I wanted to find out what kind of information i should agree to give a provider when they email me back. Some have asked me for the name of the company I work for. I don't think that's right. I'm trying to be discreet. What exactly should we give out, and what do they do with that information? I'm just a little suspicious.
It's common to be asked for that sort of information. When I'm in the US I always get the guy's name and work details and call him at work to verify he's who he says he is. It's a way of trying protect ourselves from LE and nutcases.
However, if you are not comfortable with providing this information then don't do it. Find another provider who doesn't screen so thoroughly. No visit to a provider is worth the worry afterwards if you are uneasy about the info she has about you.
I would think providers with a solid review history are very unlikely to misuse your personal info.
They do not do things with the information that you give other than use it for their safety. They dispose of the information as soon as the session is done.
Use common sense when contacting ladies, the gent who did another thread did that when a well reviewed lady asked him strange questions. Sounds like she may have been compromised. Use common sense, but giving out the information that a solid lady asks for is ok. If you have reservations, PM some of the hobbyists that have seen her recently.
Thanks everyone!
Screening, The necessary evil.
Posted by FreedomRider225 , 10/30/2005 10:22:07 PM [FreedomRider225 has 33 reviews]
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I highly recommend using a prepaid cell phone if discretion is a need. If a girl is not careful and your number ends up in her cell phone, on her cell bills, her SO or LE could question your relationship with her, or you have her numbers in your phone bill log then your SO and/or her divorce attorney has proof of infidelity. Use a throw away phone. Cost is worth the discretion and peace of mind.