I've joined this site, did my homework and had a massage with a hj that was pretty nice. The massage was $80,k and $80 more for the hj, seemed a little steep, but what am I, a first timer going to say? Let me know if you think that was a rip off or not.
My main concern is I'm very nervous about my first fs visit. I did my homework and have chosen someone who's been reviewed alot, and all very favorable. I know it wil turn out fine, but I haven't had butterflies like this for some time. I'm a little leary about DATY, bringing something home that I don't want if you know what I mean. Other than that, I'm just plain nervous.
Any advice?
anything your're not comfortable doing. Omit DATY if you're concerned.
Just tell her it is your first time. The ladies are very good at making everyone comfortable. The chances are higher that she'll catch something from you, remember that they are professionals and take very good care of themselves. The only thing you'll bring home is a smile as long as you treat her with the respect and honesty that she deserves.
Have fun!
Sure - but it may seem like kind of obvious advice.
(1) Be safe.
(2) Have fun.
'Be safe' means different things to different people. You have to decide your own comfort level and don't let yourself get carried away by the moment or what you feel you should do for the sake of balance or fairness during a session. By all means, treat the provider well - but ultimately, she is there for your pleasure. If you don't feel comfortable with DATY, don't do it. I, myself, had to ramp up. I started with no DATY but then found myself missing out on part of the experience. I weighed the odds and made a decision that's right for *me*. TER is not a good forum for the discussion of what you might pick up. But as I have said before to others: I drive, then walk to work every day. My odds of being in a fatal car accident or being hit by some colorblind idiot have got to be up there - and it's just work I'm risking this for! Certainly, there is some risk in the hobby. Eliminate lots of it by wearing a condom for the main event and decide how much you can live with for the other stuff.
And the second part of the advice is important because ultimately, this is for you. It's an experience you want to have and you're putting down the cash for it. It's natural to be nervous - even after you have multiple experiences - but it's just a sign that you're alive and on the verge of something really exciting.
And if you have chosen a provider well - one with good GFE skills, then there's no harm telling her you're a little nervous. If she's good, she'll know how to put you at ease.
Oh - massage with HJ release runs about $175-$200 per hour in my area. If you got an hour for your 160, you did ok.
Enjoy and good luck,
-PV
your trepidation will soon turn to triumph.
In regards to DATY check the below given links.
DATY safety question
Posted by ******** 12/1/2005 11:07:27 AM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13180&boardID=33&page=1
BBBJ,DATY same questions every week it seems.
Posted by MainlineGuy, 12/22/2005 1:25:15 PM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=166769&boardID=12&page=1
TER is NOT a good place to find out info about STDs.
Posted by Mr. Info, 12/19/2005 4:07:08 PM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13464&boardID=33&page=1
Go have fun. If she is a well reviewed SP then just tell her upfront that it is your first experience. Relax have fun and enjoy that new body. Explore it you will find that as you do this more you will become better at it and your nerves will settle. Remember what you are there for and remember why the SP is there. You both have needs and you both need satisfaction. If you do not want to do DATY don't believe me she really will not care. If you do want to but are still worried just wait till next time. All in all just go have some fun and relaxation.
Most amps do f/s for that or a little more.I have had my best experiences at the 2$$ level from many asian women.I have been very good at doing myhomework and always pick a girl that is truely stimulating to my eyes,ie:petite,busty and good reviews help.I have been in the hobby for about 3 years now always have a few shivers up my back when I go to meet a new girl.I have been very lucky to have found the sweetest woman I have ever met.DATY is incredible with her,it is a real turn-0n for me to have a lady O while i'm at the Y.Another reason I go to amps if that I like the idea of table showers,massage and a hot towel after.They are truly safety conscious.Plus they sound so cute when they moan.Korean girls rule.Respect is the key.Just my opinion and I would never have considered asian woman before.I guess my Ex cured me of petite busty blonds.Viagra can help for the nerves and gives a little confidence.Guys who don't really need just take a 1/4 of 100 mg just for the confidence it can instill,but too much can make it hard to cum.Happy Hobbying.