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Martha_Focker 479 reads
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Not go down on her very long.

Just do it for a minute or less.  Don't worry about her needing a recovery period.  Even if she came (unlikely with a client she just met), she still doesn't have a recovery period like men do.

How long do you go down on an escort before you actually fuck? Do most of you guys just go down for a bit to warm her up or go until she cums? Also, if she does cum, how long do you wait before you start having sex? Do women need a certain rest period?

Sorry for all the questions, but I'm lacking in experience and very shy! I'm only asking on this site because everyone here seems to be so nice. Thanks!

Chemistry is everything, first of all. As a provider, I can't say that any of the dates I've had was the same in terms of timing of festivities. Depends on the length of time of the date, really. I mean, I'll let you daty and dato the entire time but of course you want to receive what you ultimately came for;)

I personally love sex better after I cum initially. I dont need a rest period for sure! The clit is super swollen at that point and super sensitive as well making sex feel as you're in a state of euphoria. You know, when you got them eyes rolling back, moaning....ok...you get the point....lol

Don't be afraid to take control and let it be known what you desire. Good luck!

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MSHSEX436 reads

If you believe what's written in the reviews, then some clients can DATY for hours. ha.

Posted By: shyguy272
How long do you go down on an escort before you actually fuck? Do most of you guys just go down for a bit to warm her up or go until she cums? Also, if she does cum, how long do you wait before you start having sex? Do women need a certain rest period?

Sorry for all the questions, but I'm lacking in experience and very shy! I'm only asking on this site because everyone here seems to be so nice. Thanks!

lex90027365 reads

Ha ha, according to the same reviews, some guys can even have 6-8 pops an hour!


Posted By: MSHSEX
If you believe what's written in the reviews, then some clients can DATY for hours. ha.

when I clicked on your thread to which I cannot make out. It looks like a European flag. Anyhow, as I am clicking the reply button, the color of the thread also changes too. So, I am just curious as to which country your from. I am from the United States of America, where are you writing from? Thanks!

MSHSEX261 reads

The color of the thread changed for me as well when I replied to his post.

Posted By: McDonald000
when I clicked on your thread to which I cannot make out. It looks like a European flag. Anyhow, as I am clicking the reply button, the color of the thread also changes too. So, I am just curious as to which country your from. I am from the United States of America, where are you writing from? Thanks!

lex90027197 reads

" I am from the United States of America" sounds too formal! with a handle like McDonald, it's quite obvious lol!

If you are talking to me, I'm also in the U.S. but indeed I'm European ( from a country as arrogant as America ha ha ) WTF! It's pretty worrisome that TER put a foreign flag on some hobbyists located in the U.S....unless they do a background check...weird... again if you are talking to me... otherwise please disregard the answer. I'm still hungover from last night and have double vision!




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Posted By: McDonald000
when I clicked on your thread to which I cannot make out. It looks like a European flag. Anyhow, as I am clicking the reply button, the color of the thread also changes too. So, I am just curious as to which country your from. I am from the United States of America, where are you writing from? Thanks!


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MSHSEX261 reads

Exactly what I am talking about. Those types of reviews seem to spend more time on the reviewer's sexual prowess and not enough time on the physical appearance, personality, and performance of the paid escort.

Posted By: lex90027
Ha ha, according to the same reviews, some guys can even have 6-8 pops an hour!


Posted By: MSHSEX
If you believe what's written in the reviews, then some clients can DATY for hours. ha.

Martha_Focker480 reads

Not go down on her very long.

Just do it for a minute or less.  Don't worry about her needing a recovery period.  Even if she came (unlikely with a client she just met), she still doesn't have a recovery period like men do.

See, a pussy is someone unique, and not all pussies look the same, and that's a given. Some pussies are more attractive than other pussies. Some girls have regular looking pussies, while some girls have nice big pussy lips. Even the appearances differ, some pussies look like oysters, while other pussies look like it can be on the cover of penthouse magazines.

I'm kinda like that guy that does the dos equis beer commercials, the most interesting man in the world. "I don't normally dine on all pussies, but, when I do, I'll dine on some real fine quality pussy". So, to answer your question, I typically foreplay with the girl, stick a finger in or two to warm her up. Usually, I can see that she is already flowing with precum by that time, and I don't have to DATY. Her pussy is already moist and dripping, so, DATY is not necessary. However, if the pussy looks good, I'm all over that, and usually I like to stay on for about 10 or 15 minutes if the pussy looks very good. The longest I've DATY on a provider was half an hour. It doesn't seem much, but, your tongue will get tired after that, and half an hour of DATY is a long time.

One of my ATF's is very responsive and I can spend hours Dining during a session. I will revisit her clit several times as we take breaks and change positions....It is probably my favorite pastime! ;-)

Each lady is different.  For me, each lady and each session is different.  Go with the flow of your love making.  The worst sessions I have had, we're when I planned things out.

It's usually obvious if she is actually into it or not. Most will lay back and enjoy, closing their eyes and some will orchestratie your technique in order to fulfill their enjoyment.

I like taking control but love even better being asked by a
woman comfortable enough with her sexuality who will position herself in a very vulnerable and naked pose while asking me to satisfy her orally. This is Heaven.

I enjoy watching as her excitement builds from a soft and relaxed body and slowly progressing to a wild, head squeezing crescendo.

I look for the signs of excitement that are evident when she is enjoying the experience as much as I. In the beginning her hips will slowly begin to gyrate and eventually move to meet my mouth. I watch as her breathing becomes more labored and shallow and uncontrolled moans from the pleasure she is receiveing escape her. I look for her to gently brush her erect nipples with her finger tips or squeeze her breasts thus stimulating additional excitement.

My own pleasure is also intensified if she is able to reach an orgasm. Some of the signs that i wait for that may signal her release may be her hands tightly grasping the bed linens, her toes curling, her face or neck or chest may flush with color and the occasional uncontrolled escape of air or a gush of fluid that signals a convulsion from deep inside of her.

It's all a Great  !

..... In the many years that I have shared intimacy with so many ladies I can honestly say that I have never met a pussy that was not absolutely 100% visually appetizing to me and can't remember one experience that I didn't at least attempt to eat her to death.    : )

On the other hand although dato is also a favorite of mine I can't say that I have indulged in most of the ladies that i have been with for three reasons.

1 their butt hole and area is just not very pretty.

2 their butt hole area is not perfectly fresh.

3 it's obvious that they are just not into it.

Bon Appetite !

you don't want to. If you are overthinking this much now, your experience is not going to be very good. Guys who daty do because they WANT to...end of story. If you have to ask how long before you fk, well you may be better off with a blow and go where you don't have to do a thing. A gfe should not go, "OK, you have 20 min. for a bj, then you daty for 10, then we fk for 12, and repeat." That's not gfe, it's a damn robot.

Posted By: shyguy272
How long do you go down on an escort before you actually fuck? Do most of you guys just go down for a bit to warm her up or go until she cums? Also, if she does cum, how long do you wait before you start having sex? Do women need a certain rest period?

Sorry for all the questions, but I'm lacking in experience and very shy! I'm only asking on this site because everyone here seems to be so nice. Thanks!

I enjoy DATY so I do it as long as I want to. I want her to cum and if she does great, more than once even better. If I'm not getting any physical or vocal feedback I'll ask if there is something/someway in particular she likes. I don't have a plan, I don't do this first, that second, 10 minutes here, 20 minutes doing that. It's fun, spontaneous. Don't over think it. Just do it and enjoy. Don't watch a clock, and she shouldn't either.

Some ladies want a rest period. Everyone is different. Some are so sensitive afterward they want a break on direct stimulation. But continuing to kiss, caress, and pay attention to other parts is still good. If she says, now it's your turn, lay back and enjoy.

Take the reviews you read about how many times something happened or how long this lasted and that lasted with a grain of salt. The most you can get from those are what's on the ladies menu.

so she is there for your pleaure, not vice versa.

Go ahead and slurp away as long as you enjoy it.  If she can't stand it any longer she'll say something like:  "I have to have you in me right now!"  

That's her way of saying:  I've had enough.

If she has good skills, and you are tuned in, you'll both do fine.

If you decide your neck or tongue are getting achy, and she doesn't seem to be that into it anyway, you can always break off too and say you want to go for the main course.  In most cases, she will be relieved to hear that.

There is no single formula that works.  It's a dance.

Sometimes I like to spend some time with her kitty, but some ladies I don't DATY at all. It depends on how I feel and her comfortability with it as well as the  cleanliness of the Y. It's all a crapshoot so just go with your gut on it and the lady's responsiveness. Good luck, and Bon Appetite! ;)

Thanks for all the replies. I do know the provider is there to please me, but I do like to do what I can to please who I'm with as well. I guess I just over-think things, but I'll keep in mind the difference advice I received from you guys.

what a ridiculous question..just do what my dad told me at every meal..'just eat it and shut up'....

Shyguy -

I once (many years ago) found a provider who loved DATY so much that I just kept her cumming, and cumming beyond our allotted time (much to the chagrin of her booker who gave me a verbal bucket-load of excrement afterward!).  But believe me, they were real o's on her part...  

Anyway, I didn't pop on that visit, but scheduled for the next day and got rewarded with a HUGE repayment for the day before.  And I left her a collateral tip for the time we ran over the previous day...

DATY can make life good...  :)

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