GFE to me is a provider being into there job lexi...it's unexplanable...it's like when you're with a provider and you know she enjoys what's she's doing just as you. That's a huge turn on for me..a provider that's liking it more than me keeps me interested personally...but some guys like a more submissive girl that is good at taking orders and is there to please the man by any means..that turns them on..it's just preference

As others have mentioned, the kissing, uncovered oral, eye contact and the similar is part of it.  However, I like the traditional form where the lady excuses here self, gets dolled up, takes time to bond through conversation, and allow things to progress naturally.

Examples of non GFE,  not changing into something sexy, talking about where they have to be later, explaining the minute details of the business.

I think the GFE experience is more about the details of traditional romance in addition to the basics others have mentioned.  Just my opinion of course.

Thanks babe the link helped alot

I agree with you babe thanks for the feedback

Thank for you feedback babe. Greatly appreciated

gonorrhea of the throat! sounds sexy, huh? ...

there are many ways to live a long and healthy life.
lowering risk in a risky lifestyle is the only choice.

eat well, sleep well, exercise and have a positive attitude.
dont (over)do drugs. minimize alcohol.
have a dr and be open and honest about having multiple sex partners...

What's more "frown upon" is forgetting to proof read.

People can read between the lines on your snarky "I want to live a happy and safe life" comment.. quite the judgmental jasmine.  

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I wonder if we are the same astrology sign Cayden ! Love reading your posts.

For me the key aspect that differentiates a GFE experience from other encounters is the ability of both parties to feel and behave as though the relationship is voluntary and desirable, not a commercial transaction. The details of who does what, how and when are secondary, just as they would be in a real girlfriend-boyfriend relationship.

.... those providers often called themselves "Safety girls".

WE are having sex ... as opposed to the reality that she is performing sex acts with me for a fee.  Passionate kissing happens to be a Huge part of that. My .02.

This thread is a classic example of why the Maryland Hobby Board is failing. Bickering and name calling is so counterproductive.  

I believe that Ishityounot created a thread about this earlier and no one took notice. Baltimore is a hub for conventions and tourism and no one is taking advantage of it as hobbyists and providers alike check this board before coming here.

Outside of becoming a tourist agent board, I have yet to see any provider who visits  here and asks where to stay, or what is a good place to dine, etc. be run off by any negativity.  Maybe I missed something.

IGNORE BUTTON. As in life it takes two to argue. If one refuses to play along you have nothing. Being a road warrior in the business world I have seen providers in many different states and I check both the ad boards as well as the regular board of the state I plan on visiting looking for information on prospective ladies.  

If I see providers bickering or partaking in name calling I steer clear. I don't need or want the drama. As in any business, market YOURSELF, others will either follow in suit or fall way behind you.

I see in your first post on this, you stated that both hobbyists and providers alike were the issue with the bickering and name calling.  In your response to how to fix it, you seem to be focusing on just the providers and whether you steer clear of seeing them because of their bickering and drama.  

My question was more in line with both hobbyists and providers making the board better, but in the semantics I must of lost the nature of your intent.  My apologies.

I applaud you Lexi for asking a question on a topic you were curious about, since after all that's what this board I'm sure was MEANT for. Shame on anyone who approached this topic with negativity, since it was not presented that way.

I think there were alot of helpful comments, and while I am not a man...

I think gfe comes in many forms, but generally it is just another term to separate the women who provide bbbj from the women who do not. I can argue it is more a natural joyful and sensual encounter, but that would just be MY version.  

Hugs to all,
Miss Allison 48J

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Or maybe people shouldn't read between the lines because I didnt put anything there to read. Im very straight foward if i had some bashing to do it would be done already.Sorry if I believe uncovered sex & the exchange of body fluids increase your risk for infection I thought that was a while known fact. So why are GFE ladies trying to attack me for my personal opinion. I never disrespected you ladies. Please get out of your feelings and realize I was asking a serious question not calling GFE ladies out.

Thank you tasty, I didn't know asking a question was gonna get so many people upset lol

No problem. Others may not always like it but that's life! Enjoy your Monday

"get out your feelings"
let me guess

you don't do gfe because "daddy" told you not to. Jeez!

Good question for the gents- I have asked the same thing and have been told many things actually, but unfortunately uncovered oral for both partners IS a vital part of it for most men.  Personally, I see no reason why that has to be so because girlfriends usually take time before the cover comes off while most hobbiests are deeply concerned about this.  I am a priduct to the conditioning, but still consider it a game call.   True GFE is about the romance and the genuineness of the experience for me.  It is also about building a true friendship that has boundaries that the couple involved decide are personal and meaningful for them.  

Many men are asking for PSE when they want GFE too...that makes them feel lime they missed something when they walk away without some detail that they had hoped for.  I am told greek and/ or CIM steps it up to PSE.

As for the ladies' reactions, I do think it was your assumption that your way of looking at keeping safe is somehow assuming that those of us who practice differently are less safe/ dirty.  Body fluids are transferred significantly with kissing...no way around it.  Plus you have no idea if the gent has just been with his vanilla partner before seeing you, another gent, or another provider.  So you really do not know what that mouth has been up too...as a very clean person and most of us are, I have a set hygiene regime between clients.  There is no totally safe way to practice, but I/we try.    

So yes, good question, but you could have left out the assumption stated loudly that your practice is the safe one.

I didn't assume I said how I felt at the end of the day it was a question.

Lmao Britney im independent so I don't know what your talking about. Your a beautiful woman no need to get your panties in a bunch. if you enjoy what you're doing & it works for you keep up the good work.

Hi Lexi, I had a great time when I saw you a while ago.  Not being GFE didnt detract from my experience at all with you.

You will never be Gfe by any standard without Fk either lfk or dfk and bbbj. Doesn't have to be a long one. But no hobbiest is going to buy you are a girl friend exp giving him light lip kisses and only covered cock kisses. Sorry for the hard reality off it. If that is your position and I'm fine with it., I see many non gfe providers, stop looking for validation to claim you are GFe because after all that is the purpose of your thread.  

Your are not GFE and will not be unless you change position on what you have posted.

Thanks babe

I didn't say I was GFE babe. Thanks for your input