It's for their own peace of mind but I would say about 20% of the time I end up using mine because they either trust me or they forgot to bring any. Always helps to be prepared!
...but as a very wise lady said on the DC Board last week "condoms are made for a ladie's pleasure, if they were for a man's pleasure the packet would be empty". Just don't be surprised if she says she prefers her brand I mean it is going in her, not you. Presumably.
If it is a Greek date bring the KY, I have had one where she forgpt it and wanted to "try anyway" and I just...can't. Sex should always be fun, never uncomfortable bring it as back up......
If you can't fit it them, too fkin bad lol. I get the 100 sampler tin, and there is every brand you can imagine. I prefer Beyond Seven because the vaginy gets upset when I use a lot of other brands.
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You have certain ones you prefer.
Most professional gals will have what you need... if she asks you to buys some before... well I would be worried lol
Even well reviewed providers can have a bad day where then forget to pack them for an outcall. I've had this happen more than once. I always have some available in new unopened boxes. 99.9% of the time you won't need them but when you do, its better to be like a boy scout and be prepared.
As far as the lube, there's always DATY to add a little extra if necessary. Plus some ladies are sensitive to some of the synthetics used in some lubes.
If she has her own supply, fine. Most reputable providers will have stuff on hand. Many newer or less professional providers will not have condoms or any other supplies on hand, and some disreputable providers will use the lack of condom as a reason to not offer FS (don't expect a refund, either).
3 pack is good insurance. I always have them with me... with Favs we use mine but others often prefer to use their own.
I started picking them up in advance after an incident... when I was on the highway & got a call from my Gal-Of-The-Moment. She said she was out & asked me to stop & buy them... even offered to reimburse me... but getting off the highway, finding a store, not being able to buy the thin ones I like... and made me a half hour late which was not held against me... but annoying. So I pick up now in advance where I know the store & more convenient.
...make sure the box is still sealed and let her open it if they are needed. You want her to be assured they have not been tampered with. I have never needed to use ones that I brought but I started bringing them with me when the following happened during a session.
When it was time for the cover she opened the nightstand drawer and there were none. She looked in the bathroom. There were none. I'm standing there with my pecker in my hand hoping I don't lose my erection and trying to not get totally pissed. She pulls on a robe and goes to another bedroom to get some with a mumble about leaving them in another room. She returns and we proceed without any further interruptions.
This was at an agency in call. Had someone been in the other bedroom ( which is often the case) she would not have been able to get the condom. Now you know why I always have a couple with me when I go to a session.
As for lube...Couldn't hurt to have it but as others have said she will have her favorite and will likely be weary of using something you brought. Once you have seen her a few times and earned some trust she would most likely to be OK with it.
If you are extra large, "Magnums" are common, but not all ladies keep 'em around.
If you're smaller, you should bring your own "snug" condom like Kimono on Beyond 7. Ladies never have them. The chance of an average condom slipping of and sending up inside of her is real. No one like that.
