to worry about not being able to please my partner sexually.  I am happy getting laid, she is happy getting paid.  Also, now I can see young girls like I employ at work but can't touch.  Maybe not emotionally satisfying but good enough for me.  I am in Montreal right now enjoying the Quebecois company

I began with sensual massages when I was in my early 50's after having a life threatening event.  Although my wife was wonderful, I thought I was going to die without really having lived.  It cost me my marriage, but i have no regrets.  Now i can see where i would have been if i had" stayed the course", and i don't like what i see.

I now have mostly regular lovers.  However, I learned lots of things hobbling and still indulge when normal relationships dry up.  When i find a civilian who treats me like a provider, I think i will be done.

I think

I was a teenager in the 1950's.  Sex with civies was almost impossible.  Accordingly, the choice was between providers or masturbation.  For me, the choice was easy, and I have been hobbying off and on ever since.

I was 49 and missed the sensual touch of a woman.. I had many misconceptions about the hobby and only wish I had tried it sooner. My whole life may have been different. There are many wonderful people here!

I was in my early 40's and was in a slump.  My GF and I split up and I assumed I'd be back in the saddle in no time, but it just didn't happen.  Maybe it was because I was getting older, or maybe the desire to get married and have babies was waning in the women my age, but when months turned into a year I knew I had to do something.

This was in the early to mid-1990's so it was MUCH more difficult than today.  Lot's of hit-and-miss, lots of ROBs, and lots of frustration.  When I'd find someone I liked, I'd stick with them for as long as I could.  But it didn't take long before I realized what a transient business this is and the ladies come and go.

I did eventually get over my slump and had GFs for about 6 or 7 more years, but when I turned 50 it was like I became un-datable.  I also sold my big, beautiful house, which may have made me much less attractive to women.  In any case, I've been at it ever since.  I'm not nearly as active as many, but that's more a function of the economy than my desire to see the ladies.  I used to see someone weekly for several years when I had more money.

I was 24, had recently divorced my SOB of a husband & no longer had a live-in bbsitter(him), lol. A friend introduced me to this, & I've been doing it ever since & love it! I was always in customer service related jobs, so this combined my love of sex with one on one "customer service". I get to meet people from all walks of life, that I never would have met had I not entered this industry, & have made some great friends along the way!

Would have saved me a lot of heartache & cash besides.  Some civies treated me well...  and others took advantage & lied to me.   I submitt that seeing providers...  and learning to control the emotional surge post-sex...  would have improved civie dating.  It would be possilble to decide how I really feel...  before sleeping with her.
J

about the female body got me into it. The more I saw and learned, the more I was hooked.