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I am most definitely NOT interested in BBFS, but I hear female condoms can make it feel pretty close to using nothing at all. If worse comes to worse, I'm happy to use the regular condoms for guys, but ladies what do you think of the female condom?  Also, would it be lame of me to bring one to my next session and ask my provider if she's interested in using it?

numerous times, here's just one previous thread

bring it with you - unopened of course.

Talk to the lady and see if she has any experience with the female condom - although its been discussed on here doesn't mean alot of us have any experience with them.

Its not like we can just run over to the corner gas station and pick one up (at least not in my area) and who wants to order something they might not like using?  

So I suggest if you have one, bring it along.  Maybe you will introduce her to something she has never tried before.

BTW, I managed to pick up a couple FC's at my local planned parenthood - they said no one ever asks for them and so they have been sitting in the drawer for awhile.  So if you are wanting to try FC's, check with your local Planned Parenthood, you might be able to get one or two for free to try.

I haven't had a chance to use mine yet, but if I like them, I plan on ordering them online and keeping a stock on hand.

Personally I love female condoms. Without a doubt 99% of my clients that can use them love them as well.

The operative phrase here is " can use them ".

Not all clients can effectively use a female condom. Those that must use a Magnum or larger, may find that they have an issue. If the client is large and the provider is small then there can be an awkward effect of pulling the Fc2 out. Its something to consider.

The other thing to consider is if the companion has no experience with the Fc2. Make sure your companion has experience with them. They take a little getting used to with respect to safe and secure placement. Nothing will kill the mood faster than to have to use trial and error to get your game on.

Finally, as a personal safety issue, I would never accept such an item from a client. When I meet a client I am fully prepared with all supplies necessary to effect an incredible experience, including my own supply of Fc2. I think you may find many other providers feel the same way. However its very nice of you to consider supplying such an item and very thoughtful. They cost a bit more but are well worth it.

Just my two cents

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mind a client asking you about FC2 over email prior to the appointment? I want to try it with this provider, and I've seen her only once before, so we are not strangers to each other. That being said, we have met only once, so we are exactly not buddies either. I just don't want her shutting me down, since she is a great provider....

Advice?

I would recommend discussing this with her at your next meeting rather than through e-mail, personally.  ;)

That seems to be the safest thing to do...

because I am absolutely sure that the condom isn't going to break.  Applying enough lube to your friend's member should prevent him from pulling the condom back out...it works great for me.

I've had a Magnum break many years ago.  If you're having awesome sex with a well-endowed man, not even those will hold up.  LOL

I have found that Reagan is correct in saying that those of us on the very large side can have a challenge with the FC's  occasionally.  I have experienced the pulling effect when using them with someone who was less experienced with. FC's mostly because of a lack of lube or possibly placement.....But with the right provider ....and Reagan and I have had a few successful sessions using Female Condoms ;-).... they work great and provide a better experience than standard condoms.

I would never bring my own FC's to a date but it is something that I would discuss with her prior to meeting to see if they are something that she is comfortable or experienced with.

Good luck.

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret
because I am absolutely sure that the condom isn't going to break.  Applying enough lube to your friend's member should prevent him from pulling the condom back out...it works great for me.

I've had a Magnum break many years ago.  If you're having awesome sex with a well-endowed man, not even those will hold up.  LOL

Not for all occasions, but for a recent date with a beautiful petite lady it was fantastic. As she explained on our second date the FC was going to be much better for us both. I must agree it really was. The sensitivity and freedom of movement was very hot. Once in place I found the whole experience to be very erotic. I will continue to ask for it over male condoms.

Posted By: Jack_Inhoff
I am most definitely NOT interested in BBFS, but I hear female condoms can make it feel pretty close to using nothing at all. If worse comes to worse, I'm happy to use the regular condoms for guys, but ladies what do you think of the female condom?  Also, would it be lame of me to bring one to my next session and ask my provider if she's interested in using it?

...Women often use a toy to make sure it's all the way in.  It's not very sexy to insert but it's far more pleasurable for the man.

it takes too long to insert that thing. What are you supposed to do..walk around with it before he gets there? I would imagine you can't just hurry and jam it up there during a date, so seems to me it would break up the flow of things. Wouldn't know...never used em.

stay attached if you don't insert it like shown? Meh..I am confused. Too much trouble for me ha ha.

It doesn't roll on like a regular condom, and while I've had a few come close, no man has ever completely filled it out.  Lots of lube on him, put the condom on him and then hop on to insert it.  Then it should stay inside you, which gives him more sensation since his skin is moving against something instead of being covered by a layer of latex, which reduces sensation.

I also lube a gentleman before putting a regular condom on so that he can get some sensation of movement against the latex.  It seems to provide a better feeling for him.

I like to suck, but I love to fuck.  I think you'd prefer to suck, so the fucking part probably isn't the highlight of your encounter.  I've read that you're better than a vacuum cleaner.  LOL

I started using them a few months ago and I love them! I do supply my own though. I wouldnt use one a guy brings because face it, there are a lot of sick fucks out there and no way of knowing if he has punched a whole in it. They are great especially for the guys that have a hard time keeping it up! They say its the closest thing to BB without actually doing BB. For the guys that ask for BBFS (yes I have been ask) then I pull out one of those and that stops that immediately!
I WAS loosing sensation when I put a FC in but yesterday I had an appointment that changed all that! lol
Female condoms are very easy to insert when you get used to using them and the big trick is A LOT of lube because no matter how wet my pussy gets the FC doesnt absorb my juices.
As for the big guys, I havent had a problem. The only time I had a problem with a FC is the first time and it was because I didnt use enough lube lol
Hugs and kisses
TL

Posted By: Jack_Inhoff
I am most definitely NOT interested in BBFS, but I hear female condoms can make it feel pretty close to using nothing at all. If worse comes to worse, I'm happy to use the regular condoms for guys, but ladies what do you think of the female condom?  Also, would it be lame of me to bring one to my next session and ask my provider if she's interested in using it?

yes  ...awesome  ....bring one i  never used one before  ...

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