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inicky46 61 Reviews 272 reads
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how did you know your doc was gay?
Conan wants to know.

Has anyone, client or provider known or suspected this. I had an urologist, for many years who fit one of the common descriptions of a gay man at the time. He was soft spoken, very gentle, very sweet person. I wondered. More recently I had an urologist who was almost the direct opposite and about a year ago I fired him. I 'm sure that relying on stereotypical behavior as an indication of this is fraught with errors but I thought the subject might be interesting. If not, just ignore me, I'm used to it LOL

and she was one of the best doctors i ever had.  I could care less about my health care provider's sexual orientation.  I just want them to do a good job and have great bedside manner.

I agree 100% But don't you mean, you "couldn't" care less? The way your sentence reads is that it would be possible for you to care less about your health provider's sexual orientation. :)

Posted By: MissErinBlack
and she was one of the best doctors i ever had.  I could care less about my health care provider's sexual orientation.  I just want them to do a good job and have great bedside manner.

hotplants332 reads

He started out being a judgmental tool when I told him, yes, I was sexually active and, no, I was not using birth control.  

He couldn’t manage to keep his yap shut long enough to perform a simple PAP test without giving me a condescending lecture----not even about having sex without using BC (none of his fucking business anyway)-----but he thought I was having sex without being married! Here I am, on table, feet up in the stirrups….slide down…slide down….a little more…..and the guy is going full-on Southern Baptist on me.

Apparently, he was smart enough to graduate medical school, but not smart enough to Grok a pretty simple 1+1. Hello!  

I told him I was a dyke, and that I WAS married (or at least as married as I could be), and I wasn’t the least bit worried about getting prego.  Then he really turned into an asshole.  There is nothing quite like having the urge to set a guys nads on fire, when he’s holding the speculum that’s inside your vagina.  

Welcome to TEXASS! He wasn’t the only Dr over the years---just the most memorable….lol…

I don’t care about my Dr’s sexual orientation; it’s completely irrelevant. I don’t even care that much about gender, actually; even for a gyno. But, unfortunately homophobia transcends gender

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