...or don't bother following through on appointments once you're in their city?
I see gents ask all the time...but I think I went on my last traveling trip.
...who wanted to see me to come visit. None bothered answering my emails.
But that is true for NYC....a lot of no shows etc...on both ends. I agree with you!First, the jerks are the ones who cancel and you wouldn't want them as a client anyway.
Second as far as pre booking, that can be a problem. When I was single, pre booking was easy.
Now that I am married, unless my you know who is out of town, I can't possibly pre book because what if something happens and she needs me around for whatever reason. Then I would have to cancel which I have rarely done.
The crazy thing about pre booking is unless you have seen the lady before, the chances are she won't allow you to pre book. How many ads are there out there where it says don't call unless you are ready to see me.
Then there is the other situation where I have called well in advance (prior to being attached at the hip), made an appointment, driven into NYC and then the provider says sorry you have to wait I have someone.
On occasion the phone rang and rang and she didn't pick it up.
I got really annoyed one time when she wouldn't see me after a long drive. She did pick up the phone and I said that I made an appointment, I have driven 45+ minutes to see you and here I am, why did you take someone else?
Her response was that she had no shows in the past and she didn't know that I was really going to show so this cancellation stuff hurts both ways.
I live and work on Long Island, an hours drive to NYC (with moderate traffic) and that is a reason why I won't make a special trip into NYC to see anyone unless I have seen her before and she knows me.
I've made appointments and then had to cancel them. Each time it was because work called and had some emergency that had to get dealt with immediatley. Each time I saw the girl later and tipped her well to make up for the missed appointment. Prebooking a travelling girl and then not showing up is a jerk off move though. Especially so if you based your trip on seeing those prebooks. Hopefully you can make up your travelling expenses and not feel too burned...
I think Allison's comment "Karina! Dumb spell check" had to do with her mistyping, when she mistakenly typed Parian rather than Karina or autocorrect turned Karina into Parian, rather than trying to imply anything about you.
I don't know either of you, but I've only heard good things about both and I just think Allison was commenting on her error (or autocorrects error) and not trying to infer anything about you, Karina. Just my 2 cents.-- Modified on 6/4/2014 11:53:34 PM
But you handle it like a gentleman.
The trip wasn't a bust. It was profitable and enjoyable. But I've learned not to depend on people's words. Like the verification, I think a lot of TS girls will start following GG's with deposits etc...
I don't travel much. But the nice thing is I'm based in DC, and normally will meet a gent that travels here as well. So from that perspective he knows I'm real..and reliable.
I wish I spoke more than one language!
Good to hear that it was a good trip. I don't like buffoons giving my city a bad name!
Many of use gents are impulse buyers and some with families have to wait for the opportunity. This activity is not like making a dentist appointment. If the provider is an 9-10 you will not have to worry about business, a good reputation will carry you thru those cold winter months.
First, the jerks are the ones who cancel and you wouldn't want them as a client anyway.
Second as far as pre booking, that can be a problem. When I was single, pre booking was easy.
Now that I am married, unless my you know who is out of town, I can't possibly pre book because what if something happens and she needs me around for whatever reason. Then I would have to cancel which I have rarely done.
The crazy thing about pre booking is unless you have seen the lady before, the chances are she won't allow you to pre book. How many ads are there out there where it says don't call unless you are ready to see me.
Then there is the other situation where I have called well in advance (prior to being attached at the hip), made an appointment, driven into NYC and then the provider says sorry you have to wait I have someone.
On occasion the phone rang and rang and she didn't pick it up.
I got really annoyed one time when she wouldn't see me after a long drive. She did pick up the phone and I said that I made an appointment, I have driven 45+ minutes to see you and here I am, why did you take someone else?
Her response was that she had no shows in the past and she didn't know that I was really going to show so this cancellation stuff hurts both ways.
I live and work on Long Island, an hours drive to NYC (with moderate traffic) and that is a reason why I won't make a special trip into NYC to see anyone unless I have seen her before and she knows me.
Am sorry but every hobbyist is different. Some do follow through, some don't, married or not. Personally, i almost never have a problem with email pre-booking appointments as a matter those seem to be the most legit and most do follow through, it also helps regulars know that you're coming. However, its always a good idea for hobbits to know that if you're going to make an appointment at least let the provider know an hour to 2 before the actual appointment you have to cancel, that way she is prepared to schedule another appointment.