Sorry for the weird question - I searched previous threads but couldn't find anything.

I had three white lists from reputable providers in town (granted, they were anywhere between 2-5 years old) and they all disappeared. Gone. Kaput.  

Two Questions:

-  Do white list referrals expire?  
-  Only some providers will bother with whitelisting their clients. Since I apparently have to keep rebuilding my online reputation on TER, are there any local providers that are white listers?

Thanks in advance for any guidance you can provide.

Doogieaz

Always looking for new local regulars and happy to make your acquaintance if I'm your flavor of fun.

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Madison

I would be happy to white list you...after meeting you of course

My understanding is a whitelist is a client I would see again. Someone I would give a  thumbs up referral for.

If her profile is no longer active, the whitelist will not appear to others.

Active profiles will still be visible, even if the Lady is no longer in the business .

RocketMan

That makes sense. Probably what happened.

On 3/1/2105, I reviewed a Provider and really had a good time, rated her NINE-TEN.  Actually that's damn good, right?   Look it up--Provider # 216332.    Well, she Whitelisted me, very nice of her, I certainly didn't ask for it.  About six weeks later, I was looking at my Whitelists and noticed there was none from her.  I got to thinking maybe I was wrong, and she hadn't Whitelisted me, no big deal, right?  I sent her a text or email, just for my own curiosity, wondering if she had or hadn't Whitelisted me, and she answered me back in a very SNIPPY way, telling me I hurt her with the NINE/TEN, and YES, she actually wrote TER and REMOVED my Whitelist!  Trust me, performance was great, but I've been lucky enough to have been with real TEN'S in looks, and this girl wasn't one, actually as close to 8 as 9, but I had fun and gave her 9 in looks, and she "DE-WHITELISTED" me!
She also had a whole sob story about how she was retiring and didn't even care about my review, anyway.  Well, she cared enough to let me know my 9/10 HURT her.
Sometimes, I just don't get it at all!  And, no, she hasn't retired.  They lie, too LOL!


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I would think that a provider who objects to a 9 10 review and de-whitelists the reviewer has an ego problem as well as an vindictive streak .

I've had a few whitelists disappear.  At least in P411, the OK's are still there, but the provider shows as "inactive".  Over time, I've seen discussion threads where providers do not put any faith in Whitelist approvals unless they actually know the provider.  
All in all, I'll always ask for a P411 "OK".

This is why I'm hesitant to see the top of the ranking list ladies. Airbrushed photos aren't reliable, and I've heard too many stories of the reviewers being pressured into not 'spoiling' the lady's ranking.

In the year 2105? Lmao

Just busting your chops bud. That actually sucks. A 9/10 is a great ratting.

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