Wow! Looks like he owes you two cancel fees?! Damn...

You may consider after a first cancel not rescheduling without a deposit. He may skip you over, on the reschedule due to that, but that may save you the headache of it happening again too and leave your spots open for gents that will show up.

I will not reschedule a new friend that cancels on me, even within the allowed window not to rack up a cancellation fee, without a deposit. More times than not, they've understood my hesitation and ponied up. If they didn't, just tells me they had every intention of pulling the same stunt again...

Go after one of the ladies who at one point was sympathetic to your 'cause.' That'll impress all here. Especially the ladies. Well done.

Rather than continually see post after post being hijacked and going completely off topic, suggest that you start a separate post/thread elsewhere.  There are a number of us who really have no interest in hearing or reading about this situation.

Don't you think you should be telling that to ROD instead to some other members? Non normal guy will bailout on appointment, well maybe rod would do. And also, both parts are related, provider placed member on NBL and Rod ended up being placed on NBL, so isn't it related?

That's exactly who this was directed at.  He seems to have a dedicated following of a number of members for reasons that are now just coming to light for some of us

Sorry, I'm guessing i need stronger glasses again.  
But you know, you have to admit it, it's funny to see how he is looking for approval and attention from anyone who don't mind giving it to him. He will even find a way to blend in the topic. LOL

I'll let others categorize his behavior.  Any post that he comments quickly takes on a life of its own.  

This post started out on one very specific topic and now he wants to know what issues he has.  He just needs to take it elsewhere.  Take it to the Humor board since that is probably the type of responses he's going to get.

whether you are a provider or client. I just can't imagine it being blacklist-worthy in most situations. It's good to vent when you're pissed, but better to keep things in perspective and reserve action until after things have cooled off a bit.

If you've had enough of him, fine. Block him and move on. Collect a cancel fee if you have one. Spread word on the PO board. LOL, maybe he'll call again and you can set him up for the same!!

only to watch him not listen to anything he was advised to do to make the madness stop. And I wonder how many PMs Ms Jaye will get about the fact that he so hurt and betrayed that she spoke up publically about him having major issues?

No one fabricated anything. It all been documented with 3/4s of it on the boards. He just HAD to go on the Boston Board, didn't he? He just couldn't help himself. A thread about the Boston M&G that had nothing to do with him. Wasn't he the one that used to scream about the "board boys" hijacking threads.

Nah he didn't do a thing did he? He never does...



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I smell an epic train wreck followed by a special meltdown! You go Roddy!

....that Tidwell's blatant lies and attack on Steph's reputation was answered by one of our most seasoned and temperate members, mrfisher.  His defense of Steph, which is linked to, was simple, yet powerful.

Nuff said!

Have you nary a fabric of shame in your bones? No I didn't think so.

As creator of the longest running soap I hope you have considered staying here a while longer.

I always likened Mr. Fisher to Derek Jeter. Being a Boston resident I hope he doesn't mind it as I mean it in the classiest kind of way. The man does everything with class and style.  

Mr. Fisher weighing in on the thread speaks volumes.  

Time to change Mr. Fisher's moniker to Mr Fister for his feisty response.

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I never devised any plan.  I reacted to things written on the board by angel and Steph (There was a third gal. Was it Alexandra Millwood?) who felt hounded and stalked by him in PMs and emails . I also never asked angel to put up the posts she did on the Boston Board that led to mrfisher's post.  That is her home board and she reads it all the time.  She got an email from him asking for her physical address and it upset her.  Now Rod is blaming his own victim and playing the victim at the same time.  It's sick

And stop blaming Nick for everything. He didn't talk Angel into anything. That was YOU on the Boston board! And the crap you said about me being mad because you REJECTED me? Bawhahaha!

Where are thee threads where your email addy was shared on the board? Oh well it wasn't the email you panicked over when you wrote me, acting like it wasn't you, then confessing it WAS you. You manipulate and distort the truth every chance you can then blow a gasket when someone calls you out on it.

He posted he reported a "mean" pm to admin and got called out for lying. Liar.

to no avail.

putting on the Boston Board that I put him on NBL!Um NO I didn't. Wild accusations, so sad!



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believing he was just immature and clueless but had a good heart.  I found out differently, but only in recent days has it become clear how low he really is.

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Just another reason why you keep on winning those leading actors in a daytime drama trophies.

Keep up the good work Luke.  How's Laura?

Come to think of it, I am one of the few people who never tried too hard to help him. Sucks to be you guys, doesn't it? lol

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Over dozens of PMs... And unlike some people, I keep my PMs..

Shit I got PMs from 2004 and 2005 where guys in DC helped me get started with the hobby and gave me some invaluable tips.

Sure sounds like you are.

Needy and lonely.  You should try and make some friends.  It doesn't look like you're making any here

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of asking some girls about him.  He loves to rub that in your face despite the fact that you admitted it was a bad idea and everyone else tut-tutted you about it.  I guess making one mistake is unforgivable, but he gets a pass on all his lies, manipulations and cyber-stalkings.  The sign of a true sociopath.

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The real question thats been perflexing me with is, do you think sending a provider 50 private messages a day is fair?  
What if private messages were actually capitalism? Would your issue become my issue then?

Issue = politics and religion.  Your issue = capitalism
So here's the equation, if your issue becomes my issue,
capitalism = religion.

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3rd escort this year?  lol  

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Its sad that one would have the only weapon in the arsenal.  

And well said, as always.

is NOT in his best interest. I wonder how many people all across the country maybe overseas, would have never seen his beat down about harassing Angel had he not posted the damning link!

He really just doesn't GET IT!

Steph-SIGH...

Always entertaining to debate stuff  

band!  

One time at band camp....

 
LOL  

No seriously, I do love a good debate.

I was even a National Debater.
It just sounds kinky to say it lol

Yes, I too love a good argument....
Sadly, many here, are just not well equipped for it.

 
Shoulda went to law school!

 
Fox

you need to be able to sing, and sadly....I can't.  

Why can't you go to law school now?  I think they're still open  LOL

A blacklisting doesn't mean he'll never be able to get a date again. It just means that the provider reports her experience with the man, so that others can make a more informed decision about seeing him.

If I am about to pull a trigger on a $300/night hotel for a date with this guy...I'll be VERY happy to know he's pulled a NCNS before. In that case, I'd either refuse to see him, or ask for a deposit before giving the hotel my credit card number.

A blacklist entry doesn't always entail full identifying info, either...it can just be hobby email, hobby handle, 'John Smith', etc.

It's also worth saying that every client who's stiffed me money (they were all regulars) has been blacklisted for NCNS or something else of a non-dangerous nature. It stands to reason that a man who has enough disrespect to NCNS might present some other problems eventually. As any seasoned ho knows, pay attention to the little things, and you won't have to worry about the big ones.

One client who stiffed me, I'd seen for several dinner dates and overnights, IN SPITE of the fact that he had several blacklistings for NCNS and last-minute cancellations. But, the guy had 40+ OK's on p411, and seemed to travel a lot. I figured that stuff just happened, and I do realized that b*tches can be catty. He seemed nice, sincere, and reliable...and his TER/P411 history was very well-established. So I had no problem seeing him.

Fast forward to two years later. He got me down to another city 2 hours away from me on false pretenses of booking a date. We had a 'session', then he thanked me for coming down all that way even though he had no $$$...

My mind kept going back to those blacklisting entries. Lesson learned: if a guy pisses a girl off enough that she'll list him there, I'll take notice. I *might* still see him after I take all factors into account...BUT, it's always good to have as much info as possible.  

I BL'd my guy for ripping me off, and I'm sure he's still booking girls with no trouble.

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I don't care if Rod is sending PMs, I'm not responsible for Rod's behavior.

Your narcissism knows no bounds! That you would seriously think anyone cares enough about your nonsense to plan your demise is amazing, not to mention it flies in the face of logic...who in his right mind would want to see a piñata of your caliber disappear! Use your head, man!
 

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But since PMs and PMS only differ by one capital letter,  

PMS = Capitalism = Politics.

Does it make sense now? Hope I made my point crystal clear. Are crystals fair?

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As annoying as RT's posts can be, this one I have to completely agree with.  I got NCNS's by a lady who had reviews on here, not a lot but a few of them.  She confirmed by text as I was leaving for the 1 hour drive to her place.  Made the trip, parked, called her again.  Nothing.  Called again, and again, and again.  Left a VM bitching her out and left.  And TER wont even let me post a review warning others about it.  Bullshit.  I should be able to charge her $150 for the parking, gas, and 3 hours of time I wasted.
 

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You can still put up a warning post on your local board warning guys about her.

Blacklists have categories that label men as either time-wasters, dangerous, unsafe, NCNS, etc. and ladies write a description of their experience with the man in detail. It's not just a simple blacklist post on a guy and they are shut out of the community. It helps the lady become aware and decide if they are willing to take the risk to see a NCNS, etc. or not. I have also seen men with blacklists for ncns & last minute cancels so it isn't really the end for a client. I really don't think it's an over reaction on my part. I spent a long time getting ready for him as my only client each time and to have him cancel while I stood there waiting was not fair when given the excuse he did the exact same time. I would rather have ladies be informed so they can decide if they want to risk being stood up the same way 2 times in a row as well based on my experience.

And to the above posts on ladies who are NCNS, you really shouldn't book a second time unless you take certain measures to ensure you are 100 percent in the door the 2nd time. That is, if you still want to see her. I get that life happens, but the same excuse in the same time frame from a man is totally unfair and ladies need to be aware. It makes me feel like ladies aren't posting blacklists as much as they should be when this happens twice in a row to me.