Ladies name something you would consider doing to make a Gentleman's Birthday unforgettable if he chose to celebrate it with you! What would you do to ensure you had the time of your life celebrating your next Birthday? I personally prefer to celebrate exclusively as a Party of Two.
Let's make a slight change here by addressing your question to your auto mechanic:
Q: Hey Frank, what would you consider doing to make 619Bolt's birthday unforgettable???
A: Fix his car for exactly the same price. Then sing 'Happy Birthday' as he drove away.
The problem here: you're expecting a birthday gift (additional service) from a paid professional who's neither family or friend. That's an unfair expectation. I'm sure there are some providers here who would give you extra time if you were silly enough to blurt out "Today's my birthday!", more out of charity (and kindness) than real affection.
Here's what a gentleman would do: give your ATF/SB something special on her birthday (like doubling her rate/allowance for that day). And don't ever mention your birthday. --
And a total buzz kill.... Enjoy the gig and have some fun.
To be fair: I can see a guy booking a session on his birthday and *not* telling a provider. In that case, he's just treating himself. And he's not putting his provider in an uncomfortable position. Nothing wrong with that.
But to expect a paid professional to do something *special* for your birthday is quite sad. --z
Here's a total buzz kill: *paying* someone to celebrate your birthday. Translation: you don't have any friends.
To be fair: I can see a guy booking a session on his birthday and *not* telling a provider. In that case, he's just treating himself. And he's not putting his provider in an uncomfortable position. Nothing wrong with that.
But to expect a paid professional to do something *special* for your birthday is quite sad. --z
To expect a paid professional to ask for more money on her birthday is also quite sad. I'm just standing up for the other side.
It's not a matter of "expectations." Nice people like to do nice things for each other. Last year on my bday, my regular brought me a bottle of bubbly. A month later, on hers, it was my pleasure to return the favor
She's going to spend the entire day with me. We're going to a motel for a few hours. We're going to play. BBFSCIP as always. She's been doing this for the last three years on my Birthday. What have I done on her Birthday? I take her shopping.
Get her extra diapers and milk?
...On the gentleman in question :-
the lady i'v seen longest, more than 4 years, and i see her 3 or 4 times a year. we always celebrate my birthday with a regular session. but she's so hot and such a good kisser, it's always a big treat for me.
Expect nothing. I'm not saying that in a bad way either. Some providers may not want that "hint" dropped. If birthdays ever come up in a conversation, that's great. If your birthday has come up in a conversation it's totally up to the girl if they choose to do something special.
I think it's even more special if you remember HER birthday and do something special for her!
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I think it's even more special if you remember HER birthday and do something special for her!
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I remember my ATF's Birthday since I met her three years ago. She never reminds me her Birthday is soon. To her a Birthday is just a regular day. I love taking her out on her Birthday. She's spending the whole day with me on my Birthday. Of course we always play on each other's Birthday.
My ATF ordered one of those Princess Leia slave girl outfits at my request, and she'll wear it for my private birthday party.
I already have Christmas locked in with her. I'm taking her shopping for Christmas.