My sense of self-ridicule is quite healthy (thank you) so I have a rule not to see a provider who is at least 5 (and preferably 10) years older than my daughter.
Which rule will make things "interesting" in a decade....
Was wondering if my fellow hobbyists shared the same thoughts?
I guess I just don't relate to the women I meet in any like manner to my daughter, so the comparison never crosses my mind.
On the other hand, I don't tend to see too many young women, so it doesn't come up very often. I have one gal I see who looks like a teen (petite Asian) but is around 30 now, but that's not far from my daughter's age.
I can't think of any particular litmus tests I have for the providers I see, other than they aren't working for LE at the time I see them
I was with a provider I have seen about 5 times a few days ago.. Very pretty.. nice & pushes my buttons... advertised as 25 yrs old.. I asked how old she really was.. she said.. "Now don't flip out.. You & I have gotten to know and like each other a lot..." I was afraid she was going to say something awful.. like too young.. I'm 65... the difference between a 25 year old, and a 30 year old or a 18 year old is really not very obvious to me.. so she said..." don't be upset... OK?".. Ok I said.. she said.." I'm 20".. YIKES !! OK.. so my answer now is.. that quirk, I now know, gives me no issues.. I think if I had known her age going in, I probably would never have seen her.. so, I guess she was right to conceal it..
Anyway my thoughts on the age of the provider is in the link I included below.
Any female under 21 is simply too young. I couldn't have sex with her. I couldn't even spend time with the few 18, 19, 20 yr old strippers I knew and I was 20 years younger then.
Yup... What I meant is not quite what I wrote. My rule:
see only providers who are at least 5 years (and preferably 10) older than my daughter.
Those darn double negatives get me every time
As my daughter ages, so do the ladies I choose. They still look younger to me as I age.
I couldn't imagine banging some 20-yo. I probably could if they promised not to talk.
I see hookers younger than my Granddaughters and it doesn't bother me a bit. They have chosen this line of work. I'm just helping them out.
But still prefer the 40 year olds.
... I thought she was definitely older.
I worked with a guy who was a White House intern for Clinton and knew Monica. He said she was a really sweet girl, kind of immature.
...I've got a hangup about seeing women where I may be as old or even older than their Dad! Needless to say, my field seems to be narrowing every year...
Miss you...
Steph
daughter is over 40 if I had a rule like that my options would be limited. I actually almost never think about that aspect of seeing ladies. And every once in a while I run across an under 25 hottie who I just can't pass up. And yes, most of the time there is little in common intellectually, but a while back I had a great time repeatedly with a 23-year-old who could relate to me pretty well (and was extremely hot!). So I think it's likely different strokes for different folks.
a woman's maturity, conversational compatibility, sexual experience, and ability to relate to an older guy and his desires and abilities. Perhaps a particular 20 something lady could fit the bill, but I won't risk the hobby dollars to find out. There are way too many mature provider choices out there. And, in my opinion, the probability of a mature lady providing me a great time is much higher than that of a 20 something lady. So I stick to mid 30s to mid 50s, with 40 to 50 being my most common choice.
When I reached 50, I decided to see providers who were at least one-half my age. When I turned 60, I changed it to at least 2/3 my age. I am now 73, so the minimum age is close to 50.
I won't see a provider who is using the same first name as my daughter.
My daughter is 30 so ....
Generally I prefer over 25, but if they are college grads or close to it I will go younger. I need to have something to talk to them about besides Justin Beiber.
On the other hand, a young body is just hot. I don't have a problem seeing the occasional 18 yo. She's not my daughter, end of story.
Which rule will make things "interesting" in a decade....
Was wondering if my fellow hobbyists shared the same thoughts?
I always seem to have a good time and he usually gets over that in five minutes because I can see his pants dancing in his zipper area. lmao I LOVE OLDER MEN